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... Send *ixiegirls a private message | | | *ixiegirls's profile:As a sounding board for many friends, I am often asked advice regarding various situations. Any and all advice I may give not only comes from research, but from personal experience. Having studied psychology for many years, as well as dating and relationship avenues, I try to give honest and relevant information to those seeking answers that I may have researched myself.
I am fascinated by the psychological aspects of how we interact with people, within relationships, and within society. I’ve found that understanding people and how they are explains so much of our lives. Encouraging people to believe in themselves and see their own strengths is something I truly believe in.
Now divorced, and still trying to find my own way, I feel sharing experiences with others to give support can be helpful for others trying to get through the bumps of life.
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Am I or we (me and my ex) still in love?
Q. I never dated after my divorce until 2 years later I met this woman who was out of her divorce for a bout a year. We clicked instantaneously. The chemistry between us was unlike anything either of us had encountered in the past. The main ...
A. 28 November 2010: It sounds like when the communication stopped, whether you officially broke up or not…you broke up. With two people not truly agreeing upon what they want in a future, can be an obstacle that is not easily accepted. You both went your own way and ... (read in full...)
Did she use me for my money?
Q. my gF of 6 years recently move out. said that she did not love me anymore and wanted to be on her own. a little back ground when we met she was my tenant and it grew it to a relatinship she came from an abusive relatinship and had 3 kids. she live...
A. 28 November 2010: You are really stating something you already know. If you feel you have been used….you have been used. Your biggest problem now may be not continuing to listen to her and feel bad about her situation, only to step in and try to help her again. ... (read in full...)
He keeps saying he will call me but he never does. What's his game?
Q. Why would this guy keep telling me he will call me and he never does, he's been doing this for months. I really did like him, when i call him most of the time he's avoidin my calls for days. By the he's 20 yrs old im 22 yrs old. Resently he gave out ...
A. 28 November 2010: Unfortunately, a guy that says they will call you may never have any intention of calling you, they are trying not to hurt your feelings, or they just never planned on it. It happens a lot, and should not be taken as something against you, but that ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose my high school sweetheart!
Q. hello I'm 47yr. male met my highschool sweetheart at a 30 year reunion she's 46yr. were both still married but were both seperated her for 20 yrs. me for 2yrs. we hit it off great as if we were still dating. back than i was normally a talkative ...
A. 28 November 2010: The phenomenon of reconnecting with our first love has become a more common situation than it was years ago. These relationships we had were not only special, they leave a mark, or “imprint” upon us for the rest of our lives. Studies have been ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose my high school sweetheart!
Q. hello I'm 47yr. male met my highschool sweetheart at a 30 year reunion she's 46yr. were both still married but were both seperated her for 20 yrs. me for 2yrs. we hit it off great as if we were still dating. back than i was normally a talkative ...
A. 28 November 2010: The phenomenon of reconnecting with our first love has become a more common situation than it was years ago. These relationships we had were not only special, they leave a mark, or “imprint” upon us for the rest of our lives. Studies have been ... (read in full...)
Is it just a walk down memory lane ....
Q. About a year ago I divorced and reconnected with a man I have know all my life. We had dated our senior year of high school until he moved and then again when we met up about ten years later until he moved for his job. He kept in contact with me ...
A. 28 November 2010: Is this a “first love” situation? Is he currently still married?
The feelings and relationships we had when we were younger, especially the “first love” ones, are one of the strongest bonds we may ever have with another person. Your situatio... (read in full...)
I need to let go of my boyfriend for good!
Q. I have dated my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He is my first for EVERYTHING (first guy to ask me out, i lost my virginity to him, everything). We have our ups and downs His idea of a relationship is I do what I do he does what he does and we meet ...
A. 28 November 2010: A first love makes a bigger impact on us than most of us ever realize. Studies regarding first love relationships and reconnections have shown that our first love leaves an imprint upon us, a neurological attachment between the two people that can ... (read in full...)
I want him to miss me and call me... how can I do this?
Q. well me and my boyfriend are going to be 2 years together already and i dont know why but he has changed with me a lot! Before he used to call me lots of times, we used to talk like for 3 hours sometimes i had to even take my phone to the restroom ...
A. 28 November 2010: Many relationships in the beginning involve constant texting, emails, or phone calls. This is especially common during the first three months, also called the "honeymoon" period. It is a way of getting to know someone and let the other person know ... (read in full...)
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