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What do you think about the potential of this relationship: should we try again?

Q.   The Relationship: We get along great. We have similar humor and personality. We enjoy the same TV shows and always had a pleasant, easy time together. But we didn't always have a lot to talk about or share a lot of common interests. We...

A.   12 April 2011: So she's an introvert and he's an extrovert? Yes, it can work out. He just needs to be more respectful of her need for less social interaction, maybe have homebody nights 2x/wk and go out 2x/wk and she can go home early if she likes.... (read in full...)

In love with a guy who won't date me because of my age.

Q.   Ok, this might sound a little odd but I really need some help if you can give it! I am in love with a guy I met once about six weeks ago and spent only about 3 hours with him. He barely knows I exist, I am sure he doesn't even remember that nig...

A.   12 April 2011: Sorry, you're still jailbait. That's why he freaked. You'll have to wait til you're 18 or only date guys 18 & under. I know it sucks :( But with time, you will forget him, and if not, when you turn 18, ask him out for "birthday drinks" (if you're ... (read in full...)

How do I end things with my abusive cruel boyfriend?

Q.   Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years or so. We met off a dating site. I gave him my cell number and he texted me alot probably 200-300 texts per day. Telling me his life, his life stories. I was flattered all this attention at fir...

A.   12 April 2011: Get a restraining order and if that doesn't work, just disappear. Go live on the other side of the country for a year (or in another country). He's abusive. Get out!!... (read in full...)

Will married lover ever divorce his wife? Should I just end things?

Q.   Its kinda complicated. Me and my partner (who is married) have been off and on for 4 years now. I met him when we were working together overseas for a year, after two months of being close friends we started being intimate. We pretty much knew it ...

A.   12 April 2011: Listen, you are the only one who can make these decisions about your life, but the truth is this: he has the best of both worlds. He has a kid (and shame on them for thinking a kid could save their marriage) and he is still married. He has a little ... (read in full...)

Why did my husband fondle me then go masturbate in the bathroom when we were at a friend's house?

Q.   I do not have any idea how to title this question. I am 31 and my husband is 32. We were at some friends' house recently. He came to me and asked to come with him. We went into a bedroom and he closed and locked the door. He said to me to get ...

A.   12 April 2011: Just be glad he didn't come all over you, that would have been hard to explain at the party.... (read in full...)

How do I build a wall around my heart?

Q.   I am in love with a complete shit who takes and takes and never thinks of anyone but himself even his family are scared of him how do I build a wall around my heart that he cannot get through?...

A.   15 March 2011: WEell, if he's a jerk, stay away from him and fill your life with other people and other things. ... (read in full...)

I want my marriage to work, but at the same time I don't want to go an another year like this.

Q.   Dear Cupid I have been married for 7 years now. But for the past year, things have been going bad in my marriage. i still have feelings for my husband but not the same love i had before. i don't think he feels the same way.we haven't had sex for ...

A.   12 March 2011: Go to couseling.... (read in full...)

She's married but her attachment to my BF upsets me. What can I do?

Q.   my boyfriend of over 3 yrs has a friend who is a girl. I also have male friends, but I am becoming slightly alarmed with the amount of defense he puts up for their friendship. I have expressed my uncomfort for a while now but I have got nowh...

A.   10 March 2011: Well, my best friend growing up was a guy and I have no sympathy for ya, sorry. Maybe he sees her more as a sister than a girl. He's known her for a long time and he probably forgives her for a lot more than he should. ... (read in full...)

What can I do? because my reading is, he wants to break up.

Q.   I'm really worried. I think my boyfriend wants to break up with me! He told me he loved me though. Today at lunch my friend pulled him over to sit by me and we didn't talk once. We didn't even look at each other. Then We started texting and ...

A.   10 March 2011: I don't know, but maybe you should try talking more and being friends besides boyfriend and girlfriend. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is 11 years older than I am! How do I tell my parents?

Q.   how do i tell my friends and parents that my boyfriend is 11 years older than me. i really need to tell them. i cant keep it a secret for another year please help....

A.   7 March 2011: Why do you need to keep it a secret for another year? Are you underage? If so, you should probably stop seeing him. IMHO there's something seriously screwed up with a man who dates only young girls. How do you know he won't dump you for someone ... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of my loose skin?

Q.   i would like to know how to get rid of my loose skin, i have been trying for almost 3 years now and its still there, its putting me of, i cant even go swimming anymore and am not gaining weight either and am skinny and can see bones, so how can i ...

A.   7 March 2011: There's this weird thing called "skin brushing", where you brush your skin every day before you get into the shower.Supposedly it helps get rid of all the dead skin cells and your skin firms up. ... (read in full...)

Does acting and looking like a boy mean that I'm a lesbian?

Q.   Hi everyone, i have a problem. Both me and my friend had and it goes like this. Both me and my friend are tomboys. We love doing almost everything that boys would do. We are both homeschooled so we get picked on sometimes and sometimes public scho...

A.   7 March 2011: Are you attracted primarily to other girls? If the answer is no, you're not a lesbian. Being "tomboyish", not wearing makeup & etc does not make a person a lesbian or transgender. I don't think you have anything to worry about. If people are making ... (read in full...)

I'm a pagan and he's a jehovas witness...can this work?

Q.   hey, i'll try to keep this short. theres this guy i really fancy and we got on brilliantly, well we still do. but recently i found out he's a strict jehovas witness. for most people that wouldn't be a problem, they'd still try and ask him out anyw...

A.   7 March 2011: Sadly, I think this is one combo that just won't work out. Better off just being friends.... (read in full...)

I have let myself be "molded" into what hubsand wanted in a wife,and now I don't know who I am or how to find me.

Q.   I am turning 30 in a week. I cant help but look back at my 20's and think the only good that came of them were my 2 kids. My relationship has been more rocky than happy lately. I only have a high school diploma no further education,no job in the ...

A.   5 March 2011: I am almost 30 too and I have been a "just" a mom for the past 5 years. Here are some ideas: *Take a class at the local community college, whatever sounds fun. This way you will meet lots of new people and you can find things you enjoy that ar... (read in full...)

What matters?

Q.   So I've been around with confusion, what matters to a girl? I've heard size. I've heard Technique. I've heard Stamina. Which one is the one that actually matters, I heard size doesn't matter too much as long as you're around 6 in, Technique I have ...

A.   24 February 2011: Size not so much. Stamina is great and so is technique. What really matters is not being selfish in bed & making sure that she gets her orgasm first.... (read in full...)

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