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Do you think my teacher may like me too???

Q.   I have a question, more than one I think. I'm from the Netherlands and I'm 16, I have this teacher (24) who is absolutely amazing and I have like.. a real crush on him. The first day I met him I was already in to him and I know it's impossib...

A.   15 May 2010: Ok, well I'm not sure of the laws in the Netherlands but I know that in many countries for your teacher to have a relationship with you would be illegal. Against the law. I don't think your teacher is doing the right thing given that he is older... (read in full...)

He played me!

Q.   [Moderator note: paragraph breaks were inserted to make this easier to read. Also, ".." was removed from every single sentence. Please use standard punctuation and paragraph breaks when following up. Please.] Haha. Here's the thing. My ex boyf...

A.   15 May 2010: Why on earth did you keep going back to this guy if he treated you that way? If you were that upset and he continually kept seeing this other girl, why did you keep going back? I don't think anyone deserves to be treated the way you were but ... (read in full...)

We adore each other and have been good for each other but I can't be intimate with him because I'm a lesbian

Q.   Hi there everyone, I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and I absolutely adore him, I love him. But I'm a lesbian. I've been with girls, had relationships with girls and I'm unable to be in...

A.   14 May 2010: Well, I did it. I feel awful, but neither of us were surprised by the revelation and we're going to hopefully stay close friends. And I will just try not to kiss girls in front of him for as long as possible.... (read in full...)

He's sending explicit photos to me and wants the same back!

Q.   This guy im talking keeps sending me non stop nude photos of him... they are veery explicit and wants the same from me. He sometimes begs for photos. I never have sent a picture but shouldi be worried? I have a feeling this guy is jut using me for ...

A.   10 May 2010: I'm with AuntyEm, this sends up big red flags in my head. I personally don't think it's ever appropriate for someone to ask for a naked picture of you. It's tacky and well, offensive I think. If you wanted to do it on your terms that would... (read in full...)

We adore each other and have been good for each other but I can't be intimate with him because I'm a lesbian

Q.   Hi there everyone, I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and I absolutely adore him, I love him. But I'm a lesbian. I've been with girls, had relationships with girls and I'm unable to be in...

A.   10 May 2010: Thanks for everyone who has answered... Ok so, as I probably expected... the general consensus is that I have to break it off sooner rather than later. But I'm not sure he can stand on his own two feet. If anything happened to him as a result ... (read in full...)

Will my boyfriend dump me if I get spots?

Q.   I love my boyfriend so much and he has told me millions of times that he loves me and he calls me beautiful loads (which makes me feel good) but he keeps making fun of people with spots and unattractive people when he talks to me, and I am just ...

A.   9 May 2010: What you have to realise here is that if this guy really loves you, he will love you for you. Spots or no spots. If you're starting to get spots, get a good face wash to use twice a day and that will help tackle that. At your age, most kids hav... (read in full...)

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