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A story called Love.....am I lost for good?

Q.   I was 17, she was 15. We snuck away to a field near my moms house. Under the stars on an old sleeping bag Id had since Boy Scouts we Both made love for the first time. We fell asleep in that field that night and as you might figure, awoke to angry ...

A.   5 April 2008: I wanted to thank everybody for all of your excellent advice, I really do believe I made progress today. Im going to be passionate as I usually am but NOT try to have sex when we kiss or make out. Im going to see if that will help to boost her ... (read in full...)

A story called Love.....am I lost for good?

Q.   I was 17, she was 15. We snuck away to a field near my moms house. Under the stars on an old sleeping bag Id had since Boy Scouts we Both made love for the first time. We fell asleep in that field that night and as you might figure, awoke to angry ...

A.   4 April 2008:  This is matt who wrote this article, thank you for the compliment on my writing. Im not taking courses for it but I plan on writing movie scripts in the near future, I just have to find a few more hours in the day :) . You are absolute... (read in full...)

Why do I keep choosing "mommy's boys" ?! How can I pick stronger guys?

Q.   im 28 and i have trouble keeping a boyfriend as ive had 3 long term relationships its not me but the chaps i choose are weak mummys boys where am i going wrong they all says im not the problem i need some help here...

A.   4 April 2008:  Have you ever thought maybe your to aggresive?... (read in full...)

I kissed my married boss!! Am I awful?

Q.   Oh my god!! ive just got back from the pub and i feel so so so bad. ive never felt guilt like this before. im quite drunk, god il tell you what happened please help/ i love my boy friend so so so so much so much he's amazung to me and he ...

A.   4 April 2008:  Having this same thing done to me Ill tell you that you made a HUGE mistake. With that said you must be honest with your boyfriend but keep in mind things may never be the same.... (read in full...)

She wants me to be more aggressive with my love-making!

Q.   My wife says I love her , make love to her, too softly she wants me to be more aggressive. I need some examples and she says to me , figure it out . "I want to be taken not made love to". Help!...

A.   4 April 2008:  This just happens to be my specialty:) I am a VERY aggressive man and most women LOVE IT. Remember the focus should be wild, and edgy and even a little "very little" painfull. When I go down on my wife I like to kind of grunt a little and do a... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and about to get married..honeymoon tips wanted!

Q.   I'm twenty and still a VIRGIN ALL THE WAY. i have never even kissed a boy and about to get married in a few short months to a man who is also a virgin and has also never "bin there done that" I'm pretty sure the only sexual action we have both ...

A.   4 April 2008:  Just a little reminder. Dont forget to shave legs and trim elsewhere and be very clean. My first time she was rather all natural and not zest fully clean, I had a bad first time but thats o.k. Also remember women are emotional men ar... (read in full...)

My relationship is an emotional roller coaster...he keeps yelling at me!

Q.   So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. At first everything was great and he was so sweet and always there for me. Now he yells all the time and tells me what I'm suppose to do and I better do it. He dont want me to talk to anyone ...

A.   4 April 2008:  I totally disagree with the ladies who posted to dump him. They are giving you potentially disasterous advice on a problem that we dont have all the info about. The reason I say that is because I can see clear as day that we are missing ... (read in full...)

After we broke up she "learned a few new things"! Having a hard time getting over the "she waited for me like a saint"! What do you think?

Q.   I'm a 24yr old male who has been with a girl since the 5th grade from puppy love to high school sweethearts. This girl has always loved me ever since I can remember but I have always taken her for granted. Not because I don't care for her but ...

A.   4 April 2008:  I have a little experience in this field so hopefully I can shed a little light on it. My ex had dated a few black guys before her and I got together. This made me think that she was interested in a well hung man and made me insecure... (read in full...)

Could I get pregnant from "pre-cum" or is it just the pill?

Q.   I was recently starting birth control and stayed on it for about 2 1/2 weeks and then stopped because I couldn't take the side effects of the pill. Now, when I first started taking the pill, on the 4th day of taking the pill, I had unprotected sex ...

A.   4 April 2008:  First of all RELAX!! spotting and period are so very similar they are Often confused. You need to keep in mind that the chance of pregnancy with INTERNALL ejaculation is only 20%. The chance of unprotected pregnancy without contraceptive and ... (read in full...)

About to get Married! Any marriage advice from married people?

Q.   Hello all...I'm just asking advice on marriage, we are getting married next week (after a 6 month romance). We just returned from 3 weeks in the tropics, spending 24/7 together, and we agree that we are just meant to be together. We are going to ...

A.   4 April 2008:  This reminds me of that old saying. Use your brain for driving and your heart for loving, if you use your brain for loving youll be driving alone!!... (read in full...)

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