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Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?

Q.   im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...

A.   9 June 2012: I know it's the wrong attitude but it's working. I started treating her like dirt last night in some texts. Saying if I'm just some dick on the side that's cool I don't care but I'm gonna see other people. She got all mad but she called me at 9 ... (read in full...)

Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?

Q.   im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...

A.   9 June 2012: I understand what you are saying but I can't do that :( I wish I could but I never had a woman this beautiful. The broken heart might not be worth it but I'm gonna go ahead and hit myself in the thumb with this hammer and deal with it when it hurt... (read in full...)

Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?

Q.   im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...

A.   8 June 2012: finaly she sent a text response. it is as follows word for word: im not mad at you ur great and i care for u i dont want u to feel alone i have to much drama crazy bs to be involved and i knw that ur not happy with the way things are and im not eith... (read in full...)

Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?

Q.   im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me ...

A.   7 June 2012: well its been 5 days sience ive heard from her. so i just sent her a simple text. it reads as follows: I'm too tired to keep chasing you. you know where I am.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend texts and calls random women, but denies it and gets defensive when caught!

Q.   A few months ago, while using my boyfriends phone to make a call I noticed an unregistered, unfamiliar area code number dialed late at night. Later, when I asked my boyfriend about it he said he didn't know what I was talking about and denied it. ...

A.   5 June 2012: if you have seen it with your own eyes as you said you did. then the reason he keeps lying and denying is because you let him. in his defence. i have never cheated on a woman but i doo keep lots of porn on my computer and phone. i am defensive of ... (read in full...)

Why do people always say its good to be a virgin? what's so great about it?

Q.   Im an 18yr old guy, just out of school, and I'm still a virgin...I don't understand why it's so hard...why I dislike it so much...I feel like I'm missing out...like everyone else is in on something that I'm not a part of. Then people say its a good ...

A.   5 June 2012: man dont sell yourself short. there are girls out there who want virgins. because they can shape and mould you like a blank slate. and nowdays the only thing your missing out on by being a virgin is a horde of STD's and a garnished paycheck. ... (read in full...)

Would it be safe to ask for a Fwb relationship with the neighbor?

Q.   Hi, I always have sexual urges to have sex with my neighbor. We're both 15, she's very cute and has a creamy complexion. We're classmates in elementary. And I know that she has a major crush on me. She flirts with me all the time but in the past ...

A.   5 June 2012: how do you know that you just want a no strings attatched relationship? you dont. first off 15 is to young. that being said lets look at this issue as if you were both of legal age. look at the long run because you should never make short term ... (read in full...)

Dating/sex between super skinny guy and UK size 20/22 girl

Q.   Hi, Please help - I'd really value some objective opinions! I joined an online dating site a few weeks ago and have since then met a lovely guy, who i have started going on a few dates with after exchanging emails and text messages. We've ...

A.   5 June 2012: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. i like petite girls but thats not to say a curvey woman wont get me all hot and bothered. some guys actualy perfer thick or juicy girls over slim girls. ive been with both. although i do perfer slim girls the ... (read in full...)

The Mother-Lover Theory Understanding The Emotional Needs of Women

Q.   The Mother-Lover Theory Understanding The Emotional Needs of Women By Frank Kermit, Relationships A woman can only play one of two roles in a man’s life. She is either his mother or his lover. She cannot be both. When a man addresses a wom...

A.   5 June 2012: this is a verry interesting article. im not a jerk so ive had bad luck with relationships. this sheds some light on some of my behaviors that may have contributed to short lived relationships. and some of my behaviors have made relationships more ... (read in full...)

Be the Puppet MASTER

Q.   It does feel good to be working like I’m IN CONTROL. It’s nice to be the puppet master and not the other way around. The key is CONFIDENCE. Something I ALWAYS thought I had.. till I got tangled with a man. Yes.. a man… how could I let a man let me ...

A.   5 June 2012: its sad that you got treated like that. but what is even worse is how it changed you into a vindictive vixen. leaving good men who dont treat women like dirt to smell the venom on your tounge. im not a player and never was. just to nice. and i ... (read in full...)

Do you shave your "part" before you have sex?

Q.   I asked my friend if you should shave your "part" before you have sex and she didn't know. So Im asking this site,do men like it unsaved, or shaved? I got a boyfriend and I need some advice here before we get more intense....

A.   5 June 2012: as a man i personaly perfer for the woman to be hairles in the nether reigons. i also perfer formyself to have hard wood floors. hiar is designed to capture odor. im not saying hiar makes you stink. everybody has a smell. hiar helps concentrate ... (read in full...)

I have feelings for my fwb, who I'm sure doesn't feel the same. What should I do?

Q.   Iv had sex with this girl who was a sort of friend 3 times now. It was only supposed to be no strings sex and it still is for her. problem is i'm falling for her and not sure what i should do. she said at the start that she didn't want a relation...

A.   5 June 2012: i would like to know myself..im in a similar situation. except we did not talk about relationships before hand. it was never agreed apon if it was FWB or NSA. now i got to find out..i feel your pain man. and i hope someone comes up with an answer ... (read in full...)

Will our relationship work out?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dated for six months,things were running smoothly as we wer so much inlove. I love him so much the problem is he nolonger treats me like before,evrything is changed,the communication is down,we dont see each other as we ...

A.   5 June 2012: im not trying to be mean when i say this. when people are in a new relationship things are fresh and new. but after a couple of months, sometimes weeks or days, people get used to eachother. in essence maybe the new girlfriend smell has worn off. ... (read in full...)

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