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Am I the only one who hates the smell and taste or sperm?

Q.   This may be strange or maybe this is common...You tell me. I can not stand the smell or taste of sperm! I freely give my husband (of 25 yrs) BJ when he wants, let him cum on my chest and he has even rubbed it on my face BUT it makes me gag! ...

A.   6 October 2010: I love it from my boyfriend in every way possible. And yeah he respects me. We love each other. Don't judge me. ... (read in full...)

How do I go about getting my girlfriend to try new things in the bedroom?

Q.   Do most women like exploring different sexual styles? I'm considering of doing different things in sex with my girlfriend. Like using toys, watching videos while having sex, fingering her, licking her, and having sex in different places like the car ...

A.   6 October 2010: shit lol me and my boyfriend have tried everything. sex in the car, sex on the beach (lol like the drink), sex in bathrooms, etc. He cums on my tits, my face, in my mouth etc. No he didn't pressure me. I asked him to do all this stuff. I actually ... (read in full...)

My partner wants to cum on my face but it makes me feel violated!

Q.   I've been in a relationship for over four years, we love each other madly and have a child together. However, my partner wants to come on my face during sex and is unhappy (which I find unbearable to live with) when I refuse to let him. I feel vio...

A.   6 October 2010: I don't get what the big deal is. I'm female and I watch porn - and not that softcore shit either. And no I'm not a slut, as I know women like to vindictively call each other. I don't believe in judgment either way. My boyfriend and I love each ... (read in full...)

Why do some women not enjoy giving head?

Q.   i dont understand why some women love giving head and others wouldnt dare even if you gave them thousands of opportunities to do it. whats so wrong with it? you ladies out there what do you think?...

A.   2 July 2010: Sometimes I feel ashamed that I like giving it to my bf but I only like it because he respects me no matter what we try and he is soo considerate of me that I had to convince him to shove my head and thrust in my mouth because I watch porn and some ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!

Q.   i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the ...

A.   5 December 2009: I'm 18 and I have sex with my boyfriend BECAUSE I know he loves me and we didn't have sex for many months after we started dating! Relationship and not only relationship, but proof of commitment, comes first! Don't let yourself be fooled. He'll see ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants to have sex with other girls!

Q.   Recently my boyfriend told me that he wants to experience having sex with other girls..quick info about us we've been dating for about 6 years now I was 15 he was 16 now (20 and 21) and we were each others first. I knew it would happen but didn't ...

A.   5 December 2009: No, no, and absolutely NO! this guy has cheater and trouble written all over him! And frankly, he's a douche bag! If he loved you, no matter how boring the sex was, he wouldn't even consider such a thing! Case closed. Respect yourself, girl! My ... (read in full...)

Am I reading into things about my teacher liking me?

Q.   Yeah, it's another one of those 'does my teacher like me' questions, but I'd like some genuine, sincere answers please. Please don't tell me whether you think it's wrong and that nothing can happen, I'm already aware of this and I'm not trying to ...

A.   5 December 2009: Oh I can relate alright! I had a crush on my AP lang teacher junior year of high school I found him really hot cuz he was manly and muscular and I would blush near him just by looking at his muscles! He was ripped!But I tended to read into it a bit ... (read in full...)

Any ideas on how to spice up a stale sex life?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have a bit of a stale sex life at present, we're going to try experimenting this weekend but could do with some ideas as what to do? Anything interesting you've tried? anything fun? We're pretty open, but have limited access to ...

A.   5 December 2009:  Watch some porn and get some ideas, but nothing too degrading. I even like him to push in and out of my mouth just a bit. Other than that, there's always doing the dishes in lingerie! My boyfriend and I had that fantasy and he said he'd come up ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend likes rough sex. How do I go about discussing this with her?

Q.   Ok, im Actually 16, i put the wrong age (duh) lol anyhoo. ive ben with my girlfriend since i was 9, it was actually more like friends who became closer overtime, anyhoo im 16 now, and shes 22, im not sure if id call this a problem or not, its more ...

A.   5 December 2009: holy crap that's a wild woman! I don't like it that rough but my boyfriend and I have done it in the forest, back seat of a car, dressing rooms at the mall, and even bedrooms and being on the ground or on a bench hurt my tailbone and left me aching ... (read in full...)

Why won't she let me cum on her face?

Q.   She let's me do it in her mouth everytime I ask, even swallows sometimes. She let's me do it on he rear all the time and once I did on her breasts but she will not let me ejaculate on her face. Isn't it unusual? Why do you think that is?...

A.   5 December 2009: I don't know. I understand many women might find it offensive because they feel like you're soiling her face as if her face isn't pretty for you. Something like that. I can empathize. Personally I let my boyfriend do it cuz I know he loves me but I ... (read in full...)

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