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I care to win my ex back and also care about my pride... what can you advise?

Q.   Can you guys help me? Me and my girlfriend have been split up for 2 months, and a lot of stuff has happened since, but we are still in touch by text. She knows how i still feel about her and she has told me she still has feelings for me, this was ...

A.   12 April 2008: well, my honest answer, don't act like when you were together, she may feel uncomfortable. however, this could be a way of knowing whether or not she really wants to give you guys another shot. If we knew why you broke up, it might help... (read in full...)

What is the true meaning of love?

Q.   What is love? \\...

A.   12 April 2008: When speaking of interpersonal relationships, Webster defines love as: a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Now if you mean, how do i know if i'm in love? thats another question... (read in full...)

I am pregnant at 16 and my boyfriend doesn't want the baby

Q.   i am 16 and i am pregnant. my boyfriend (now he isn't my anymore) just tuned 18 and he does not want the baby. he told me to abort the unborn child. but i don't want to. i want to have this baby.is this the right decision?...

A.   10 April 2008: in my opinion don't have it. as much as you want to keep it and be its mother, i doubt keeping it will have the father coming around to help. Just from what you've said, he's no longer your boyfriend, and he's told you to abort, my guess is, he's ... (read in full...)

I miss her so much and want her back, Can you give me some guidance please?

Q.   My ex girlfriend broke up with me because she said she didn't love me. She said she wanted to be in love with me more than anything but can't. So it ended, i was devastated. Strangely so was she. I decided to date again and went on a date. She had ...

A.   7 April 2008: You may not want to hear this, but if you want her back take a step back and walk away for a while. you need to back away from her and give her "space" to deal with the break up. the reason for this is simple. this could be a case of her not ... (read in full...)

We broke up, but we can't seem to let go of eachother, what should we do?

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me three weeks ago but we still talk on the phone almost everyday. Recently, we've admited to eachother that we still have strong feelings for eachother and that we miss eachother a lot. We have...

A.   7 April 2008: i'm with emily, i would say that theres obviously a strong enough attraction still between you two. but without knowing why the first break up happened, its hard to give a full opinion.... (read in full...)

How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you?

Q.   How do you get a guy to tell you that he loves you? During intercourse I have had a strong urge to tell him, but should I wait to hear it from him first?...

A.   7 April 2008: i'm a unique breed in that i speak my mind, and i say unique breed, b/c the average man will keep everything closer to the chest. DO NOT say it during intercourse, b/c then he will feel forced to reply with the "i love you too" b/c its the mome... (read in full...)

He wants me to have sex with as many men as I can....in one night!!!

Q.   Hi Im 17 and gay i met this guy and i really like him the only problem is he wants me to have sex with as many men as i can in 1 night and predictivly the rest of my life, as it turns him on. I really like him so i want to do this and i...

A.   7 April 2008: Let me preface this by saying that i am not gay, so i don't have any insight into his mind. however, i'd be careful with this. b/c should things get to the point where he needs an excuse to break up, he could call you a total whore for sleeping ... (read in full...)

How do I make a guy love me?

Q.   How do I make a guy love me?...

A.   7 April 2008: you can't he either will or won't. But you can at least give him a reason to believe you are worth considering. Make him see your qualities. make him see that you are just as good, if not better than the other women around. Is he younger?... (read in full...)

Chance of pregnancy if I didn't take the pills the exact time I was supposed to?

Q.   i'm on birth control pills and take it everyday but not at the exact same time for couple of days, i had a very short sex with my bf with no condom,although he didn't have an orgasm but i'm just thinking if there's any risk of pregnancy cos i didn't ...

A.   7 April 2008: as far as i know, my gf doesnt take it at the exact same time everyday, however, as long as you are within about an hour of the intended time there shouldnt be a problem. However not taking it everyday at the same time does slightly increase the ... (read in full...)

My mum and dad are so protective, I don't know what to do to make them not like this?

Q.   My mum and dad are so protective, i dont know what to do to make them not like this? They say were only protective because we love you, but i dont want to be controlled all the time.. what can i do?...

A.   7 April 2008: I don't mean to offend you but you are between 13 and 15 years old. at that age i was not protected, but i wasn't allowed to do w/e the hell i wanted. as a result, i am a well balanced adult now. I don't mean to offend you but you have your whole ... (read in full...)

I have accused him of being unfaithful from the beginning but could it possibly by my past trust issues getting in the way??

Q.   I have been dating a guy for 4 months now and I have accused him of being unfaithful from the very beginning.I don't have any concrete evidence but I think my past relationships trust issue have gotten me this way. He has stay around and endured ...

A.   24 March 2008: I have been there. my ex's cheated on me and as a result you swear that your significant other is doing the same. I had to force myself to shut up. Everytime i wanted to accuse her of something i had to litterally stop myself, and i would think ... (read in full...)

She's cheating with me but now she is ignorning me...what can I do??

Q.   I have a girlfriend who's cheating on her boyfriend with me, first I thought it would work out but now problems are coming up, she's ignoring me and not calling. What do I do?...

A.   24 March 2008: I've done that before, and everytime i find myself getting cheated on after i have successfully "worked it out". women like that do not change b/c they found the man for them. the solve their problems by looking for more men, at the slightest sign ... (read in full...)

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