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Can someone explain to me why I'm acting paranod if thats what it is?

Q.   Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out about 6 months.....everything is fine......i think. Well im 14 and hes 16, but we've BOTH been through a lot. As in stuff adults go through in later years-things that make us more mature then others. ...

A.   16 June 2008: something is wrong! you have a keen sense although it may not be what you think because that same emotion can signify so many things. It's not like you have a built in radar for cheats. What these emotions signify is a turning point in the ... (read in full...)

I feel like I can't do anything right in my marriage!

Q.   OK so I feel like I can't do anything right in my marriage of almost 2 years. My husband is Iraq and I recently brought my sister to live with me for a couple of reasons but the main reason was to help her get her life together. I stressed to my ...

A.   16 June 2008: It sounds like you are not being upfront with him. You need to talk to him. Do not rebel. This is what starts the whole cheating scenerio many times. Tell him why you are not getting online. Is it JUST your sister? It sounds like you don't want to. ... (read in full...)

My ex and I decided that we be friends, but I realised every time we talk I become sad and depressed.

Q.   This is what happened my ex and I just stop talking to each other back in December of 2007 and well I look for him about two months later to talk to him and be friends again. Time has passed after five months later we talked about what had happened ...

A.   16 June 2008: Hey! Let me first say that you deserve to be happy. I know it is hard and I just went through some similar emotions. I broke up with my man of 3 years. He wanted to stay friends but honey, I can't move on until I let him go for good. It is still ... (read in full...)

Sex with my older second cousin?

Q.   Last weekend I went on a beach vacation with my family and I saw my second cousin who I hadn't seen in a while, who I used to just love with I was a little girl, he's my second cousin he's 40, I'm 20. I've never thought of him sexually before. But I ...

A.   16 June 2008: Hey girl, I'm 25 and I would recommend that you do not follow your desires. I know it sounds hard but if you think about it there are many consequences to persuing this man than someone closer to your age and not related. I know that you should be ... (read in full...)

Why would she send me that bumpersticker even though we werent together?

Q.   im 19 my ex-girl friend that i dated for a few years sent me a bumpersticker saying "iloveyou.don't forget that. ever." on facebook and at this stage in our relationship we talk occastionally. but when i was deleting some bumperstickers i saw hers ...

A.   16 June 2008: hey hon, I'm only a few years older than you but lemme tell ya, things change, views sharpen, emotions become more easily controlled. I think you are reading into things too much. Likely, she DID have some emotional thought of her own, she was ... (read in full...)

I've hit her and cheated on her but want to change and win her back. Please help.

Q.   I had been with my girlfriend for 3 years, throughout the relationship I was never faithful. I know what you are thinking, here we go another cheat who wants forgiveness, but in my eyes Im not that person. I could never fully open up to my girlfr...

A.   16 June 2008: I know this time is hard, emotions everywhere, but the best thing you can do for her is leave her alone, let her find someone who will treat her right from the beginning. If you truly love her, let her free. I know it is hard but she needs a little ... (read in full...)

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