Should I go for the ladies' man?
Q. Should I go for the ladies' man? Me and my friend are really close. We almost kissed- the whole 80-20 thing, but I didn't lean in. He's a player, he's cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had. We're compatible and we both know it, but...
A. 26 January 2009: I think he needs to prove that he would be really committed to you before you even consider becoming involved with him. Alot of men 'play around' when theyre young and this is ok aslong as everyone involved is aware. But cheating, no matter what age ... (read in full...)
Do I ask him if he really likes me?
Q. hmm well i like this guy A LOT! and i think he is totally fit. we get along quite well we always smiling to one another when we talk. he shouts my name from across ANYWHERE! but he has a lot of other girl mates and i dont really know if he is ...
A. 9 April 2007: Well again i was in the exact same situation only it didnt go as well for me. There was this guy who was mega flirty with me was calling me sexy, saying he misses me and everything. I text him and told him how i felt and he said he felt the same but ... (read in full...)
Worried that my pregnancy will interfere with my sister's wedding!
Q. Dear Cupid, My question is that I have just found out I am pregnant - it's a happy result and my husband and I are delighted! However, my due date is 2 weeks before my sister's (who is also my best friend)wedding! I feel so bad that I can not be t...
A. 17 January 2007: Dont be silly! Of course she wont think you're being selfish. She'll be happy for you just as you are happy for her.
It probably wont interfere much with her wedding, babies usually come before their due date and its due 2 weeks before her wedd... (read in full...)
I can't help it-I love my current girl and ex gf! Why am I this way?
Q. Hi, my name's Joe, and I have a dilemma.. Is it natural to fall in love with two people? I mean I've been going out with this one girl for 6 months, thinking that it's going somewhere.. and then recently, after meeting up with my ex-girlf...
A. 7 January 2007: Can you really love two people at the same time? I think real love is monogamous, mutually exclusive of other people. Meybe you're still in love with your ex and just really care for your girlfriend. Maybe you didnt get over her properly before you ... (read in full...)
17 dating 13?
Q. i am a normal male guy who just turned 17 and there is this girl who i have been talking to and we get along really well she says she likes me and i like her but she is 13 nearly 14 is this wrong if so why do i like her?? any help would be nice...
A. 1 January 2007: No its not wrong that you have feelings for her. Young girls these days usually look a lot older than their years. No offense but a 17 year old male and a 13 year old female are probably at about the same mental level with each other too.
It woul... (read in full...)
kissing dilemma
Q. hey my bf keeps trying to snog me and i do want to its just i dont have a clue and evry one says go wiv him but i tried and went like rong i kinda just pretended i needed the lo help plz lots of love xxmemexx...
A. 1 January 2007: Most peoples first kiss was a bit disasterous, I know mine certainly was! All you can do is practise and you'll get better at it. I'm 19 and kissed a few guys but when it comes to kissing someone new i still get a bit nervous!
You'll get bett... (read in full...)
I like this guy at school, but I can't break up with my bf. Please help.
Q. hi there i have a few problems here im confused and stuff i like this guy at my skool, and i want to go out with him but i cant seem to break up with my bf well my bf is watching me he wont let me use the phone well he does but only to call my one ...
A. 21 December 2006: This guy is just trying to control you. He has obviously noticed that you have feelings for someone else. Of course you can break up with him. You dont have kids or live together so why not? You are young, dont get tied down to someone too soon, ... (read in full...)
The girl that likes me already has a bf. What can I do?
Q. i have a very close friend. she is 16 same as me. she has 10month boyfriend. her boyfriend is seein another girl as mates but they are always together. my friend is really upset, she's always been close to me, but today all us mates went out cinema. ...
A. 21 December 2006: Tell her how you feel. she obviously likes you. The its for her to decide what she wants to do. You're both 16 so dont take it too seriously. ... (read in full...)
Like two guys and one of them is my bf. I cheated on him and don't know what to do?
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend of whom ive been with for 11 months. I go to college with the boy ive cheated on him with. i really like him alot but dont know what to do with my boyfriend i like him too...argh help...
A. 21 December 2006: Im not sure that its possible to be in love with two people at the same time, humans dont work that way. I think perhaps you are in love with one and attached to another in a different way, maybe more like a deep friendship. Maybe you feel more ... (read in full...)
Should I stay friends with this guy.. Or should I date him?
Q. there is one man who is crazy about me.He makes me feel happy and I think I love him.I have known him for a long time and I have never done anything with him in fear that I might get to attatched to him in a sexual way.I dont want to hurt him by ...
A. 21 December 2006: Im not sure that you know what you want or how you feel. You say this guy makes you happy, you think you love him and that he's crazy about you. You say that you dont want to lose him and that you want to make you relationship stronger. Why not date ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends Period is late, could it just be a normal change ?
Q. My girlfried and I just had sex for the first time we are both 24yrs old. I use protection and when i getting ready to relase i pulled out and she help me out and after i checked to make sure the condom wasnt broken it was fine. my girlfrie...
A. 21 December 2006: Women can change their cycle spontaneously, usually in response to stress. Lots of things can cause a late period. The next most common cause after pregnancy is Anxiety. If you used a condom and it didnt break then i suspect this may be the cause. ... (read in full...)
I'm pretty enough but I get no male interest!
Q. My family says I'm really pretty, and there are times when i see my self and I'm pleased with what i see, not meaning to sound big-headed. However, despite flirting in moderation with guys and making sure I look my best all of the time, I never get ...
A. 19 December 2006: Being sexy isnt just about being pretty, or being skantily clad. Men find confidence sexy, they like a woman who isnt desperate. Your problem here is that you are looking for the attention to give you confidence but it has to work the other w... (read in full...)
my bf came back from America with a new...gf?! What's going on?
Q. My boyfriend came back from america after 6 months but he came back with a girlfriend and he asked me to meet him at the airport so i went with flowers and so much love and i saw him with another girl, he acted like i wasnt his girlfriend and just ...
A. 16 December 2006: O...k thats really weird. Are you sure that he knew you were in a relationship? Maybe he had other ideas about your level of commitment. Other than that he sounds like a bit of a jerk to be honest. Even if he didnt take you seriously he should never ... (read in full...)
He was flirting with me - eventually I asked him out. He said no! I feel depressed and embarassed - help!
Q. hi, well ive been flirting with this boy i met and he flirts back every time i see him. we went out the other nite and had an amzing night, we were huggng and everything. so all his friends were telling me how much he faniced me and that i should a...
A. 4 December 2006: I know how you feel. We think we know what men think but they are far more complicated than we think. First of all i would find out if he's like this with other girls. If he is then it might just be that he has a flirty personality. Maybe he knows ... (read in full...)
After 30 years of marriage, she has decided fellatio is revolting! Advice?
Q. My wife and I have been happily married for more than 30 years. During that time, we've enjoyed a pretty active sex life. Oral sex, particularly mutual oral sex, had always been a part of that. I've only ejaculated in her mouth once, many years ago. ...
A. 15 November 2006: Im not sure how to help your love life but i can tell you that Swallowing semen in now way attribute to facial hair in women. Im a biology undergraduate and I can tell you for sure that the amount of testosterone in semen is negligable and would ... (read in full...)
I can't flirt to save my life! Tips please!!
Q. Can anyone give me any good tips on how to be good at flirting? I can't flirt to save my life. In fact my flirting is almost like (though not as bad as) Ross' in Friends when he tries to flirt with the pizza girl....
A. 15 November 2006: lol, im sure your not THAT bad. I find that the best way to flirt is to have a good sense of humour. You can flirt by having a laugh with a girl and by not taking yourself too seriously. A good joke is a great way to break the ice. Girls are ... (read in full...)
He bought my best mate a bday card and didn't get me anything! He makes me feel small! Help!
Q. my boyfrend bought my best mate a bday card and didnt get me n e ting 4 my bday cz he sed he was skint! i just feel reli upset nd i dont knw if i shuld say n e ting! nd he always says tings like hw is ex or these gals are always askin him 2 go out ...
A. 15 November 2006: I think this is a pretty good sign that he takes you for granted. He feels that he has to work harder for other people to like him than he does with you. In a way its a good thing, it means he knows you really like him. But in another way its ... (read in full...)
Why the heck are so many people cheating all the time?!
Q. Why do people cheat all the time now? All of the sudden Dear Cupid is flooded with I cheated, or I want to cheat, or affairs from all people, men and women. I used to believe that only guys cheated, but then came across here. What's up with ...
A. 15 November 2006: I think essentially there are only 2 reasons people cheat:
1) the are unhappy with their relationship but feel as though they cant leave for some reason. e.g. A woman who is deeply unhappy with her husband who works all the time and pays her no atte... (read in full...)
We've broke up but I still want her back! Is it foolish for me for thinking she will?
Q. Hey guys, My gf broke up with me about 2 months ago, i'm 22 and she's 21. When we dated, we did everything together and have been through so much together. All those times that i spent with her was the happiest moments in my life so far. When sh...
A. 15 November 2006: I dont think she'll come back to you. I'm sorry. If she really loved you or wanted you back she would be back by now. She is clearly just using you for money. I know that right now you just feel like you will never get over her but you will in time. ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my partners brother!
Q. ok here goes!!! My partner and I are very happy but recently have been getting feeling for my partner's brother :( We flirt all the time and have such laughs. He has also admitted his feelings and this is just an awful space to be in. What can I ...
A. 15 November 2006: You said that you and your partner are really happy. I think that you are just flattered by the attention you're getting from your partners brother. Even those of us in great loving relationships get little crushes from time to time. Just because ... (read in full...)
My best friend got a bf and she's forgetting about me. I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi.i'm 14 and i'm facing problems with my best friend.we were best friends for a long time and we have some amazing memories and many crazy things we've done together,we were as close as it gets.but my friend, got a boyfriend and started keeping a ...
A. 14 November 2006: hey, sorry that this is happening to you. You're friend is suffering what many people do (especially young girls)when they have their first real relationship. Your friend probably loves or thinks she loves her boyfriend and is probably keen to keep ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my current bf and someone else! Help!
Q. Dear Cupid, ok i love my boyfriend to death! yes we fight sometimes but we always make up.. now i have this other guy who's really into me and im a little bit interested in him but i just don't know what to do! i couldn't live it down if i cheated!...
A. 13 November 2006: You've already answered this question for yourself in your mind. You've said you love your boyfriend to death and you only like this other guy. And you've also said cheating isnt an option, so what's the problem? Even those of us in great, loving ... (read in full...)
I'm dating him but he's spending the night with his baby's momma!
Q. I dont understand. I have been talking with this guy for a few weeks, he is over every night and we talk every day getting to know eachother. i have a 3 yr old he has a 5 month old. well he says there is now feelings for the baby momma but yesterday ...
A. 13 November 2006: This guy is weak. I understand that he wants to see his child but please... Sleeping in the same bed with her?! No way! Doesnt she even have a couch he could sleep on? I wouldn't trust him. Any man too weak to say no to sleeping over is weak enough ... (read in full...)
What if my new bf doesn't like my shaved pubic hair?
Q. when i was going out with this lad he asked me to shave my pubic hair so i did but now im going out with my new boyfriend and i dont think he knows what about if he doesnt like it?...
A. 13 November 2006: Pubic hair grows back fully within 1-2 weeks so just dont shave if your that worried! But to be honest most guys prefer it if your 'tidy' down there. A brazillian is best in my opion!... (read in full...)
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