How can I make everyone happy this christmas, and still spend it with my boyfriend?
Q. I know xmas is a few months away but its already causing me stress! I met my boyfriend at uni on the first day, two years ago and we've lived together since. A few weeks into our relationship i met his parents who live in the London area and ...
A. 14 September 2011: I did have the same problem as you my bf's dad was up north and my mum in the south so each year we rotated who we stayed with one year my mum for Christmas and New Year with his dad the next year Christmas with dad and New Year with mum it kept ... (read in full...)
Could someone please explain men's choice of porn? Is who they watch the 'look' that really truly turns them on?
Q. So, I really want to understand how a man chooses what porn to watch... my bf watches videos featuring MILFs and latina women, but I am a young (same age as him), Swedish (same nationality as him) girl! Does it mean he prefers older and Latina ...
A. 11 September 2011: Its called fantasy everyone has them but have you asked him what he likes about them. You might be surprised as long as he is not ignoring you and putting porn above everything else I don't see a problem. I have watched porn myself with my husband ... (read in full...)
How do I settle this overwhelming desire to be pregnant?
Q. I'm 22 and my best friend is having a baby in a few days, we've been closer than sisters since we were 14 and I was there with her when she found out she was pregnant. I even bought the pregnancy test for her lol! But coming closer to her due date, ...
A. 11 September 2011: Lol. I do know how you feel I was there at 16 when my sister was pregnant but I was lucky I didn't have a boyfriend but I did grow up fast as she abandend her son 2 days after he was born so my mum and me took him in. I did all the night feeds so I ... (read in full...)
I just found out he used to be involved with my sister!
Q. Ahhh! lol I need some serious advice! I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 years. He's good friends with my step sister. It started out as friends with benefits. We only talked to each other basically when we wanted sex. And then, the sex be...
A. 9 September 2011: Enjoy yourself, Your sister should of told you 2yrs ago not now. I take it your sister already knows that you and him have been sleeping together and did not tell you because they were not serious with each other unlike him and you and she is happy ... (read in full...)
How do I confront him about the texts I found on his phone?
Q. please can you help me, i checked my partner of 2 years phone and found a lot of girls numbers and some very sexy texts, which he has replied to, i am heartbroken ,how can cofront him when i had to put his pin number in to get in his phone ,i feel ...
A. 7 September 2011: don't tell him just dump him, if he loved you he would not of cheated. You deserve someone better at the end of the day you had a doubt that something was wrong and you acted on it and now you have proof that he is a rat. If he asks why did you dump ... (read in full...)
Will the depo shot stop me getting pregnant with a new guy?
Q. Okay well, I've been on the depo shot for about a year now and I have a couple of questions about it. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 2 years and after I started the shot, we stopped using condoms, actually my gyno had told me to stop usi...
A. 23 July 2011: the depo injection is an injection that stops you from getting pregnant the pull out method you can still become pregnant with not a good idea there are different types of condoms on the market latex free ones too you need to find out what you are ... (read in full...)
I miss him so much it actually hurts!! How do I move on?
Q. I had everything and now I have nothing. I feel like me and my ex were doomed from the start. (I must apologise as this will be long and muddled due to how confused I am). Me and my ex got together 4 years ago when he was with someone else, I didn't ...
A. 23 July 2011: I'm sorry but why are you blaming yourself he lied all the way through. 1st by saying I'm free and single and second calling you a cheat. To him you have always been second best you deserve someone better and who loves you for you and he is out ... (read in full...)
She is a snake and a liar, now she wants to ruin my life again. What do I do?
Q. my ex-sister in-law had an affair with my ex-husband while we were still married - now after i have been divorced for 10 years, my ex-sister in-law is now dating my new father-in-law (i remarried in 2006) and he is recently widowed (december 2010) ...
A. 23 July 2011: nothing your father-in-law is an adult let him live his own life just stay out of it. you may not like this woman and you don't have to see her ever if your father-in-law asks you over say sorry i can't i'm busy and arrange a meet up somewhere in ... (read in full...)
Should I complain about my treatment in the store?
Q. Hey guys. This is not a relationship question, but more a question for your view point. Im 18 years of age, and suffering from a condition that my doctor is not quite certain of yet. I also have crohns disease. My condition is something to do ...
A. 15 May 2011: i would say yes as i am from the uk most stores have a policy that states that if you are still in uniform outside or inside the store you are bring the company into dispute ie acting outside the company's rules, this lady should be discipline as ... (read in full...)
I ache and saw blood. Please advise.
Q. I forgot my last period but I think its in mid 20's. We had sex last night, it wasn't my first time because we had done it 3 times or 2 before, but this time we had sex it was really painful and long, so it was really painful. My problem is after ...
A. 11 May 2011: see a doctor a.s.a.p bleeding after sex is not a good sign. periods are normally a 28 day cycle but for some it can be 30/35 day cycles but all bleeding between cycles and after sex needs to be investigated. ... (read in full...)
Are Ovulation Tests a good option to know Contraceptives are working??
Q. So I posted yesterday asking about testing for contraceptive effectiveness, but I wrote it as if I was her, and got more lols than answers... Followup Question: Are Ovulation Tests a good option to test if the Hormone Contraceptive (My GF is ...
A. 10 May 2011: why are you with your gf as you cannot trust her?
there is no test available to check if your gf is taking her pill only by watching her take it in front of you. thats the only way your going to be happy but if i was your gf you would be out the ... (read in full...)
He asked me to pay for dinner on the second date! What should I think about this?
Q. If a man asks a woman to pay for dinner on the 2nd date what should she think ?...
A. 31 March 2011: Nothing. its normal for one or other to pay for the date or go halves I did with my husband on my first date. he paid for the cinema tickets and i brought lunch. ... (read in full...)
I asked my best friend to remove my ex from his Facebook, but intead he sends him a birthday message!
Q. Hey Guys got an issue with Fb. I have posted time and again on this site and you always seemed to say the right thing; Anyways the issue I am having is with my ex. I posted a question about him early but needless to say he's been on my mind again ...
A. 31 March 2011: get over it your bf can be friends with anyone he likes STOP controlling him and everything around him. How would you like it if the roles were reversed. If you cannot get over the ex why in hell are you with your new bf. ... (read in full...)
Need help with flirting!
Q. I need some help with flirting and peaking interest in women. I've heard stuff all over the place from keeping your mouth shut and asking questions, to compliments, to put downs, to making them laugh 'til their eyes water and breaking the tou...
A. 27 March 2011: be yourself never pretend to be someone else ... (read in full...)
Is it me that makes my man hit me???? Please help!
Q. I don't no what 2 do, my man think's all I'm good for is clean cook and if he not like what I say 2 him I get hit. But he blames me and said if I do what I am told he will not get cross with me and he will not do it 2 me. So is it me that makes him ...
A. 15 March 2011: please leave asap if you have kids take them with you and don't look back or you will end up dead and your kids have no mum. My dad used to beat my mum black and blue he left her for dead when she was 7 months preggers and a few years later he tried ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he's cheating?
Q. Hi, and thank you. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Started off amazing as most relationships do. He was so charming, complimented me and loving to me. It didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. Once we got to know e...
A. 15 March 2011: Kick him to the curb any guy that starts telling you what to do is no good and yes he has cheated the signs are there.
Good luck in meeting someone new and better for you.... (read in full...)
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