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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im 19 my ex-girl friend that i dated for a few years sent me a bumpersticker saying "iloveyou.don't forget that. ever." on facebook and at this stage in our relationship we talk occastionally. but when i was deleting some bumperstickers i saw hers and idk if i want to delete it even though i want to move on.. bc if she looks at my page than shell know that i took it off.. meaning that i dont love her.. even though i kno ill always will.....n why would she send me that bumpersticker even though we werent together or talking that much
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reader, oldeyes +, writes (16 June 2008):
hey hon, I'm only a few years older than you but lemme tell ya, things change, views sharpen, emotions become more easily controlled. I think you are reading into things too much. Likely, she DID have some emotional thought of her own, she was confused, she thought she would find out how you would respond. It could be that she does not want you back but she wants you to want her. I have done this when I was your age, not serious and liked the attention. Even now I get confused about relationships that have passed and try to open them up even if I'm not as serious or I respond to men from my past who want to just see if I'm still available. It sounds like you are not wanting her back so just be quiet and don't send her any signals and she will likely leave you alone.
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