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He said I pushed him into getting married

Q.   After watching a movie with my husband about a very possessive women who was trying to force her bf into marriage and when he wouldn't she went absolutely nuts (funny movie by the way) My Husband looks over at me and says all women want is to get ...

A.   10 January 2014: Oh my goodness!!!! I cannot conceive of leaving over this remark, albeit an insensitive remark. If you left me until I remembered things the way you did, I would be sorely tempted to be sure I NEVER remembered it the way you did. I agree that y... (read in full...)

We don't ever want to have sex at the same time!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 and a half years, and though I don't think we've ever been better, I feel like we could have sex more often. He likes to have sex at bedtime because he usually conks right out afterwards, but ...

A.   10 January 2014: I am one to be direct with people with whom I am in relationship. I think any relationship is strengthened by the tackling of issues that take some discussion and working through. Do you suppose you might be willing to show him your post here? ... (read in full...)

Why was my cousin's boyfriend stroking my arm?

Q.   Hey, So this is pretty much a small and quick question. I had people round my house other day sort of a small family get together anyway my cousins "new" boyfriend was round and we all really get on but before they left I was sitting down and...

A.   10 January 2014: I am not a Pollyanna... that said, like you I hope and tend to believe it was not a "come on" or intended as an inappropriate advance. I am someone who touches people as I talk with them and it is not unusual for me to touch them just as you desc... (read in full...)

Why do men think that lasting forever is better?

Q.   This is a question mainly for the men out there. Why do you think that lasting hours while having sex is what women want? I've noticed this with all 5 men I've been with - they seem to think that lasting for ages makes them some sort of love God or ...

A.   10 January 2014: I agree that this is NOT a porn culture thing. I moved into my sex life long before porn being readily available (of course there were magazines but those certainly cannot be claimed as the perpetrators in this discussion, right?). Ask yourself ... (read in full...)

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