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We cancelled the wedding and I am now stuck in limbo.

Q.   is there any hope? I live with and had been planning to marry a loving exciting, thoughtful, generous man who I adore. He also will do anything for my children aged 21 and 18. Financially he has given everything he owns. The problem is that ...

A.   4 March 2014: Daisy daisy...and harsh anon....how can I tell you how helpful you have been! It feels like I've been in a dark room and you have opened the door and the light has come flooding in...it sounds a cliche but it is true. Its kind of sad that you and ... (read in full...)

We cancelled the wedding and I am now stuck in limbo.

Q.   is there any hope? I live with and had been planning to marry a loving exciting, thoughtful, generous man who I adore. He also will do anything for my children aged 21 and 18. Financially he has given everything he owns. The problem is that ...

A.   4 March 2014: Thank you everyone. I have been pleasantly surprised at the support and advice given.I actually feel ashamed of going along in this relationship, you are all right..and I am not compatable with this man. Daisy Daisy and Aunty Babbit ..my frie... (read in full...)

We cancelled the wedding and I am now stuck in limbo.

Q.   is there any hope? I live with and had been planning to marry a loving exciting, thoughtful, generous man who I adore. He also will do anything for my children aged 21 and 18. Financially he has given everything he owns. The problem is that ...

A.   3 March 2014: I am truly grateful to everyone that responded. You are right "like I see it" I have posted several weeks ago. I keep letting the situation go on. And yes...there is a lot to be said about co-dependency, and this is a likely possibility. I know I... (read in full...)

My heart is heavy with the thought that the relationship should be ending

Q.   I am in a relationship with a 39 year old man (I am 42). There are a number of things that have not been right since we got together 18 months ago but I am struggling to make a decision as to whether or not to move on as I am not happy. The first is...

A.   20 January 2014: I don't think this sounds like a sustainable relationship You have been through a relatively recent divorce, you are emotionally vulnerable. He is providing some emotional relief by listening and some love and care when it suits him. You are hav... (read in full...)

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