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I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

A.   1 May 2008: I agree with Danielepew!! And I think she is a manipulator and had no business setting you up like that. She also came into your relationship with negativity from her previous boyfriend whom supposedly treated her badly. You do not bring past ... (read in full...)

I was agitated at the fact that he told me to fructify my opportunity abroad without him! I wouldn't have ever considered leaving him anyway! What do you think?

Q.   I am in a HUGE dilema. I'll try to keep this as short as possible... I have been with my boyfriend 3 years. We initally had a rocky relationship, but now everything is perfect, and i've never stopped loving him. Everything is great. I rece...

A.   29 April 2008: You definitely need to leave and get your degree. If you stay because your boyfriend won't leave, you will later resent him for it, especially if your relationship ends one day. You have to think logically here. This is your life that you are ... (read in full...)

This girl keeps contacting my husband! How can I get it to stop?

Q.   Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and this year i found out that he had been talking to a girl for about 6 months. He says nothing hapened and so does she, but now she wont stop calling him and i am scared that as soon as i let my ...

A.   29 April 2008: I have to agree with Collaroy fully. There is no reason why your husband should be talking to another female. Next time she calls tell her to stop calling your husband and hang up. If your husband doesn't like it tell him to go live with her. He ... (read in full...)

I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

A.   29 April 2008: I must agree to the tee with lisard89 and collaroy. This lady is no good and not trustworthy. In my opinion, a cell phone is not a friggin diary and you had every right to look through it especially when you are innocently trying to figure out why ... (read in full...)

Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!

Q.   Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...

A.   28 April 2008: How can you possibly love someone who would treat you so badly as if you don't have any feelings. You need to leave him.... (read in full...)

Would great sex make guys want a relationship?

Q.   Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...

A.   28 April 2008: I agree with rproctor. A man will never want a relationship with someone who has had sex with them as a one night stand. The man will see it as....if you were that easy with him, you would be with someone else and are not trustworthy and lack self ... (read in full...)

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

Q.   My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

A.   28 April 2008: I could be wrong, but I don't think that your behavior has anything to do with sex with your gf. You are addicted to sex and can't be with just one woman so you shouldn't be involved in a relationship with anyone. If she is really that awful in ... (read in full...)

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

Q.   Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

A.   28 April 2008: If the police aren't going to help you, give her up!! Why endanger the lives of you and your girlfriend for someone who has obviously lied to you and most likely set you up for trouble. She shouldn't have gotten involved with you because now ... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   28 April 2008: I just feel that if I want to be with him 7 nights a week and he only gives me 5 nights because the other 2 nights he's getting off on porn, that's leaving me high and dry isn't it? Why would I feel inadequate when he watches it with me....atleast ... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   27 April 2008: Eddie, I am relating this to me because it has to be about me doesn't it? Ever since this happened neither one of us has looked at porn and I never watched it behind his back....we were always together. How can it be none of my business if he can ... (read in full...)

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