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In love with an engaged woman

Q.   Hello I recently met up with an old friend that I hadn't seen for many years. We met on Facebook and decided to catch up. She came an dvisited me for a couple of days as I now live in a different city. We hit it off..as friends..and rea...

A.   11 December 2009: Thanks for all your wise words guys. It has helped. I'm just going to keep more of a distance, without losing the friendship. If she asks why, I'll just be truthful....I'm sure she'll understand. Thanks again ... (read in full...)

In love with an engaged woman

Q.   Hello I recently met up with an old friend that I hadn't seen for many years. We met on Facebook and decided to catch up. She came an dvisited me for a couple of days as I now live in a different city. We hit it off..as friends..and rea...

A.   10 December 2009: Hello 'Honeypie'. Thanks for your reply...much appreciated. Just want to make it clear that the texts and chats have not included anything that her partner should be worried about. Since I told her how I felt...absolutely nothing has happened, ... (read in full...)

How can I find out if my depressed exgirlfriend really wants me back?

Q.   Hi I'll keep it short. My ex girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me 3 months ago. She was suffering with depression and she couldn't handle a relationship with me anymore. She told me she still cares deeply for me but she feels too selfis...

A.   18 July 2008: Hi Thanks for your comments. She knows that I'm single as have close friends in common. I want to tell her I still love her but I know that I shouldn't. I'll just try and be a good friend, and if she makes a reference to missing me etc, then... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   4 May 2008: OK...so I'm out with my friend the other night, and she turns up just as we are all leaving the pub together to walk home. I said hello and I decided to stay for another drink with her. She was a little tipsy, and started crying saying that she ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   29 April 2008: Quick update! She texted me to see if I was okay, and I said that I felt like I had been ripped apart. I realised that this was a dumb thing to say, so I texted back again, this time telling her not to worry and that I'll be fine. Anyway, a... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   22 April 2008: Sad eyes I want to make a clean break, but I really love this girl, and I know that although she doesn't love me, I think she cares more for me and will love me over time. Its her choice now. I'm just going to move on, and if she changes her ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   22 April 2008: I don't think she had any particularly bad experiences in past relationships. I think it is more that she cannot 'love' anyone enough at this point in her life. Basically I wasn't on her mind much, even though I was the most important person i... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   21 April 2008: The bedroom side of things was great when she was in the mood, but that wasn't very often i.e. weeks without for a while, then every other day for a while! ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   20 April 2008: Hi Kay Kay I actually told (very kindly) her during the 'break up' converstaion that I thought she should consider seeking professional help. She has taken medication in the past but she felt it did not help. She told me that that she is not ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   20 April 2008: Hi sadeyes We were going out for a year also. I'm sorry to hear you had the same problem. I think I'm kidding myself at the moment, because I can't stop hoping if I give her space she may feel grief at losing me, and re-evaluate what is importan... (read in full...)

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