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Will all of this that I have found out "blow" over???

Q.   I just found out my wife cheated on me while we were engaged. I'm really angry and hurt. I don't know what to do. We were engaged and got married in Summer 2007. There was one time we had a big fight and didn't speak for 2 weeks, but didn't break up...

A.   27 February 2009: you should deffinately confront her. you completely deserve to know the truth, and she shouldnt be angry with you while telling you, she should be completely remorseful and appologetic. not fake, but as a wife that messed up and is apologizing with ... (read in full...)

Shouting out during sex

Q.   Can anyone offer any advice here. I have just split with my partner over the following. We have been together nearly 3 years and I loved him like no one else, but felt he showed his true colours the other evening. We had made love and in the heat ...

A.   27 February 2009: i think that he is stupid and immature to make you feel so bad over something like this. after 3 years, he should deffinately be more caring. dont even worry about it hun. take some time to cry and be with your girlfriends to comfort you then after ... (read in full...)

He swears he won't hit me again, should I get back with my ex?

Q.   Should I get back together with my ex? I dated this guy almost a year ago we were together for 4 years before that. While dating, he did a lot of things to me. First everytime I wanted to hang out with my friends he would try to guilt trip me an...

A.   27 February 2009: absolutley not. no woman ever deseves to be hit by her man or by any man. ever. have more self-respect, you deserve to be treated with respect. and that does NOT include being hit by someone who is supposed to love you. please for your own sake, and ... (read in full...)

If he has changed his mind about me why does he not man up to tell me?

Q.   I was on holiday in France for 3 weeks over Christmas and new year and i met up with a guy who I had met and got with 6 years ago. He works and lives there. He was very keen on me and having just come out of a long relationship, i was hesitant. I ...

A.   27 February 2009:  this is a very interesting story.. :) well i think that you should call and leave a breif message saying something along these lines...ive been missing you, trying to get a hold of you but it seems to be near impossible. im not sure if youre just ... (read in full...)

Will this help give me closure?

Q.   So.. right or wrong I'm writing this letter to my ex and sending it via the internet. I wrote to him a few weeks ago, and we spoke for a while and then he just didn't answer me. The last thing I said was "I'm glad you're happy". That was a week ...

A.   27 February 2009: i think that it is a kind thing to let him know your feelings. so you should send him the letter if you havent already. by sending the letter, im sure it will help you some, but if there are still any feelings that you feel are still there, perhaps ... (read in full...)

Why do girls do this to good guys?

Q.   So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know its not like she cheated on me but thats ...

A.   27 February 2009: that IS a horrible thing to do. its also disrespectful to you as a person that she cares about. she belittled your worth by crawling back to you just because things didnt work out the way she thought. it seems like you were her back-up plan. its not ... (read in full...)

I don't want my sister to watch porn, what can be done?

Q.   i caught my sister watching porn and masturbating !! she is 15. it has shook me inside and i cant see it happening and leave this matter though i understand its normal.what should i do about it ??? i dont know why but i dont want her to do it. ...

A.   27 February 2009: first off, it is normal to be interested in the opposite sex, but it is NOT normal to watch porn. its a horrible addiction that, unfortunately many people have a problem with. i think that it would be a VERY smart idea to let your parents know ... (read in full...)

She's sent a photo to him but says she loves me but there's things I know that she hasn't told me

Q.   Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 6 months. I love her i really do and i understand that females have guy friends and thats cool. She tells me she loves me all the time but i found a letter from one of her friends in prison and he ...

A.   27 February 2009: well im not an expert, but maybe you should just ask her why she is being so open with this male friend. you could try telling her that you dont mind her keeping in contact and being a friend to him, but its a little past the line when he's ... (read in full...)

Helppp!!! How can I control my jealousy?

Q.   I am going out with a boy I have been chasing up for a year now and finally he says he loves me a lot and I really do believe him as we wouldn't be together otherwise as he has never had a girlfriend before and he used to blow girls off a lot, which ...

A.   27 February 2009: i have the same problem!!! i completely trust my boyfriend, but i cant stand it when any of his female friends even comment him on myspace. sure he doesnt flirt back, but it drives me nuts!! txt me so we can try to help eachother :) (707) 393-8862... (read in full...)

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