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How can I be intimate with my wife without being selfish?

Q.   My wife has been battling vaginal issues for about a year. First, they thought it was yeast, now they think it is bacterial vaginosis, the dr's think she may be allergic to her own estrogen, etc. It's very complicated - and I have read the ...

A.   16 September 2010: That's a tuff spot to be in for both of you and it sounds like you are very patient and understanding. It has to be so frustrating that her Dr's haven't been able to correctly or fully diagnose her problem(s) so no treatment has been effective. ... (read in full...)

He enjoys anal... but I hate it!

Q.   Right okay so im 18 seeing a guy for 6 months who's 27. We've recently began getting serious and he said he loves me the other day which felt nice and natural so i replied. That isnt the problem.. theres certain things within our relationship that ...

A.   15 September 2010: Honey, I think you are the only one with real feelings and you are wasting both time and energy with him. Sexual compatibilty is very important and he's just as entitled to the kind of sex he wants as you are as long as his partnr(s) are willing ... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend just want me to be pudgy? Why doesn't he support my weight loss and work?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been with my fiancee for 3 years. Since we've been together I lost 40lbs. I was on a mission to lose weight even before I met him so I lost a total of 123lbs. In fact, when we met I was jogging with dumbbells. In any case, he...

A.   15 September 2010: Some men actually like BBW's and since he met you while you were still "pudgy" might be an indication of his preferance. Some men are insecure and seek partners who are less attractive and/or heavy because they fear that an attractive woman mi... (read in full...)

Husband won't return sexual favors

Q.   Hi, everyone. I'm a married woman of 6 years. I love my husband with every fiber of my being. And would do anything to make him happy.Among these things are oral sex. I love to make him happy and keep him satisfied. But I can't seem to want to ...

A.   15 September 2010: I agree with the others. it's down right wrong to accept sexual favors that he himself is not willing to reciprocate. I would sit him down and calmly explain to him that you've always enjoyed performing oral sex on him but in recent times you've ... (read in full...)

Disturbing boy in my class

Q.   There is a guy in my class who iz always rubbing me.!!!! Rubbing my back legs chest hips butt and trys for my other part also. He trys to put my hand in his pants. He acutualy one stuck his hand down his pants then when I was not paying attentio...

A.   15 September 2010: What he's doing is called sexual harrassment and is a punishable offence in the US. Just because he's popular doensn't give him "rights" to break the law, just makes it harder for people to believe you, especially if he only exhibits this behavior ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to have sex with a prostitute? I'm married.

Q.   I love my wife, and have never cheated on her, and have no fantasies about doing so in the future. However, what if your wife just flat out refuses to do something that you are curious about? What if you want to experience a threesome at lea...

A.   14 September 2010: I'm in the same boat as you except I'm the refusing female having this same re-occuring issue in my marriage. I'm personally thinking how pathetic you are, making such a big issue over what you don't get in the bedroom! I wondered onto this ... (read in full...)

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