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6 May 2007: open relationships; many believe they are pointless as they believe if you want to have sex with someone else, then the person you are with is not the one for you. however, i recently read that about 1% of hetrosexual marriages have one person them ...
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I want to wait until we are married to have sex! Are there some techniques or things I could do to prevent having sex??
Q. I want to wait for marriage to have sex, but lateley i been getting really tempted. I love my boyfriend to death and i want this to be very special for the both of us. Im a virgin and he is not,and sometimes he gets a little to carried away but i ...
A. 6 May 2007: try talking to him.... (read in full...)
Could the boy she cheated with still be the father?!
Q. My best friend has been with her boyfriend for quit sometime now and she has recently found out she's a month in a half pregnant.. She cheated on her boyfriend and had sex with another boy and he came inside her.. Can he still end up being the ...
A. 6 May 2007: it depends how long ago she cheated on him. god, its not rocket science. get a paternity test!!... (read in full...)
I look after my friends baby more than she does, Ive come to love him as my own, I think he would be better living with me untils shes sorted, what do you think ?
Q. Hey, I'm 16 years old, and in my final year of secondary school. My best friend, Sophia*, gave birth to her son, Charlie, about three months ago, and despite throughout her pregnancy being really positive about juggling school and motherhood, ...
A. 4 May 2007: NOOOOOOOOOO!this is a terrible idea because while she will be getting a good education you won't and eventually she will want her baby back again.... (read in full...)
I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?
Q. I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, he didnt come close to cuming inside me, but since then i have been having pains in my tummy as if i have been in the gym. could i be pregnant?...
A. 4 May 2007: yes you could. sperm leaks before ejaculation. even i know more about sex education than you... (read in full...)
Why would he want to end it so suddenly to be with someone else?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship for nearly 4 years. It was an off and on affair, I never met his family or friends but he met mine as he stayed with me regularly. There was never any mention of commitment or settling down, we enjoyed being ...
A. 4 May 2007: he never introduced you to his friends or familie, he lives with his parents and even after 4 years only said i love you once??try having a relationship with a man, not neanderthal. this guy is a loser. ... (read in full...)
Could my "bits" have shrivelled through smoking weed?
Q. i have been smoking weed 4 about a year and resently i have noticed that my penis and balls get all shrivaled up could this do with smoking weed...
A. 4 May 2007: you have hypogonadism. i'm serious, its a funny name but its true... (read in full...)
I have left my daughter's father last November. He's been verbally putting me down and he doesn't see that it's really hurting me.
Q. I have left my daughter's father last November. He's been verbally putting me down and he doesn't see that it's really hurting me. When we were together, every so often, we were argue. About his whereabouts, who he's talking to on the phone or on ...
A. 4 May 2007: i may only be 13 but i feel greatly for you. this man is horrible and deserves to be shot but i think you should ignore his abuse and act like what you already are; the bigger person. lots of women are too wimpy/ pathetic to get out of crappy ... (read in full...)
We are both married but having an affair together and I think he is falling in love with me!
Q. About 4 months ago i started working at a strip club as an exotic dancer. This guy that works there started flirting with me like he did with all the other girls. I liked the attention so i flirted back. A few weeks into working there we started ...
A. 4 May 2007: no. no, he is not in love with you, he is a lying user who only wants you for sex. he does not deserve to own a penis. by the way, on a panic scale of 1 to 10, how much do you care that in the likely event that your husband finds out your kids lives ... (read in full...)
I fear I will never get over HIS ex...
Q. There seem to be a lot of women who share this problem: the EX. I met my boyfriend and the relationship became intense right away and we completely fell in love with each other within a month. But soon after he left for a trip for several months. We ...
A. 4 May 2007: you feel you can't measure up but the answer to that is kicking you right in the arse- he chose you. when you get into a relationship with someone you don't do it so his friends will like you, so stop caring about them
miss fit xxx... (read in full...)
My ex emailed me after a long time, I don't know if I feel pity for him or I still like him?
Q. Hi, my ex emailed me after a long time. We just had a closure. We now have our own love life but I know that he's still unhappy since he's experiencing problems with his family. And I'm kinda confused with how I'm feeling right now because first... ...
A. 4 May 2007: relationships are gr8 and they make us feel complete. the downside is that more often than not its hard to be friends with your ex. if you help him it will just bring back painful memories and aggrivate the relationship you have now. like you said, ... (read in full...)
We used to date but are now just friends, howeve when I talk to other girls she doesn't like it...
Q. I have a friend I used to date, we work together. Our relationship at work has always been on the proffessional level. During our fragile,(on and off)relationship, I kept my friendship with other females a secret from her. My Female friends were the...
A. 4 May 2007: this can 't except we can't have it all. sit her down and tell her that either you two have a sereious relationsdhip or she has to except that you two are just friends, not a couple. if shes still irritating you get a restraining order. this is good ... (read in full...)
We got engaged after he had an affair, I forgive him but I am so scared he will hurt me again!
Q. I have been in a relationship with a man for 6 years. We were engaged a year and a half ago after he told me about an affair he had with another woman. He knew my past history of being cheated on by my ex husband and promised he would never hurt ...
A. 4 May 2007: stay in this relationship because decent guys are so hard to find, but the moment he starts giving another woman the eye get out of there like there a shoe sale at the exact place hes not at. and don't look back... (read in full...)
We are having sex but no officially 'going out' because he doesn't want a relationship! Help!
Q. i have been seeing this guy who i have very strong feelings for and i dont know where i fit into in his life. I have known him for a year now through college and he is absolutly lovely. He makes me laugh and feel secure. However, even though w...
A. 4 May 2007: treat this relationship like waxing- rip it off quick before it gives you a nasty rash which makes it about three times more painful ripping it off. its acrap metaphor but you get the idea.... (read in full...)
He contacted me again after 7 months saying he wants to meet up but he's in a relationship! Help!
Q. I’m really confused, nearly two years ago I dated this guy and he really hurt me. He messed me about and he stood me up and never contacted me until seven months later. He apologised and explained he lost my contact number etc. I didn’t w...
A. 4 May 2007: a**hole- a man who hurts women, stands them up and doesn't contact then for 7 months and then lies about being in a realtionship. your ex- a man who hurts women, stands them up and doesn't contact them for 7 months and then lies about being in a.rel... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?
Q. Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my ...
A. 4 May 2007: your mate is a commit ment phobic loser. this is not good idea, it is utter crap.you want your first time to be with some one special. if you follow his advice you'll end up with up a memory of a detached sexual experience, a girl who thinks you are ... (read in full...)
Later that night, he was drunk and looked at me and called me her name. His excuse was that he was drunk!
Q. I went on a works trip with my partner (his work)and i noticed he flirted a lot with his younger work colleague and she flirted with him. He texted her when she wasn't with us to see what she was doing, and she even rang our room to arrange us all g...
A. 4 May 2007: you say your husband has had an affiair before?
all he's doing is picking two women and then deciding which one he likes most, regardless of your feelings. give him an ultimatum. you or a life time of flirting with women who also have crappy rela... (read in full...)
I need to know why I stay with my husband who has been so horrible to me and my kids over the last 20 years...
Q. I have had a very turbulent relationship with my husband for nearly 20 years. in this time he has been emotionally and sometimes physically violent towards me. We have had 3 children but 2 were adopted at a young age and 1 remained with us. They ...
A. 4 May 2007: christ on a bike!! shoot your kids why don't you? i don't mean to sound harsh but your only thinking about yourself. break up with this creep. through the fog of my crystal ball i see restraining orders. . . ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a boy over pity but he spends too much time holding me and not backing off.
Q. I'm dating a boy over pity but he spends too much time holding me and not backing off. My friend who's probly my best friend is trying to help me get over my conscience but it won't work for me please give me some advice...
A. 4 May 2007: your going out with this boy out of pity ergo eventually your going to break up with him. the sooner you do it the better and quickly. there's a word for girls who can't say no. . . ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 dating a 15 year old and her parents can't stand me! I don't know why!
Q. Hi, I'm an 18 year old guy dating a 15 year old and her parents can't stand me (I don't know why). I'm a nice guy. I respect her and I love her with all my heart. What are your thoughts on the 3 year difference and if I could go to jail for having s...
A. 4 May 2007: you have asked and answered this question yourself you may like her but if you 2 have sex you will go to jail! 2 of my most sensible friends recently got pregnant under age and the 3 year gap is bit much. i hope it works out for you but you asking a ... (read in full...)
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