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How do I find a virgin?

Q.   I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...

A.   18 January 2009: umm...what if they were raped too? does that make them less valuable to you? I think what you want is a truly religious woman. It shouldn't matter if she made a mistake in the past, found 'the path' as you put it later in life after she had had sex, ... (read in full...)

Uncomfortable about my body

Q.   hey, um how do i get over this feeling. I'm a bit uncomfortable with my body. I don't like talking about breasts and stuff. I mean i'm mature about it and stuff, but when other people talk about it around me, i get embarrassed. Now i've alway...

A.   18 January 2009: Maybe you just feel uncomfortable around your mum? is it possible to go shopping with girls your age? you might feel better with a bunch of girls who have similar problems. I hung out with a whole bunch of saucy funny girls, and we went to a bra ... (read in full...)

He never hugs me in bed or initiates any cuddling. This has been going on now for 4 years!

Q.   I'm hoping for some good advice. I'm a very devoted wife, and a good mother. I would do anything for my family and keeping my marriage alive. I love my husband, he is a good man. But few years ago he stopped being intimate with me. He has problems ...

A.   14 December 2008: Counselling. You need private counselling, and maybe couples counselling. You shouldn't have to suffer like this, something's going on.... (read in full...)

Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

Q.   This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomor...

A.   14 December 2008: Sex is about sex. Tell him. Maybe he's comfortable with it, maybe not. Only way to know is to aaask. You could clean up a little bit prior to, and it shouldn't be a problem. What about the shower? That sounds like a good place! Anyways, these... (read in full...)

Why are all these teenagers talking about their sex lives on here?

Q.   Is anyone else here fed up - and worried for - all the under-aged girls who come here, desperate for answers about how to solve their problems with their boyfriend who is 10 years older than them? I mean, a lot of these girls are 15 years or ...

A.   14 December 2008: Oh come on. Some kids at 13 are sexually active. Some kids at 13 are completely innocent. It's ALWAYS BEEN THIS WAY in every culture throughout human history. All you can do is encourage them to seek real answers and try to do the right thing. ... (read in full...)

My brother let me go in a foster home! Does he care?

Q.   I (I'm 15) recently loss both of my parents. My brother (he's 19) had make a choice let live with him or go live with a foster home. And you know what he picked over me HIS GIRLFRIEND (also 19). I'm in foster care now. Its like doesnt my brother ...

A.   14 December 2008: You're in a tough situation. Your brother probably cares alot for you!!! Maybe he thinks he's not mature enough to raise a younger sibling, but doesn't want to admit it. 19 is pretty young for that much responsibility. Maybe he can't financi... (read in full...)

I am 13 and I want to lose my virginity

Q.   i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity but the thing is i do not no how to have sex and plus im scared if i bleed whilst having sex!!is there any chances that i will bleed?and my mates say that you cant walk after wards is that ...

A.   14 December 2008: I am a 13 year old girl and want 2 lose my virginity but the thing is I do not know how to have sex and plus I'm scared if I bleed whilst having sex!! Is there any chances that I will bleed and my mates say that you can't walk afterwards is that ... (read in full...)

What is "Lolita Syndrome"?

Q.   hi my moms new boyfriend told me that i have Lolita syndrome and i better fix it before he is alone with me. is that some sort of disease? could he catch it from me? should i tell my mom so i can get checked?...

A.   14 December 2008: You need to tell someone you trust about this right now. Tell your mum, your teacher, a police officer, gramma, grampa, someone. If someone doesn't believe you, tell someone else! Keep telling people until they take you seriously. Th... (read in full...)

Haven't had period yet should I get fingered?

Q.   hello i need some help.. there is a big party coming up soon and this boy in my school who is 14 said at the party he is going to finger me...i want him to do it because all my other friends have been fingered by boys but..i want to know if its alri...

A.   14 December 2008: You should NOT get fingered just cos all your friends have been. Honey, that's basically the worst reason ever. You should wait till you're in a relationship with someone you care about and trust before you start getting involved in sex or sexual... (read in full...)

Can I tell if I'm pregnant this early

Q.   i had my period two weeks ago. yesterday i was having sex with my boyfriend the condom came off and he came inside me. is there away of telling if i am pregnant this early? what should i do i need to know asap...

A.   14 December 2008: What you need to do is get yourself to the doctor or the pharmacy and get Plan B!!! It can prevent pregnancy, days later!! You may not be pregnant yet, but sperm can last up to seven days inside you, so you need to do something now! If that do... (read in full...)

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