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I want a threesome w/ my fiance's best friend, but my fiance is jealous and possessive. Should I just get over my feelings?

Q.   My partner and I have recently got engaged, bought a house and have finally decided to settle down after many years of playing the field. We have been together for a year now and I have so far felt that this is the last man I will ever be with. ...

A.   5 January 2007: in response to a reply from an anonymous poster, yes I would consider a threesome with another woman. I wouldn't get involved in the action with her, but I would be happy to help him enact his fantasies. We have actually discussed this. altho... (read in full...)

I want a threesome w/ my fiance's best friend, but my fiance is jealous and possessive. Should I just get over my feelings?

Q.   My partner and I have recently got engaged, bought a house and have finally decided to settle down after many years of playing the field. We have been together for a year now and I have so far felt that this is the last man I will ever be with. ...

A.   4 January 2007: Just to clarify. The question was should I help him work through the issue he has (as he is interested in it too) or forget about it. It is something we both want to experience. You all seem to be very judgemental and not at all open minded. ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't she want to have full sex with me... after two whole years!?

Q.   Dear cupid, why doesn't my gf want to have full sex with me? i am a 21yr old guy and my gf is 20, we have been going out for nearly 2 years and get on great except with sex. we have being doing oral and masturbation and nearly everything except for ...

A.   4 January 2007: Perhaps she has some sort of underlying issue she is not telling you about. Is she afraid of an infection or pregnancy. Has one of these happened with her ex? Even more importantly, has something in her past made her afraid of penetration? The ... (read in full...)

Married 3 years and have never penetrated my wife. Please help..we need some advice badly!

Q.   dear cupid, I have a very serious problem. I have been married for 3 years but till now never penetrated my wife. I ejaculate before penetration, i don't whats wrong. Recently i have got myself checked and according to doctor everything is fi...

A.   4 January 2007: Three years is a long time. I agree with rhythmandblues2. You need therapy. Without helping the situation, you will never be able to fully enjoy your marriage. HOWEVER, there is an increasing movement of asexuality in the world whereby people ... (read in full...)

We only have sex once a week he stares at porn the rest of the time!

Q.   My significant other watches a lot of porn and we have sex about once a week. I want to be with him more. I feel like hes cheating on me because he is fantisizing about other woman. I feel very low and disgusting although I have very men hit on me ...

A.   4 January 2007: Don't listen to these people who say porn is cheating, or that he doesn't care about you. Maybe you should watch it with him. As a woman who is very sexually aware, I can honestly say that watching porn can be fantastic. Even though I have no ... (read in full...)

second base scenario

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 7 months now and we are getting closer than ever. She recently told me that if i wanted we could go to second base. i don't know what to do, i'm only 14 but i love her more than anything. i'm ...

A.   4 January 2007: You're 14. You may think you love her, but trust me, you don't know what love is when you're 14. If she says do it, do it. Feel her up, just keep going until she says stop. Just make sure you stop when she asks! Just take it from someone who ... (read in full...)

Is it possible not to be able to have an orgasm?! Any advice?

Q.   is it possible not to be able to have an orgasm?! ive been with my boyfriend for 5months now and were sexually active and everytime we 'do it' he waits for me to cum first but i never have, i never have before i was with him either. In this ...

A.   4 January 2007: I didn't have my first penetration orgasm until I was 20 and on about my eighth boyfriend. I find the secret is lots of clitoral stimulation and being completely comfortable with your chosen partner. Also, talking dirty and discussing your ... (read in full...)

Can precum make someone pregnant?

Q.   me and my boyfriend had sex twice, one with a condom one without... and it was my first time, he didnt cum inside of me, i guess im asking if PRECUM is enough sperm to get someone pregnant? and we had sex January 1st and my period was over Decembe...

A.   4 January 2007: Short answer - Yes. always use a condom unless you are on the pill AND in a very permanent relationship (eg: own a house together or are married). Go on the pill and use a condom with any less permanent relationship. It is much better than to be ... (read in full...)

I 'm getting a discharge and after we have sex i'm swollen the next day. Does anyone know what could be wrong?

Q.   I (24) have a problem which i have never suffered with untill the last few months. Whenever my bf goes down on me, it makes me itch, sometimes more than others. And i get alot of discharge, i mean alot. It has no oder etc but its starting to ...

A.   4 January 2007: Just a quick suggestion - some women are also allergic to semen. If you don't have some sort of yeast infection, this is probably quite likely as about three percent of women suffer from this problem.... (read in full...)

During sex...I dry up and it's painful. Any tips?

Q.   Well... I have been sexually active for about 4 years. I didn't start enjoying sex until about a year ago. I now LOVE sex. I don't mean that I have sex with every guy I see, but when I am in a committed relationship, I can't get enough. Most of the ...

A.   4 January 2007: I also have this problem. Usually it is because of what time of the month it is for me. When you are ovulating (2-3 days half way through your cycle) your vagina produces more natural juices. Lube always works (theres a really great one called ... (read in full...)

It's hard to get my circumsised bf to cum - any advice?

Q.   Hey please help me, my boyfriend and I have been going out 6 months, we're both 15. He is circumcised, so I know it's harder for him to cum. The other weekend I gave him my first blowjob and handjob. I didn't make him cum. Is it possible to make him ...

A.   4 January 2007: It sounds to me like your boy just has a problem cumming from a blowjob. It just doesn't turn him on as much as penetration. My partner has the same problem. I find that he likes to be squeezed (as if it's my muscles contracting around him) and ... (read in full...)

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