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How does one learn to accept what is good enough? I feel like I can never do anything good enough

Q.   I recently ended my marriage and have a new bf who is a national rep. His work takes him away for overnights as well as many evening meetings. I hate how I act when he is away from home. I get super moody, I almost feel like he doesn't love...

A.   22 April 2016: Counselling would help you as well as going out and distracting yourself. If you stay home all day that can affect as well. My father works out of town as well and at first things were hard since me and my mother didn't know anything about the place ... (read in full...)

How can I change my bad attitude towards other people?

Q.   What is the best thing to do so I can change my attitude towards others. I have a bad attitude and this is towards anyone I have tried changing it but when I was nice and respectful others took advantage and treated me very unfair. I was ...

A.   22 April 2016: I have never heard of assertiveness training.. However it does sound like a good thing, Something that would help me. I am sure you are right everything people say I take as offence which makes me say other things and I am guessing it has to do with ... (read in full...)

Should I say something to my boss tomorrow?

Q.   I just got in an argument with my boss well basically his my general manager.And I do not know what to do or if I should do or say anything tomorrow.. He said that I have a nasty attitude and a nasty way of answering his questions. S...

A.   22 April 2016: You guys are right I either look for something or suck it up and keep my mouth shut. ... (read in full...)

Just stop talking to him or be straight up?

Q.   I am currently talking to a guy and his been trying to talk to me for 2 maybe 3 years now and I either ignore him or talk to him but for the 1st 3 min only. Well this time i decided to talk to him and we have been talking for quite a while bu...

A.   21 April 2016: Well I am sure he likes me I am just afraid he will only play but since he has been trying to talk to me forever I guess not? He said he is in a divorce plan so idk. I guess it is better to be honest like you said instead of putting it aside and ... (read in full...)

Should I say something to my boss tomorrow?

Q.   I just got in an argument with my boss well basically his my general manager.And I do not know what to do or if I should do or say anything tomorrow.. He said that I have a nasty attitude and a nasty way of answering his questions. S...

A.   21 April 2016: Everyone here dislikes the way he is. its like he doesn't agree with anyone's opinions and if he says something we should all go for it but if someone else says something he literally ignores it. I would change jobs but i just started and we use to ... (read in full...)

My friend's sister and I have been secretly seeing each other

Q.   I have two questions. I'll start from the beginning. I've been friends with a guy "Scott" for a few years. He has a younger sister who is pretty amazing but we are total opposites. She was dating a guy that her parents loved, coming from a politica...

A.   21 April 2016: Friendship is more important than relationships you can find a good girl with patience. I would talk to you r friends "scott" and tell him everything including that you would or if you wouldn't date her because of yalls friendship. I would also ... (read in full...)

He has a crush on me and it's making me uncomfortable

Q.   I'm in need of help! I'm just gonna get right into this bc it's one long story. A few months back this boy in my class started to chat with me. After a few weeks we became really good friends. We started to text and FaceTime/Skype a lot. Now this...

A.   21 April 2016: Hey there, I had a situation similar to yours. What I did was be straight and told him I liked him only as a friend and that we would never get further. At first it was awkward but after a while we started to talk again like nothing happen. Now if t... (read in full...)

My partner or my daughter? I feel so very upset about what has happened. What should I do?

Q.   I have lived with my partner for around 5 years. My daughter (now 24) lived with me....(or between my ex husband and her b/f's parents) She never paid any board money and rarely did any housework. (but that's my fault for letting her). We often ...

A.   21 April 2016: First of all one thing I always say is family first and your daughter should be more important than any partner. You can always find a partner but not another daughter like yours. You should talk with your daughter about what happend and anything ... (read in full...)

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