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Should I believe my bf when he says that the raunchy text message wasn't his?

Q.   Been dating 3+ years, thought he was Mr Perfect. Found a raunchy outgoing text on his phone that seemed to imply having slept with whoever he sent the text to. (wasnt Me!) Went nuts but he insists he lent his mobile to his friend who put his sim ...

A.   2 June 2005: Hmm, I suggest giving him the benefit of the doubt for the time being but maybe do a bit of detective work, like finding out exactly who this girl is (etc.) I'd keep an open mind about things and if anything else suspicious happens you should ... (read in full...)

How do I get over this shyness so I can talk to the office girls?

Q.   I am desperately shy and really want to be able to talk to the two new girls in my office. They are both lovely but I start to sweat as soon as they come near me! Please help.........

A.   27 May 2005: Just approach these girls as if they were one of your regular friends. Think about how would you stand, speak, what body language would you use (etc.) on your reguular friends and try it out with these girls. Start off with small talk, such as ... (read in full...)

My guy is 15, so what if he's ready for something that I'm not ready for?

Q.   This boy I went out with is 15 and I am 13, but I love him, and he wants to go back out with me. But I think it is serious and I don't know what to do. Now I'm afraid that he will dump me if I don't give him head, (blowjob) and he might find me ...

A.   25 May 2005: Don't do anything unless you feel 100%ly ready for it, cos you'll end up regretting it. If you don't feel ready for it, tell him and if he dumps you for it then he is obviously a big sad loser who doesn't deserve someone like you. If he respects ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my boyfriend, even though I know he's cheating?

Q.   I'm in my last month of pregnancy and my boyfriend recently started to cheat on me. At first he was always here for me and now it's like he wants nothing to do with me. I feel that it is me, but is it really me or is it him? Should I stay with him?...

A.   25 May 2005: i think that you deserve better and even though it may not be the easiest thing in the world, i think you should tell him it's over. No-one has the right to treat someone like that and get away with it...you dont want him 2 think that you're so weak ... (read in full...)

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