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I cant get over my work colleague

Q.   I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We ...

A.   30 August 2007: Work wise we've always got on well, I think she's great at her job and she has always said what a great boss I am and how good I am at my job. I left my old job working with her and then she got offered a job somewhere else and whilst sorting out ... (read in full...)

I cant get over my work colleague

Q.   I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We ...

A.   30 August 2007: We have talked about the situation on several occasions, like she says what can she say ?. She thinks I keep punishing myself over it, need to move on and give her some space. Equally sometimes she makes some hurtful comments, last week she told ... (read in full...)

I cant get over my work colleague

Q.   I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We ...

A.   30 August 2007: Sadly I've tried that and we only end up, well not arguing, but only more frustrated with the other. She says that I keep punishing myself over it for no reason and need to move on and give her space, yet she also says things like how the advice I ... (read in full...)

I cant get over my work colleague

Q.   I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We ...

A.   30 August 2007: Appreciate all the advice, it doesn't help that I'm her boss and long before the attraction developed I've always thought she is one of the best staff I've ever managed in over 6 years of management. Sadly a transfer isn't possible. I keep ... (read in full...)

He got back with his ex but he calls and texts me every day. What is he playing at?

Q.   I had been seeing this lad for 2 months in which time he admitted he had strong feelings for me and phoned and texted me everyday. A month ago he told me that his ex had been back in touch and that she wanted to give their relationship another go, ...

A.   30 August 2007: He wants to have his cake and eat it, and you need to make it clear that you're not prepared to be his cake. No-one deserves to be treated like that. Perhaps give him a taste of his own medecine - next time he rings up wanting to meet up tell him ... (read in full...)

My ex is getting married next week and I'm still in love with him.....

Q.   I'm still in love with my ex and he is getting married next week.. it still hurts inside.. what should I do? I really need advice asap!!pls.....

A.   30 August 2007: There's not alot you can do. You haven't explained the circumstances but unless it's been a whirlwind romance between him & his wife to be, & he's admitted to you that he still has feeling for you, then you have to accept it, take time to heal & in ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for one of my staff but she says she can't see us as anything more than work colleagues...

Q.   I've fallen for one of my staff. We've known each other 3 years for the vast majority of which I've been her boss (we met through me appointing her for the job). She knows that she isn't my normal type, when I first suggested the idea of us dating ...

A.   22 August 2007: Ta for that, yeah the 'type' thing is difficult, it isn't something I ever announced, but we sat opposite other for 2 years so just during normal chit-chat I think she realised the type of person I'm physically attracted to. Thing is I always ... (read in full...)

Why am I feeling like I'm losing interest already?

Q.   Okay so I have this friend and we've been friends for over a year now. Well the whole time I've known him, he's had a girlfriend. A few weeks ago, he dumped her and asked me to go out with him. I accepted and we have been together since the 7th. ...

A.   22 August 2007: Sounds like he's keener than you, or perhaps more 'needy' than you. If he's a similar age to you & you've only been together for a couple of weeks to hear him saying he loves you all the time seems abit OTT. If he was with another girlfriend for a ... (read in full...)

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