Should I settle with him?
Q. I recently just left a 10 year relationship to a man I was engaged to. We've had our ups and downs and I think I should have left earlier, I was just too comfortable and scared to do so. We now have this new house that we've both committed to and ...
A. 23 August 2011: I'm very happy to know you found some happiness and comfort after all that, even better, you made us aware of that.
Strange how fast a year has gone by, it feels like only a few weeks as i remember your question and my reply very well.
You are... (read in full...)
Advice desperately needed on how to lift myself up and begin again??
Q. I am in desperate need of some help, answers, something. I feel as if I am loosing my spirit if not entirely lost already. I have lost everything car, Home, spouse, career. and have ended up on the couch of my family. which is awful considering as a ...
A. 14 October 2010: This man is a mad man, for a dying man he sure is clingy. He sounds a bit like my mother's ex, who would give her something then later take it back, like a phone and act really stupid, he was on drugs and that explained his odd behaviour.
You k... (read in full...)
How is it with medical practioners?
Q. I know they don't get emotionally involved with their patients.But in my experience there are a few who really are compassionate and loving and are very sincere with their patients and their familes. I though I had met one like that whom I emailed,...
A. 12 October 2010: He is a professional, do not expect him to be texting you on a personal level for any other reason than a medical importants.
Now that you are no longer his patient you shouldn't be taking things so personal that he has stopped texting you and ... (read in full...)
He took it nonchalantly when I said "I love you"
Q. I am 60 and have been dating a 63 yr. old widower for about a month and a half. He has been telling me for a couple of weeks now that he loves me.. I was hesitant to reply in kind because I didn't think I knew him well enough to respond the same. ...
A. 7 October 2010: Don't feel insecure about your self, i've seen this happen before, and the reason why was out of insecurity and lack of feeling loved, once you give that love back the person no longer feels unloved and insecure and therefore stops giving love to ... (read in full...)
I stole money from my date and now I'm scared!
Q. I need help! I meet this guy at a bar we exchanged numbers went on 2nd date. He has a bit of an ego but I kinda liked it. But he turned me off because he kept talking about all the money he had that he had everything he wanted. We went to a hotel ...
A. 7 October 2010: Strange story for an adult i must say, i'm guessing you didn't even need the money...He's probably pissed off at your attitude more than anything else and not the money, saying you don't usually bed a guy you barely know and all that is just ... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and a virgin!
Q. i am 23 years old guy and going to be 24 this December......and i am still a virgin.... i masturbate when i feel turning on, but about sex with a girl(i feel like is it right to have sex with any girl who likes me, or to whom i like?).....
A. 7 October 2010: I think some women and men make out being a male virgin is bad because a male virgin lack the experience to satisfy a woman virgin or not, it may seem like this.
If you want to be a virgin tll marriage then it is of course not a bad, it's bad to a... (read in full...)
How do women decide whether a man is to be a friend or a boyfriend?
Q. I'm 25, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. The strange thing is that I've always had more female friends than the average man does. (No, I don't get mistaken for being gay) I'm not a recluse and I cannot understand why other men have so ...
A. 7 October 2010: I like your answer xanthic it's good, However Ed12345, the "safe" method has been failing you. so please drop it and try something wild and new, know your place when doing so, i can tell your a good guy and know the limits to wild so no worries ... (read in full...)
How do women decide whether a man is to be a friend or a boyfriend?
Q. I'm 25, a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. The strange thing is that I've always had more female friends than the average man does. (No, I don't get mistaken for being gay) I'm not a recluse and I cannot understand why other men have so ...
A. 6 October 2010: This is an easy one buddy, when you first meet a potential partner you need to make one thing clear, You need to make you interest in her other than friendship VERY clear. This is all apart of the first impression thing too, once you've made it c... (read in full...)
Advice desperately needed on how to lift myself up and begin again??
Q. I am in desperate need of some help, answers, something. I feel as if I am loosing my spirit if not entirely lost already. I have lost everything car, Home, spouse, career. and have ended up on the couch of my family. which is awful considering as a ...
A. 6 October 2010: I honestly don't think you should keep it purely because as you said, it keeps you at his mercy, and you are trying to get away from exactly this. However in reality a car offers alot of flexability, being mobile is importand and having a car makes ... (read in full...)
Advice desperately needed on how to lift myself up and begin again??
Q. I am in desperate need of some help, answers, something. I feel as if I am loosing my spirit if not entirely lost already. I have lost everything car, Home, spouse, career. and have ended up on the couch of my family. which is awful considering as a ...
A. 5 October 2010: :- ) glad to hear some good news... (read in full...)
What to do about my boyfriend? And his best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and lately I've noticed some changes. I'll shorten this as much as I can.. He's kind of addicted to an online game, and I think that's where all of his problems come from. He gets ...
A. 4 October 2010: You are very young and still have alot of life to live, so a mutal break up is not so bad. So strange though how you both can stay such close friends after a relationship... (read in full...)
The relationship changed after we slept together
Q. Hello all, I used to be the greatest girl ever. The one who was cute, sweet, sexy, smart and funny. He was contacting me on a daily basis and every time we went out together it was clear that we liked each other very much. I am not the kind of ...
A. 4 October 2010: I disagree with the pervious answer. Sometimes after a long chase with a girl, maybe a guy likes to take some pride in saying "well i tapped that ass" not saying that is a good thing but not saying it is bad either!
See, your looks and characte... (read in full...)
Should I try to help him with this health issue?
Q. I hope that terms i used are not too explicit, just to make it clearer. I've been with my boyfriend for longer than a year now. We have a long distance relationship. We've never had a couple before, so we took things a bit slow (we were friend...
A. 3 October 2010: Hmm, i see that you are both worried about a surgical treatment, i do believe this is the best way, and i would ignore the fact that some people have had bad experience with surgical treatments, that is the same as with anything else, it can go ... (read in full...)
Does he need a good bye letter?
Q. I thought I met the love of my life when I went on vacation in the summer of 08. I was going through so much at the time and I took a trip to clear my head, and there he was, the same person I loved as a little girl growing up. We spoke for hours, ...
A. 3 October 2010: That's is true he could still turn up of course, but everyone needs closure including him. i don't believe it leaves the door open, infact i believe it closes the door.
Leaving without saying anything will urge him to find a reason why... that urg... (read in full...)
Advice desperately needed on how to lift myself up and begin again??
Q. I am in desperate need of some help, answers, something. I feel as if I am loosing my spirit if not entirely lost already. I have lost everything car, Home, spouse, career. and have ended up on the couch of my family. which is awful considering as a ...
A. 3 October 2010: Very hard to say anything that could help you not knowing where how it all ended.
I feel for you :- ( this is not nice at all, what happened to your career? because your first step would be to find a new job and get somekind of income, without ... (read in full...)
Should I try to help him with this health issue?
Q. I hope that terms i used are not too explicit, just to make it clearer. I've been with my boyfriend for longer than a year now. We have a long distance relationship. We've never had a couple before, so we took things a bit slow (we were friend...
A. 3 October 2010: You should help him, when he isn't even aware that his case if not normal for an adult he surely needs some help, i wouldn't suggest none surgical methods as a tear in the foreskin can deform the looks of his penis.
With rougher sex the foreskin... (read in full...)
Question about cheating in a marriage..all answers welcome!
Q. What is the main reason a man would cheat o his wife or girlfriend? Especially married men! :) and What would be the main reason for a woman to cheat on her husband or boyfriend? Especially married woman! :)...
A. 3 October 2010: Everyone are different, however think about this...
It's so easy not to cheat when no one wants you...
Being a good looking married man with females attracted to you, slipping once takes alot out of any man when so many attractive femal... (read in full...)
Does he need a good bye letter?
Q. I thought I met the love of my life when I went on vacation in the summer of 08. I was going through so much at the time and I took a trip to clear my head, and there he was, the same person I loved as a little girl growing up. We spoke for hours, ...
A. 3 October 2010: Some of you guys need to understand it's not so easy to just walk away when you are in the actual situation, there is alot more to it that just leaving, you can leave and still be in the same situation, do you people ever consider what if she just ... (read in full...)
Am I fat?
Q. im 5"3 nd weigh 130 pounds i have a flat tummy nd big breast for some men do you consider this fat? ...
A. 3 October 2010: You cannot assume if you are overweight or not just by your hight and weight alone, there is more to it than that.
Your genetic racial background takes the biggest part in this, what is your race? body build?
Second is your BMI body mass in... (read in full...)
My friend isn't really happy when something good happens to me
Q. hi. I am 21 and have been best friends with my best friend for half my life. She means a lot to me, and i am closer to her than my family. We have shared a lot of experiences together. I really love her as a friend. However, she isnt a good ...
A. 3 October 2010: There is always a leader and follower in friendships, i mean no disrespect by this, but you've been the follower, not that it's a bad thing and i'll explain why. There has to be leaders and followers, two extremely strong personalities do... (read in full...)
What to do about my boyfriend? And his best friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and lately I've noticed some changes. I'll shorten this as much as I can.. He's kind of addicted to an online game, and I think that's where all of his problems come from. He gets ...
A. 3 October 2010: Often when people pull them self away from others it's usually a place of comfort for them away from their problems, maybe you should be more concerned about his feelings and problems before you think too deeply about yours.
Because it's not you ... (read in full...)
Twitter codes and teenagers
Q. Ok this is probably the rarest question submitted. But i am hoping someone knows the answer. I have a 16 yr old daughter and as a concerned parent, I like to know what she is up to. I notice from time to time on her tweeter page she would type a b...
A. 3 October 2010: From my own experience when i was talking online and had my mouther snooping around, i would type random words such as what you posted
"annhgdfyuipelfdjfnvhge" anything, to skip what was perviously said to not be displayed on screen.
And !~@... (read in full...)
What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking?
Q. Hi all. I'm an ugly bloke (I think so anyway) and I have never had a girlfriend before, and I want an honest answer on this question...What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking? Most guys who are not good-looking gro...
A. 28 September 2010: Most females rather go for a good looking guy and put up with his shit for years! they will always pick a good looking guy over a bad looking one. Make no mistake in believing the crap like "looks don't matter" Looks are everything it's ... (read in full...)
Why does my teacher act so weird around me?
Q. So there is this relief teacher who has just been accepted into my school and i know for a fact that she is only 19. I'm 16, a girl, and i'm the senior in my school. When i first saw her, i was blown away because she was really quite attractive. She ...
A. 24 September 2010: You probably are being paranoid, to assume 1 she is gay, 2 she's into you, 3 she is acting weird around you. From my experience gay/lesbians are not shy... and you do not come off as being shy to me either.
So yes you probably are paranoid... (read in full...)
I still have love for her but the physical attraction is gone
Q. Well, I met the woman of my dreams two years ago. We have been on and off ever since we met, we lived together up until work forced me to move away. I came home, we decided to give things another round. I still have love for her, but the...
A. 24 September 2010: Hello mate, i am a bit confused to how you've been on and off since you both met and you consider her as the woman of your dreams?
Anyways... 60 pounds may be alot, you should firstly ask why is she ignoring it, what is there to be feared for her?... (read in full...)
Does she still feel the same about me, or is there another reason she could be angry with me all the time?
Q. my question is what can i do when my girlfriend seems to always be in a bad mood i have tried to help her with her problems by comfertng her the best way i can but she always seems to find something woring with the way that i confert her and from ...
A. 18 September 2010: i'm glad it helped your relationship, and hope that things only get better from now on :- )... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and considering casual sex. What if I regret it?
Q. I'm not so sure how to place my question. I've always wondered about casual sex partly because, even though I did have a few "boyfriends", I don't seem to be able to form strong bonds with them and therefore I think of myself as incapable of loving. ...
A. 9 September 2010: Making sex such a big deal is a bad way to build up alot of fear that doesn't exist. First time sex will be nothing like you imagine it and most likely be the worse sex you will ever have, it takes a couple of times before you actually start ... (read in full...)
Does she still feel the same about me, or is there another reason she could be angry with me all the time?
Q. my question is what can i do when my girlfriend seems to always be in a bad mood i have tried to help her with her problems by comfertng her the best way i can but she always seems to find something woring with the way that i confert her and from ...
A. 6 September 2010: When an adult acts towards a lover or friend with such dislike and anger it reflects resentment, or hate. Something has happened that has made her have dislike for you.
Trying to be a good friend will only hurt her more and irritates the situatio... (read in full...)
Should I settle with him?
Q. I recently just left a 10 year relationship to a man I was engaged to. We've had our ups and downs and I think I should have left earlier, I was just too comfortable and scared to do so. We now have this new house that we've both committed to and ...
A. 6 September 2010: A friend once told me the story of alice in wonderland, so i'm going to tell you the same thing, why? because it helps alot when you truely understand what this specific part of the story means.
Alice stands at a crossroads and asks the cat whic... (read in full...)
What is the best way to get my girlfriend into bed and to make sure she enjoys her first time?
Q. Me and my lass are both virgins, but we've started to get serious. But, I'm not totally sure what's the best way to get her into bed, and what...foreplay and position that will pleasure her the most. I know it's an awkward topic, but any help?...
A. 3 September 2010: If you are both in a serious relationship then you will build upto the point, you wont have to try to get her because she is already your serious other half. As a man you do need to make your intent clear to her that you do want her or she will not ... (read in full...)
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