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How do I trust her when I know this guy wants her?

Q.   I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years. Recently she has made friends with a guy who I think just wants to get into her pants. She wants to go and hang out with him. She says she won't let anything happen and I do trust her but she ...

A.   31 March 2009: Umm wow!! I didn't think anything was wrong with this situation until you posted an update. I'm sorry but that is wrong that this guy is kissing and holding hands and being all over your girlfriend. Was he doing this in front of you? Has she told... (read in full...)

We're "on a break", then he joked we were "Friends with Benefits" ???

Q.   2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I went "on a break". It was his idea since we had been spending too much time together and arguing a lot more than normal. A few days later I asked what he meant by "break" and he said it was that we were ...

A.   24 March 2009: Hey everyone, I'm really happy with the numerous responses. Well he is at school right now but are supposed to be getting together later to go to the movies. So I think I would like to bring the topic up with him and just stop him in his tracks and ... (read in full...)

How can I handle him with a new GF?

Q.   Hi everyone. Hope i can get some advice. Me and my boyfriend split up new years day after 3 years together... i am getting out there and keeping busy. And feel like im not too bad in dealing with things. Theres just one thing bothering me...i k...

A.   8 February 2009: Hey there... Well this situation happened to me a few years ago and you're right the feeling does suck when you see your ex with a new girl. Well one thing depends on whether or not you have to see him on some sort of basis (ie. do you work togethe... (read in full...)

I don't want a life of emotional abuse! But how do I leave him?

Q.   I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. We've been together well over a year, but in the last 4 months things are different. I have written here before about how he started changing and is almost kindof emotionally abusive (name calling), and ...

A.   3 February 2009: I wanted to thank all 3 of you that have replied so quickly with excellent advice. I know it's what I need to do...I just have to come up with the strength to actually do it. A few extra details I thought I'd add were that there is a string hold... (read in full...)

I want to be in a relationship with him but he's emotionally abusive

Q.   How do you let go of someone who you care about so much and possibly even love despite the fact that they treat you not right sometimes? I have a friend, who wants to be in a relationship with me and I want to be in one with him too, however, Iv...

A.   3 February 2009: My best advice to you is not start a relationship with him. Get away while you still can. I wish I had known before I got into a relationship like that. But there were no warning signs before. My problems didn't start until 10 months into the rela... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is convinced I'll leave him, but puts me down all the time too. Why is he acting like this?

Q.   My boyfriend of a year started acting weird a month ago. He puts me down a lot verbally (that's I'm fat, act dumb, etc.) and I tell him that it hurts my feelings but he just says "you know I'm only kidding, I love you for you and wouldn't be with ...

A.   23 September 2008: I know sometimes I think about me deserving better...but then I sit and think aside from the verbal put-downs, and his constant fear of me leaving him...everything would be perfect. I just wish that I knew what was causing this? Does anyone k... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex three times in one day, I have been feel ill and dizzy, and I feel like I want to throw up, I don't know what is wrong with me, should I take a pregnancy test?

Q.   about 15 days ago me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex 3 times in one day and each time he injected in me and all this week i been feeling sick... my chest, head, boobs, and back been hurting and every now and then when i stand up ill feel kinda ...

A.   23 September 2008: well it's hard to say for sure, because sometimes worrying about it causes the body to do strange things. to get an accurate reading you'll have to wait to take a test until AFTER you miss your period. doctor's office test is more accurate... (read in full...)

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