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Two weeks and he has a new girlfriend??

Q.   My ex boyfriend who borke up with me just under two weeks ago now has a new girlfriend, i was upset enough about him breaking up with me as it is just getting over it, and now im depressed again. How do i deal with it :(...

A.   18 September 2011: Hello Can I just share my experience with you, I have been in the extact same position, I was completely in love with one of my exs he broke up with me after nearly 5 years together and started going out with another girl ONE week later. I was hone... (read in full...)

I've been cheated on twice and now both my ex boyfriends want me back!

Q.   i recently broke up with my long-time boyfriend of 20yrs because of the fact he was cheating on me. I then met another guy and we have been dating for 1yr now. I broke up with him within the last 2wks because i felt that there was someone else. It ...

A.   18 September 2011: Hello I admire you so much for breaking up with these guys that DO NOT deserve you. I have been cheated on and took him back and hey he did it again, there was no trust there and I suppose I never forgot it. My friends have done the same and got ... (read in full...)

Ex wants to know I stopped contact

Q.   my question is my boyfriend called it off but claimed he still loved me as a friend. he kept calling me but a time came when i completely stopped picking up his calls because i needed to heal from pain. and he started asking his sisters why i wa...

A.   1 September 2011: Hello Please do NOT contact! I had the same thing with one of my ex's he broke up with me but still wanted to contact me (especially when drunk) I used to cave all the time .... it went on for 3 years! He just used me and didnt want anyone else to ... (read in full...)

Stuck in no-man's land between together and broken up

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years. It has not been a smooth ride - I cheated on him 6 months into the relationship but he decided he wanted to stay together and work through it. We currently live together, but for a long time now ...

A.   12 July 2011: Please listen to your gut instincts, they are the only thing we have sometimes to go on and deep down I think you know what is the right thing to do. Yes you could stay with him to make him happy but wouldn't this crop up again weeks/months/years ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't give 100%

Q.   So Im thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend. He's got alot of great qualities - we have a blast hanging out, he makes me laugh and i can see a future with him.He constantly talks about us being married, living together, kids etc. The only ...

A.   9 February 2011: Hello It seems this guy does love you, I think with the sex thing, I know how frustrating it can be! I have been there! He seems to have confidance issues, instead of talking about it all the time (he probably gets more nervous when it comes to... (read in full...)

Why do men that cheat have to lie about it? Why not just tell the truth once found out?

Q.   Dear ladies out there who's been cheated on.. I've been w/my best friend for 10 yrs. Aug 13 2010 found out he was seeing a girl last dec. Its has been 6 mos now, I am done w/the relationship.. But after 10 years I believe I deserve to know the ...

A.   9 February 2011: Hello! Can I just said well done to you for getting out and not falling for his cr*p! So many women (and men) stay with someone after they've cheated but in my case it never works out! I have been cheated on twice, once by the guy that I was truly ... (read in full...)

Can we still be friends after what he said?

Q.   Me and a guy friend were talking online and the conversation some how turned to our past. (We used to be sort of friends with benefits) he's with another girl now so we agreed to stay friends even though i found it very hard. The FWB thing ended ...

A.   30 January 2011: Hello I don't think you should do anything. You've told him being friends is too hard but he seems fine with it. And to you friends will be too hard as If you like him you will analyse everything he says/does. To have no contact would be best... (read in full...)

Is it too late? Did I blow my chance?

Q.   I've been on and off with my ex bf for 9 months. And last week we were supposed to get back together and talk things through. So he picked me up and we ate breakfast at his place. We weren't talking much, so i decided to talk about issues that ...

A.   4 January 2011: Sorry can I just ask Why the hell do you wanna be with this guy?? He cheated on you, you break up all the time, he doesn't want to talk when you go over ... he has no repect and sounds too immature for a relationship! You don't deserve to be treated ... (read in full...)

How many partners is too many partners?

Q.   I am a 29 year old woman trying to figure out if I have had too many partners or if I am just average and don't need to worry. I feel pretty average. But when men ask, I'm never sure how I measure up. I know it depends on the man. How many p...

A.   4 January 2011: Hi there! No not at all!!! I think that is not too many partners at all .... unless you lost your virginity in the last month :-) But so what if you are being safe what's the problem x ... (read in full...)

From girlfriend to friend but secretly not over him...how do I handle this?

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back and we are now friends. My problem is, i am not over him, i still love him. He sees me just as a friend, but he knows how i feel about him. He is asking my advice about dating other girls,...

A.   4 January 2011: Hi there, I really feel for you as I have been in this situation before. As much as you love him and want to see him I would break off all contact with this guy. When feelings are still raw and you still love him you just can't be friends, it hurt... (read in full...)

Is she interested or not? Its driving me nuts!

Q.   I hope this question isn't too long. OK, here's the situation. I came out of a long term relationship 7 months ago. Around two months after that, I met an awesome girl. We met through friends, became facebook friends, had some really good online ...

A.   19 May 2010: Hi After reading your post I think it seems she does like you and like hanging out with you but is using you whenever is convenient for her! She texts and see's you when SHE wants, then doesn't reply when you sometimes innitiate as she's busy doi... (read in full...)

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