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I think I messed up, how do I fix things?

Q.   Basically there was this guy, i liked and i didnt know if he liked me back. I already asked people and got some answers about it which told me to man up and show him that i cared.  I was more flirty, and so was he, we spent some great times, (...

A.   28 July 2012: Thanks for the answers. The situation took a turn. ... (read in full...)

Too scared to date the girl I like because I am sexually confused! Help!

Q.   There is this girl at school that I like and I wanna make a move and try to talk to her but the thing is I'm scared and sexually confused. I'm still a virgin because I'm sexually confused. Somedays I want guys and then girls. Most on the time I want ...

A.   17 June 2011: maybe you don't have to fit one mold. I mean you may (actually you seem) to be attracted to both gender. It happens it's called bisexuality. people who gets along as well with boys and girls. The thing here is you only talk about the sexual a... (read in full...)

I am struggling to trust my boyfriend because of my past, and he is only making things worse by not comforting me at all!

Q.   im 18 and my Boyfriend is 24. We have been together for over a year now and he is everything to me. we have fun, get along well, and im his First Love. i have been hurt badly in the past and have serious trust issues because all boys use to do was ...

A.   14 May 2010: You shouldn't retain some capital informations. He needs to know that you feel insecure. Frustation have never made good relationship. You say you never told him that you didn't trusted him but you know the way we act, talk, and the vibes we send,... (read in full...)

I still do care about her and I don't know how to reach out to her.

Q.   hey guys Im in a dilemma, i would have never thought a day would come for me to seek advice from a forum, I started dating a girl whom i used to totally admire, prior to us dating i was coming out of 2 year relationship so i told my curren...

A.   14 May 2010: you know us girls we're very itchy about the X file. i think she's kind of worried about just being the "rebound" girl. You know when you've done with someone and just want to have fun with a girl without settling. Tell her how you feel abo... (read in full...)

She has a really pretty face but she's fat!

Q.   I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best foot...

A.   14 May 2010: i can't but agree with the previous answer. If you want to change her do you really like her? it seems like you do and you shouldn't caring about what people might say, cause in fact you don't know. Your real friends will judge her on how she's go... (read in full...)

I am a virgin, should I forget this non-virgin girl?

Q.   Hello, I'm 22 and from a Greek Orthodox Christian background. I'm still a virgin, not because it has been drummed into me that it is a sin to sleep around but because I choose to respect women and the fact that I only want to make love to a woman ...

A.   14 May 2010: First you shouldn't think she's not a virgin anymore because of a facebook group. You know a lot friend sends request for almost everything, there are groups for everything sometimes crazy stuff. She may have accepted it without even look at it. ... (read in full...)

Worried that my fixation on him will ruin our friendship!

Q.   I have come to University and in my first year. I have met this person (male) and I feel we get along very well. But over the last 3-4 months (ive known him for 6 months) I constantly worry about him, what he is doing and always want to be around ...

A.   14 May 2010: it's occuring to me that you might be in love with this guy. the jealousy, the worrying, and dreams.. you know you can't control love otherwise everybody would. Love is not predictable and if he's looks aren't the one you fall for usually it does... (read in full...)

Our relationship is crumbling after I had to move in with him!

Q.   I recently became homeless and was forced to move in with my boyfriend. Now our relationship isn't the same and it seems to be crumbling down. We're always fighting and it seems like every little thing we do or say gets on each other's nerves. What ...

A.   14 May 2010: i think you two should sit and talk. Your situation is not ordinary. Usually when a guy and a girl move in together it's because they want to, and they moving further in the relationship. You say it in your question, you were forced. I'm not sayi... (read in full...)

I want to end this friends with benefits situation with my ex?? Suggestions?

Q.   Hello, I've been in a physical relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past 3 months. Prior to this we had dated for almost a year, when I decided to break up with him. I did this because I felt my needs were not being met. He was thoughtf...

A.   14 May 2010: you should always follow your feelings. if it's not your boyfriend's problem to satisfy you in bed then who is it? maybe you should take some time to think about what you really want. what do you want for you? What do you want from him? What you... (read in full...)

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