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I'm supposed to be getting married in May. My fiance has been again been caught talking sexual on dating sites!

Q.   I am supposed to be getting married in June. The honeymoon is even booked. After the wedding she would have been moving into my house. We have been together for over 5 years. It has been an off and on relationship for the last 3 years. Mainly d...

A.   21 February 2013: You could always tell her that you wont stop her going to dating sites anymore, because you have decided to go on them too. I bet she views that very different. Of course you will get jealous and not want her having computer sex with strange men. I ... (read in full...)

She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?

Q.   I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...

A.   7 February 2013: Do not waste your time trying to discuss anything with someone who thinks that they are better than you. Get a better girlfriend. You should be planning on getting away. Do not even think about mentioning marriage to her. Be grateful you never got ... (read in full...)

Why will my girlfriend not stop going on dating sites?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend just short of two years. She has been going on dating sites like it`s a habit for at least the past year. She has lied and lied about it, but she surely knows that I know different. We have been broke up over Christmas ...

A.   5 January 2013: Her use of dating sites caused you to break up. She wants to get back but puts her picture up on a dating site yes? Forget it and do not even think any more about it. ... (read in full...)

If he really loves me and wants to marry me, then why does he keep joining dating sites?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The last 2 have gotten rather bumpy because he keeps talking to girls on dating sites. He has asked me to marry him but because he lies to me about his dating sites it makes me too afraid to marry ...

A.   18 December 2012: Google narcissistic personality disorder and see if you can identify him with what it tells you about it. Whatever happens, you wont ever be happy. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who`s word you cannot trust, having to ... (read in full...)

She wont give up the dating sites and chat rooms, what can I do? I don't want to leave our son....

Q.   I have been living with my common law for 6 years and we have a 5 year old boy. For the last 18 months we have constantly argued over her use of dating and adult related chat room type websites. Just as always, I think we are getting back on the ...

A.   17 December 2012: Some women can be like this. The first thing goes wrong or stale and their answer is to seek male attention. You alone will not be able to give her all the attention she needs. It will never be good enough. It is not you, it is her. Leave before she ... (read in full...)

Does he just prefer being married or does he really not know how to behave?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 and half years has been pressuring me to marry him. I have been unsure because we have been making up and breaking up perpetually, over his use of dating sites. He seems to overlook how much it upsets me, even though he doesnt go ...

A.   11 December 2012: He is treating you like a fool and you allow him to. He is in a relationship with you, and also he is a member of a dating site? Did I hear you right? Why do you allow this to go on? He cheated in the past. Is there not enough red flags already?... (read in full...)

While house-sitting for my girlfriend, I discovered she is not the person she lead me to believe she is.

Q.   So I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months and I thought things were going great. We got serious very quickly however and ended up spending almost every day together. Lately I've felt very uncertain about several things I've discover...

A.   2 December 2012: There are things missing. These things that are missing, you will never be able to give her. She wants newness, to live life on the edge. She wants everything a one to one relationship cannot offer, except for the security (hence, the reason why she ... (read in full...)

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