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... Send *egan1111 a private message | | | *egan1111's profile:I'm 24, starting having sex (because I thought I was in love) at 16. Since then, I've been through just about all the games men play and as the result, I have two kids by two different fathers.
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Should I tell him I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...
A. 16 January 2009: Celia, I just re-read your post. If you decide not to keep the baby, I would not tell him. You are very considerate of his new relationship; however, is this something you are pondering all by yourself. I mean, isn't better to take a girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Will I know when my water breaks?
Q. how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...
A. 16 January 2009: your brother has never had his water break. The only pain is from contractions. Sometimes the doctor has to puncture the bag to facilitate labor. Your doctor will verify your brother doesn't have a clue.... (read in full...)
My mum is stuck in a love triangle
Q. hi i need some help im doing this on behalf off my mum as she has never been on here before, she is in a relationship with her boyfriend who she has been with for 8 years and has got my brother who has just turned 8 living wit them, (ill explain ...
A. 15 January 2009: Been with a guy for eight years and not happy, well, she should be concentrating on her on mental state. I would suggest she resolve the current living situation first (find her own place). If your brother is by the b/f, she needs to be careful. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to throw away 20 months of my life, but should I let him go?
Q. My boyfriend and I had a long discussion the other day. He said he felt empty with life and that he hates his life at the moment. He says he doesnt like living a black and white life and doesnt feel like he has control over his life. He then look ...
A. 15 January 2009: Been there. The first is always the hardest. You need to listen to him but you must get him to talk. It easy for us to share our emotions but not so for men. They make talk but to really get them to talk you must really listen. Create a quite ... (read in full...)
Will I know when my water breaks?
Q. how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...
A. 15 January 2009: You'll know. Either you'll feel this water running down your legs (and realize you didn't pee on yourself) or you'll wake up in a very wet spot (and think you wet the bed). Trust me, you'll know, it doesn't hurt, it just gushing out - can't hold ... (read in full...)
Give him space? OR get my own place?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are expecting our first baby together. Last night he asked me to give him some space to think. We don't really fight, but we don't really talk either. Our relationship has gotten monotonous and he says he still loves me but "it" ...
A. 15 January 2009: Oh-oh. What does he want some space for? Hopefully, your appartment is too small and he is thinking about a bigger place.
Sounds like he isn't really to have a baby yet. If that's the case, let him go now. If you are ok with raising a baby by ... (read in full...)
How can I show my girl how I feel about her?
Q. Please, kindly teach me how to let my girl know I love her, is it by sending her a love text or by telling her physically? How can I show her how I feel about her?...
A. 15 January 2009: Hold her hands, look into her eyes and tell her. Give her your attention and patiently listen to her. Flowers always work.
What if she doesn't love you?... (read in full...)
I truly believe this will work out, she just needs time.
Q. So basically she said she needs time to figure out what she's going to do about her ex which she went out with 3 years for, she still has feelings for him and she needs to straighten them out, those feelings were getting in the way of are ...
A. 15 January 2009: She needs a friend right now. If you can be that friend, perhaps you can be her lover when she gets over the ex. She is doing you a favor by resolving the ex issue, because if he doesn't get resolved, you'll always have problems which you can never ... (read in full...)
He seems to be a little distant since his brother arrived...
Q. Hello. I am a single mother of a 2 year old little girl. I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He's an attractive, funny and smart guy. He has a nice job as well. We both have lots in common except he is 4 years my junior. He has a 3 year ...
A. 15 January 2009: Sounds normal to me if he and his brother are close. Solution, tell him how you feel without feeling insecure. He may simply need some space while his brother is here but odds are he'll try to include you in some of the activities. If his brother ... (read in full...)
I don't want anything from him but attention and care.
Q. I am a 21 year old and I've beeen seeing my boss who is 43 years old... I started it as fun. I've never dated a married man or someone older than me for even two years.. but matters of the heart are not to be played with.. I am so much in love wit...
A. 15 January 2009: Whoa, I got hurt behind a married man. You know the story, "My wife left me - we're getting a divorce - we're separated......" Then I got pregnant, he wanted me to abort, I didn't, he avoided like I had leprosy.
Rule 1 don't date married ... (read in full...)
How can I turn my boyfriend on more, I feel he's going off me.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and about a week. Well he asked me to send him some naughty photos but I said no, so I got that going good but every time I see him I'm so attracted to him and I try to do everything to make him want ...
A. 15 January 2009: I wish someone had told me what I'm about to tell you when I was younger (then perhaps I wouldn't have two children now).
Talk to your boyfriend and resolve the sex question now. If he's unwilling to wait or keeps pressuring you, let him go. If ... (read in full...)
Finger my girlfriend on her period
Q. Can I finger my girlfriend when she's on her period? I'm seeing her this weekend and she said she'll be on. If we wanted to should I just stick to the clit? She got fingered by her previous boyfriend while she was on her period but I don't know all ...
A. 15 January 2009: It's not a question of can you, it's will she let you. Talk to her.... (read in full...)
Do I finish with my baby's dad?
Q. I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is a lovely guy, but I don't feel in love with him. We also have a baby together. I would love 2 make it work for all of us. One problem I have is I can't help this feeling of ...
A. 15 January 2009: Sounds like you need to make up your mind if you really love him. If you do, you need to set him down, tell and teach him what you need and how you need it. Guys, think once they get you, it ends and life is happy. Wrong, what it got to get you is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...
A. 15 January 2009: I was in that situation. Tell him immediately!!! Sounds like your man was one who wanted the free milk without having to buy the cow. When you tell him make sure you let him know what you plan on doing with the baby. If you plan to I keep your ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether my boyfriend wants a break or some "time off".
Q. My boyfriend told me that he doesn't feel the same but he wants to try it once again even though he thinks it's gonna work out only for a few weeks and later it will end up as usual, without communication and romanticism. We are living together and ...
A. 15 January 2009: I think he has found someone else. It's hard but the sooner you end it the better you'll be. Imagine continuing to live in your situation and later find he's been cheating. It's devastating, I know.... (read in full...)
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