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I fall for people that are much older and taken!

Q.   I just got out of a five year emotionally abusive relationship been a couple of month and I seem to fall for ppl that are older much older and taken :( I am 24 and like men in their thirties is this normal? How can I regain self confidence? I feel ...

A.   24 December 2010: I'm 23 and I like older guys aswell. Girls mature faster than guys. I like dating someone with more life experience. I find younger guys a bit immature. And they always seem to want to play the field too. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend becomes verbally abusive when he drinks

Q.   When I first met my boyfriend he was always a gentleman and always made sure to say the sweetest things. As time went by we began to hang out and I began to fall for his act of kindness. Off the bat I knew this relationship was not an attraction ...

A.   20 December 2010: My ex used to do this with me. Don't make the same mistake I did, dump his ass!... (read in full...)

Are there any honest men out there?

Q.   I'm 23 and have my own car and job. I'm an honest person who actually wants a relationship. Yet I've been burned twice this year by two players. I'm so sick and tired of being used. One guy cheated on me and dumped me by text message. The other guy ...

A.   20 December 2010: I did take things slow with my ex, only to be dumped by text, after a year of dating... (read in full...)

Are there any honest men out there?

Q.   I'm 23 and have my own car and job. I'm an honest person who actually wants a relationship. Yet I've been burned twice this year by two players. I'm so sick and tired of being used. One guy cheated on me and dumped me by text message. The other guy ...

A.   20 December 2010: Thanks for all your replys, they're very helpfull. I think in the past I have been too naive and trusting, that is my main problem. I get caught up in being in a relationship sometimes, that I don't look to see if the guy deserves me. My other ... (read in full...)

Controlling parents refuse to let me move out?!

Q.   I'm 21 and have been living at home this whole time. I've wanted to move out before, but never had the means or options to do so. I had gotten a bit desperate to move out because my parents are too controlling and they act like children sometimes. ...

A.   6 November 2010: Hi I'm almost 24 and I have the same problem. Some parents just don't want their kids to grow up. I'll defiently take this advice on board. Thanks... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   5 November 2010: Hello I forgot to add that if it wasn't bad enough being dumped out of the blue. He then followed it by "I should've dumped you a long time ago". What an asshole... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   31 October 2010: Hey I seriously doubt that he will ask for forgiveness and ask to get back together. Its been several months and I haven't even heard from him once. He'd seriously have to change and I can't see that happening. I'd have to go with my head and never ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   30 October 2010: Hey I think I won't bother with the letter. He probably won't even read it. I'm going to try and improve my life instead... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   27 October 2010: Hey someone also suggested to me to write him a letter agreeing with the breakup. And then saying all the things I've done since the breakup and saying how happy I am now.... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   27 October 2010: Thanx for you reply. A friend suggested a similar thing to me. I will do it if I run into him. But the odds of running into him are slim. I will do it if I run into his best friends aswell. They tell each other EVERYTHING... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   26 October 2010: I found out after we broke up that my ex is known for being single and fickle. Ours is the longest relationship he's had. ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   26 October 2010: Hi this isn't what I meant because I know it would justifiy our breakup even more, if I sought revenge. What I mean is I want to run into him, looking fantastic with another bloke. And act cold to my ex. To hurt his ego and see I've moved on... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   25 October 2010: I think he cheated becuae everything was fine before we broke up. And why else dump me in such a cruel way? He didn't even have a reason at first. How lame! And I haven't even heard from him once since we split. No aplogy or anything. I want revenge... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   25 October 2010: Hey yeah I was really happy, thats why its been difficult for me. We rarely fought. I did have time to pursue other interests during the week. I only saw him on weekends, so I was far from clingy. I don't think I would feel differently if he was on ... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   25 October 2010: Thanx I will try this, but I wish I could phone him and tell him! He must have cheated. I wish she would dump him! Its not fair that he's with someone else, while I got cheated on and I'm alone... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   24 October 2010: I just want to tell him what a gutless asshole he really is... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   24 October 2010: Thanx again Dorothy. I'm not in a hurry to get into another relationship after this! I must have been cheated on. He is friends with an ex girlfriend, but he won't even talk to me! It is sad, I really loved this guy and I don't fall in love easily.... (read in full...)

Dumped by text with no reason given, I am STILL MAD!

Q.   I was seeing my boy for almost a year. Then he dumped me out of the blue, for no reason. He knew I was in love with him. He dumped me by text and insulted me. I would never cheat and I was a great girlfriend. Its been 4 months since the breakup and ...

A.   24 October 2010: Thanx for your replys. Ive made it to 4 months without even contacting him once. So I know I can make it to another 4 months and so on. It just hurts so much that the person I loved so much would be so callous.... (read in full...)

Why do men disappear giving you no closure and think it's OK?

Q.   Why do men disappear or dump you and give you no closure and think its ok? This is what my ex did....

A.   11 October 2010: Thanx everyone. This isn't after a couple of dates. This after almost a year in a relationship and a happy relationship. I just feel stuck... (read in full...)

He used me, than says he wants to be single!

Q.   I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months. Today he told me that he couldn't do this anymore and isn't ready for a relationship. Why didn't he just say so, in the first place? Why did he lead me on for 2 months? He promised me that we'd go out this...

A.   8 October 2010: No, I wasn't sleeping with him to get a commitment. He told me at the start that he wants us to be more than friends with benefits. He said he wanted me to be his girlfriend. We did go on dates, but not often enough. I did go on dates with him and ... (read in full...)

I became too dependent on my ex, and now we have broken up I am really lonely!

Q.   After a really bad breakup 3 months ago, I'm now really really lonely. I made a huge mistake because I relied too much on my ex. I became friends with his friends and now I've got only a couple of friends. Most of my friends from school all went ...

A.   2 October 2010: Thanx but I have nothing to apologize for, I did nothing wrong. I was agood girlfriend. He dumped me by phone out of the blue. And then insulted me by text. This is after almost a year of dating. And he wouldn't talk to me at all.... (read in full...)

Dumped out of the blue, should I contact him?

Q.   I'm 23 and was dating my bf for nearly a year and everything was going well. Then one day he calls me out of the blue and says he wants to breakup. I was in shock, we hadn't been fighting at all. He said tat he wasn't attracted to me anymore and ...

A.   27 September 2010: Thanks he was really cruel about it and it was completely out of the blue. It really sounds like I was cheated on, it would explain the odd behaviour. It hurt like hell, I lost me best friend. If he ever does contact me, theres no way I'll ever take ... (read in full...)

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