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Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?

Q.   hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone ...

A.   1 June 2007: well, it seems that your partner is very insecure about himself during sex. he's probably worried and concerned on how you might think if he pleasures back to you. he might be concerned on how he's doing it so therefore, he wants you to give him ... (read in full...)

He can say "I love you" over the phone but not in person.. why?

Q.   my bf says he loves me on the phone and i believe him, but to my face he can only manage i like you. He can't explain himself. Whats going on?...

A.   25 May 2007: he's just a bit bashful that's all. sooner or later he will say i love you in front of your face. so no worries and concerns. although on the bright side he has deep feelings for you of course!... (read in full...)

I'm 25 and love a married man who's 52! I know it's wrong but down know what to do...

Q.   I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is aweful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is wrong and I ...

A.   25 May 2007: the reason why he wants to be with you is because you are young and probably attractive to his point of view and perspective. if i were u i would look for someone younger like around your own age. it's slighty awful and disgusting your dealing with ... (read in full...)

My family members abuse me and make me feel abnormal - should I seek legal help?

Q.   It seems to be that none of my expectations of getting emotional and psychological support have been met by my family members. Rather they have been abusing me all this time. Yet i feel addicted to them and get tempted to relate with them to escape ...

A.   25 May 2007: yes u should seek help as soon as possible, you should not be treated this way. u should just report them to the authorities, or have them take a class on unabusive. they should be courtesy to you and others and not be abusive or selfish as they ... (read in full...)

I am 21 year old and I'm really scared of intercourse.

Q.   Hi, I am 21 year old and I'm really scared of intercourse. I am a virgin still. Is this normal and what can I do about it ?...

A.   24 May 2007: of course most women are frightened upon this!! i would be!in case you already know this will be painful. ... (read in full...)

I have fallen in love with this man but he is married and has a kid.

Q.   hi I have fallen in love with this man but he is married and has a kid. I don't know what to do i am 18 and he is 41. i really want to be with him what shall i do....

A.   24 May 2007: HELLO!! do you realize the age difference between you and him. he's old enough to be your dad ya know, it's bit awkward having feelings for a guy this age!! you should find someone around your own age. anyways..... you should really think about this ... (read in full...)

15 and pregnant... how do I tell my mom?

Q.   hi. i am 15 i have found out 3 weeks ago that i am pregnant i have onlii had sex twice and we have used protection both times but i have managed to get pregnant i have told my child studies teacher at school because she is realli easii to talk to ...

A.   24 May 2007: you are just too young to be pregnant and as well as having sex!! you should have thought this through and thought about the risks and consequences. well, then it's now too late to think about this now. Now you will have to support the baby and you ... (read in full...)

Is 16 too young to be engaged?

Q.   Is 16 too young to be engaged? I've been with my boyfriend over a period of 4 years. (I understand 12 is a young age to get with someone and for it to be on going for 4 years) and we recently got engaged. I understand 16 is a very young age to be co...

A.   20 May 2007: 16 is indeed very young to be engaged. you have many years ahead of you to decide and find your true love. you should think about this....... (read in full...)

Is a month too soon into a relationship to start having sex?

Q.   Im a 25 year old virgin who has recently started seeing a guy. he is coming to my town on saturday night and has asked me to stay in a hotel with him. can i read into this as him expecting sex? ive been seeing him for a month, i trust him but being ...

A.   16 May 2007: losing your virginity could be very important and serious to you. now, you just don't want to lose your virginity to some guy and or you just don't want to be a virgin anymore. on your posting you seemed a bit concerned about this. think this ... (read in full...)

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