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Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife

Q.   hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate somethin...

A.   7 November 2014: Thanks again, I work fulltime and she is a stay at home mommy. I will say she does soo much around our house keeping things functioning and staying on top of the bills etc. I would not discredit she has a busy day and can be tired at the end... (read in full...)

Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife

Q.   hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate somethin...

A.   6 November 2014: Thank you for all the feedback, yes we have a child and no she was not always like this. I would also point out I have tried numerous times to talk about it, not in anyway pointing any fingers or making her feel im coming down on her and pushing ... (read in full...)

Fiance wants to go away with another man to meet his parents

Q.   I am in a unique relationship as I am living with my fiance and our baby girl (6 weeks) and my fiance's bestfriend. A gay male. Now when I met my fiance she was living with this man, her gay friend. They met in the gay bar scene and are really c...

A.   5 October 2009: I told her that I did not agree with her "wanting" to go with him to see his mom and that my feelings about this matter should be her top priority. As her man I won't stand for this. She apologized for how it made me feel, yet said sorry, he (the ... (read in full...)

What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?

Q.   Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "de...

A.   11 August 2009: Thanks for your responses everybody. I appreciate the time people have taken to read my posts this past week and given their two cents. I concede that in my situation i could handle this subject better. I haven't pushed my partner for the ... (read in full...)

Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?

Q.   hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...

A.   10 August 2009: Renee okc, What the hell? Firstly, i never pressured her into anal. We tried it and she initiated that one after i told her i'd like to try and she said it wasn't her thing, however she wanted to try with me. Again i haven't been pressurin... (read in full...)

My fiance would rather sleep on the couch than with me..

Q.   hello, I wonder how common this is: my fiance will not sleep with me in our bedroom, and has not for 7 months. she prefers the couch. i do not like this at all. we used to snuggle and fall asleep in eachothers arms everynight. i have made ...

A.   10 August 2009: Thankyou for the responses everyone. ... (read in full...)

It seems there's three people in our relationship

Q.   my fiance and i live with her bestfriend ( a gay man) and this is not my choosing. Well we are having a baby and it turns out she had discussed with him that he should have legal rights of our child if anything happens to us. Not my choice, she ...

A.   10 August 2009: Thanks anonymous fella! Always appreciate useless comments. Thought this forum was for people to air their relationship concerns or problems and gain advice on how to deal with these issues from helpful people with similiar experiences or e... (read in full...)

Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?

Q.   hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...

A.   8 August 2009: thanks everyone for the input. I should apologize for not just coming out and giving all the details, its just i honestly could've written a several thousand word post about this relationship. On the issue of escorting, i don't feel i should ju... (read in full...)

Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?

Q.   hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...

A.   7 August 2009: Thankyou for taking the time to respond to my post. A little surprised by a few rather immature rude comments made but i guess thats what happens. So firstly i am not treating my fiance as a whore! She began the relationship doing this act a... (read in full...)

My fiance would rather sleep on the couch than with me..

Q.   hello, I wonder how common this is: my fiance will not sleep with me in our bedroom, and has not for 7 months. she prefers the couch. i do not like this at all. we used to snuggle and fall asleep in eachothers arms everynight. i have made ...

A.   7 August 2009: Well q1605 nice comments! So anyways as i had said and in my other question that this subject of swallowing actually is not "degrading" not a "thrill" to degrade etc.... simply know what i like and would enjoy getting it. I have never forced i... (read in full...)

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