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Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

Q.   My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...

A.   28 November 2009: i did see his email..and while on it got an IM from his recent girlfriend of 6 months. i will spare you all the details and must say Trust Your Instinct. thank you all for the imput.... (read in full...)

Everyone has his new number but me!

Q.   hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...

A.   5 November 2009: I think not giving you his new phone number says it all. Apparently the friends who have his number know that you don't. How degrading! Do you really want to be with a person who doesn't want you to have their phone number????... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

Q.   My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...

A.   2 November 2009: btw he has read all of the posts and says that you are all wrong, you just don't understand that he is standing up for his pride and dignity and you would all surely see it differently if you had more information or understood him.... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

Q.   My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...

A.   2 November 2009: as i am packing and talking to relatives who live very far away and have their support, my husband offered to open his email. he still maintains however that it is none of my business who he knows or what he does. i am getting myself out of this ... (read in full...)

She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!

Q.   [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...

A.   2 November 2009: Perhaps it is like she said from her upbringing to not concern herself for others, although that seems completely void of human feeling which would be in my opinion a reason to get therapy. I you are not ok with being treated this way i would ... (read in full...)

Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?

Q.   My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...

A.   31 October 2009: as to markingbad's reply, i know the name on his email accout just not the password. More deception. GOOD ANSWER ... (read in full...)

I think my husband is an alcoholic, but if I leave him I'm not sure how I would support my family!

Q.   Okay, here goes....... I think my husband is an alcoholic. I have been married for 12 years now, and have 2 young children. We started dating when we were 20. We both partied back then, as well as when we first were married. I stopped when I b...

A.   31 October 2009: i believe that if you love your husband you should do all you can to help him and your family. I think you need to talk to him about the problem. Tell him how you feel he is hurting you and your family. let him know that if he doesn't get help you ... (read in full...)

On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?

Q.   Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...

A.   31 October 2009: i would rather not be asked. If i allowed him close enough into my personal space to kiss me it seems a little idiotic and inexperienced to ask. I think you can (or should) be able to tell if someone is comfortable enough with you to be kissed. ... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

Q.   My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...

A.   31 October 2009: by the way i asked to see his email. he keylogged my computer and accessed all of my information.... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

Q.   My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...

A.   31 October 2009: recent bank statements show charges for dating serveses and sexual enchencement drugs. He has violated trust and degraded our marriage. He claims he doesn't do these things and has nothing to hide. i feel justified in asking him to prove it.... (read in full...)

Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?

Q.   My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...

A.   31 October 2009: he also has a history of joining and spending a lot of money on dating services. He uses his email for comunicate with women he meets on the internet.... (read in full...)

Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.

Q.   My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...

A.   30 October 2009: By the way HIS post is "Should privacy still be allowed although you're married?" and he is much older then 30-35.... (read in full...)

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