New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084353 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*adflash agony aunt

*adflash

United States  (Male   XML/RSS

Like what he writes?
... Add *adflash to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *adflash a private message

*adflash's Ratings
Excellent56%
Average6%
Poor38%
*adflash's profile:

I'm oldish--44--I'm smaht, I've made ten times more mistakes than any dummy on here, and I speak with a mixed accent of Boston and New Yawk. Also, I don't give a damn what anybody thinks of me. That's why people should listen when I hand out my pearls of wisdom. I live in East Providence, RI and I'm a science fiction and fantasy writer who does computer tech support stuff to pay the bills. I've been happily divorced for sixteen years, but I'm currently looking for someone to do my laundry.

< Prev12 [2 pages, 44 answers]

I didn't ask for this... Advice would be welcomed.

Q.   I have been married to a man who is really my best friend, a great and selfless lover and funny... I knew he was a smart choice and has been an amazing father and devoted for many years. As kind of free thinkers we pride ourselves in trying t...

A.   9 April 2008: I'm sorry you're feeling what you feel. You call it love, but love can be harmless, like the love for a friend, a child, or a pet. The more insidious and damaging feeling is lust. A need to express your so-called love physically. Somehow, I feel y... (read in full...)

Why wont my penis stay hard after penetration? Should I see a doctor?

Q.   Okay here is the deal. I am 17 going on 18 pretty soon. I've been in love with my girlfriend for a year or so now. I play basketball and workout. But my problem is when i masturbate and then stop, i can feel it going down more and more after about 3 ...

A.   9 April 2008: Oh yeah, one more thing. If it truly is a medical condition, which is a rare thing in an 18 year old. Then it could be a low blood pressure issue, or an indication of something rare and pecular. You should see a doctor. In the short term, before a... (read in full...)

Why wont my penis stay hard after penetration? Should I see a doctor?

Q.   Okay here is the deal. I am 17 going on 18 pretty soon. I've been in love with my girlfriend for a year or so now. I play basketball and workout. But my problem is when i masturbate and then stop, i can feel it going down more and more after about 3 ...

A.   9 April 2008: Well, you're obviously gay. It's a sure sign. I've read about it... Nah, just kidding. You're fine, dude. What you're experiencing is most likely all in your head. Any penis gets a little softer after the initial burst of blood gushing in, but ... (read in full...)

He wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?

Q.   okay so thank you guys for answering my other one, and I have made up my mind about sex. I'm going to wait till I'm older!!!! The problem is he doesn't want to wait, in fact he wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or ...

A.   9 April 2008: The fact is that you want different things than that guy. This does not make either of you bad, just mismatched. Tell him to take a hike if he can't respect you wanting to wait for sex stuff, and move on to a nice virgin geek who will be much too ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend sucks at giving head.

Q.   My girlfriend sucks at giving me head. How do I make her better....

A.   9 April 2008: Try asking her if she can try some different 'tricks' for you, because you two are so good at communicating, she turns you on so much and you feel so close to her that you feel you can actually share your innermost fantasies with her. Tell her you ... (read in full...)

*adflash's friends

These are mutual friends, so *adflash has added them and they have added *adflash!

Jazzy121 agony auntJazzy121
Sweety Pie agony auntSweety Pie

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.124998100000084!