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How should I approach sharing my wife?

Q.   Hi, I want to hear from guys who have shared there wifes with a friend,stranger,etc. How did you approach it. How did it feel watching her when he started making love to her etc. My wife and I want to try something new . We sat in conversation one...

A.   9 November 2009: Just to let you know I totally regret our decision to have an open marriage. But we didn't talk through as suggested by the other person. ... (read in full...)

Would you believe a married man who......

Q.   would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

A.   5 November 2009: Taking Extenz and not having sex with you are probably 2 examples of his low self esteem. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion he is having an affair. He may have performance anxiety because he is small. This performance anxiety makes him hesitant ... (read in full...)

We tried a couple swap but he couldnt perform, and now he isnt speaking to me!

Q.   A new man I have been dating asked if we could try a swap. A couple swap. I agreed, out of adventure, and because I wasn't in love with him. We have a NSA arrangement, but not just 100% sexual.He talked like I was steady GF, and acted like it wi...

A.   5 October 2009: Hi, dumped via IM is cowardly, but I am curious if you did laugh. And if you laughed, why did you laugh?... (read in full...)

Should I have an affair just to get sex?

Q.   I need some help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years (married for 2). My husband doesn't want to have sex. I always try but he is never interested. I rarely have the courage to talk to him but when I do he either says he doesn't ...

A.   17 July 2009: I find that when men don't want to have sex it is usually because they are worried about performance or feel inadequate. Has anything happened that would make him feel less confident?... (read in full...)

I am really regretting this "open marriage" arrangement!

Q.   I'm not sure how to begin. Several years ago, my wife and I agreed to an open-marriage. I'm not happy with it at all and feel neglected, and to be honest, I feel less of a husband. She knows how I feel and even has tried to stop several times, ...

A.   23 June 2009: It was her idea to have an open marriage. It was a topic of pillow talk over the years. I agreed because I know our sex life wasn't very scintillating and I wanted her to be happy. So now she is happy and I'm feeling embarassed and inadequate. ... (read in full...)

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