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I'm a virgin but I told him I wasn't. Will he be able to tell?

Q.   theres this guy who i was nearly going out with. i'm a virgin, but for some stupid reason i came up with this story that i wasnt and he believed it. i was just wondering, if i had sex with him, would he be able to tell that i am a virgin or not? ...

A.   4 May 2008: For god's sake your still so young, you do not realise yet the importance of being pure for your first and special love. Making love is so special, can't you understand that men (once your mature enough) prefere a woman to be a virgin (untouched) i ... (read in full...)

He's 41 I'm nearly 18, but we're two worlds apart. How can I fix this?

Q.   I have a 41 year old boyfriend and i'm 17(almost 18). Is this too big of a difference?? What should I do?? It's only 23 years, but he's so much smarter than i am about the world and much more experienced. How can I fix this '2 different worlds' ...

A.   9 April 2008: Don't get involved your too young. Enjoy your youth as he has has'nt he!! Think about it! I am talking from experience i have been there have the t shirt etc. Have fun and see a bit of the world if possible, as the saying goes "your only young once" ... (read in full...)

Follow my head or my heart? He's a loner who doesn't live in the real world like I have to! We'd have a good life together though.

Q.   Do I follow my head or my heart? My heart tells me who is the right man for me but my head says although I'll have a wonderful life with him I'll always live my life on the bread line. Neither of us are young, over 50. We were together 3 years, ...

A.   9 April 2008: Hi anonymous, i wish i knew more about you both to be honest, as i am guessing that you both never found love with anyone else during your split? You admit you have strong feelings for this man, and maybe he still has for you, however he may have ... (read in full...)

I'm concerned at what my fiancee may get up to at his bachelor party?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are getting married, and last night the bachelor/bachelorette party topic came up... I don't want a male stripper, because I don't find them exciting, actually, they gross me out a little bit. On the other hand I'm sure he woul...

A.   6 April 2008: You need to understand what your getting into my dear, marriage is a commitment, leave your partner have some fun and you do the same before your wedding day. He sounds like fun, you sound boring "sorry" are you sure you are really suited to each ... (read in full...)

Come on girls help me out on this one!

Q.   Why do women do this? i've had it happen three times now and its pissing me off. You meet a woman and she agrees to go out with you. She says she wants to take it slowly, you talk get to know each other, exchange thoughts and generally get on like ...

A.   6 April 2008: She is one mixed up woman or so it appears. You sound like a nice guy, maybe you get to involved to begin with! ask yourself these questions, are you looking for your soulmate? are you a little too posessive? Women these days just want a bit of ... (read in full...)

What is the difference between LOVE and SEX?

Q.   hello i am asking all of you to explain to me the definition between LOVE and SEX and how they feel? thank you...

A.   6 April 2008: Love is magical, grasp it with both hands when it occurs as it is so exciting when it happens, but it's sad when it's lost. Sex is fun, sex can be very intense. If your in love sex is the most wonderful experience ever, what a way to express your ... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't want any physical contact. Can we save this marriage?

Q.   Is there anyway to save this marriage? I have been with my husband for over 4 years. I noticed a real change in his romantic and physical expressions of love after just one year. We used to have a great sex life, kisses and hugs "hello" and "goo...

A.   26 May 2007:  I have the same problem, my husband and i are so distant these days. He is 23years older than me, i am 49 and still am very interested in sex. However he tells me that i have to accept that he no longer is interested in sex himself. So what do i ... (read in full...)

What is the difference between LOVE and SEX?

Q.   hello i am asking all of you to explain to me the definition between LOVE and SEX and how they feel? thank you...

A.   28 March 2007: Love is bonding. Having that special connection, feeling that first rush of blood through your body, your heart beating faster and faster, till you yearn for that moment when you both melt into each others arms. Love is trust, being totally ... (read in full...)

He wants sex all the time...I want talking and emotional stuff! Is he using me?

Q.   hi please help me i really do not know what to do. There is a man i am really in love with but I think he's using me. Every time I see him all he wants is 20 minutes of talking and the rest of the day having sex. I mean sex is great with him but ...

A.   28 March 2007: Then don't walk away. Have fun, enjoy the sex, and remember you must be a passionate person yourself, otherwise you would not be desirable to him. Of course he must have respect for you but you should know in your heart if he is just us playing ... (read in full...)

I like his personality, but not sure I fancy him, what should I do

Q.   im 20 and this guy i work with who i have become friends with told me he fancies me. thing is i do really like him personality wise but sometimes i look at him and say "yeh i fancy him" and other times i think "theres no physical attraction", its ...

A.   26 March 2007: Hi, there is only one way to find out and that is go out for a drink with him for one hour, tell him before hand that you have to visit someone but have the time for a quick drink if he fancies one! If you find your having fun flirt a little and ... (read in full...)

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