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I never overcame his past infidelities, am I being too insecure?

Q.   My husband cheated on me 14 years ago, since then we have rebuilt our relationship and have gone forward. He has been the best husband and father ever and Iam so glad that we made it work. He had recently hooked up with an old girl friend from...

A.   23 April 2010: Dear Lady, What you're feeling seems completely reasonable. I would hope that he has some degree of understanding of why you would feel that way. I think you are right to feel the way that you do. My parents have been married for over 40 year... (read in full...)

Help How do I Snog my Boyfriend for the first time

Q.   Hi im a teenager and im in love with my boyfreind and i want to take my realtionship a little bit further and i dont know how to kiss because i never have please can you help me? ...

A.   23 April 2010:  You can always just tell him that you want to kiss him. That would probably be the easiest way, and if he feels the same way, he'd probably be okay with kissing you, too! Option two is a little more gutsy; just go for it! The truth is that kiss... (read in full...)

I'm bi-curious, should I give it a try?

Q.   okay so i just found out my friend is a lesbian. i am totally grossed out. she has asked me to get physical with her but i said i dont know. i then had a dream the other night that we had sex and i liked it. i kind of want to give it a try now. what ...

A.   23 April 2010: Keep in mind that it will probably dramatically affect your relationship with that person; any type of physical intimacy with someone always affects the way that the relationship will be in the future. Keep in mind that you are not just making a ... (read in full...)

I can't let go of her past

Q.   well ive been married for 2 years and everything seems typical , but i have a problem i cant let go of , my wife told me she has had over 50 one night stands ! it bothers me sometime i feel like a sucker , she also has had three ways with guys and ...

A.   23 April 2010: Dear Sir, They say we should date with our eyes wide open and when we get married, keep them halfway shut. I think there is a lot of wisdom in this. Although our past affects who we are today, it's important to realize that we love people for ... (read in full...)

I like her but she only wants to be friends

Q.   I'm 14, female, and bi. My close friend, who is also a female has been changing her mind with me for the past 7 months. She's said that she might have feelings for me, then takes it back. We've kissed before (my first kiss) thats when I first ...

A.   23 April 2010: Dear Anonymous, What a difficult situation you find yourself in! Having a relationship with a close friend can be tricky because there is much more at risk than with someone where the relationship started with just intimate interest. It sou... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents about him now, or wait until I am fully independent? He's 4 years older than they are.

Q.   I have a question involving age difference. I have been dating a man for a year now, I just turned 20 and he is turning 43. We both are very serious about our relationship and I feel we have been very realistic when it comes to dating and the ...

A.   23 April 2010: Dear Girl, That's a difficult situation you find yourself in, and I don't think that anyone can tell you what will be the right thing to do, but I can hopefully help you to see at least some of the positives and negatives of different choice... (read in full...)

Why does everybody think it's bad when girl cheats but cool when a man cheats?

Q.   I would like to know why when a gurl cheat everybody think it's bad but when a man did the samething they think it's cool I would like to know why? Please...

A.   22 April 2010: The view that it's ok is a myth; no one really believes that it's ok who has any sort of moral compass. Unfortunately, the number of morally misguided people is pretty high. So, just make sure that you're dating people of a higher caliber of morals ... (read in full...)

I miss my girlfriend when she is not around me

Q.   hi guys, this is going to sound really pathettic. but i really miss my girlfriend. we are still together and i see her every weekend, but through the week i just miss her so bad. i feel down and just cant really be bothered with anything else. i ...

A.   22 April 2010: If I can add a few words to this, I know exactly where you're coming from on this... It's great that so many people can relate to you on this, but I'd just like to share some advice on things which have been very useful to me and many of my friends ... (read in full...)

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