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My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?
Q. It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch ...
A. 8 September 2009: I am so sorry this happened. I tried my best to advise you against going to the police without solid evidence. The courts do this all the time. My poor friend was called a liar in court as well and they made her go to a psychologist like she was a ... (read in full...)
Do I wait 6 months to get back with ex?
Q. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago, won't go into detail, but it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because he thought at the time we wanted different things. He has just contact me and apologised for being stubborn and said he feels really bad ...
A. 1 December 2008: Don't do it! I was just ruined by my ex of two years who was saying the same thing he came back 4 months later, laid it on thick. When I began to come around to the thought of him and I together he began fooling around with other women and made it ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is gaining weight, I'm less attracted to her, how do I let her know or not?
Q. Hi, looking for a little advice really. Ive been dating for about nine months now, think the world of my GF But..since we started dating she has gained, maybee 2-3 stone on a 5ft 9 frame. She has always been fairly large which didnt bother ...
A. 1 December 2008: Listen, I am thin and attractive. My ex of two years lessened our intimacy and you bet I noticed. He told me he didn't think I tried hard enough for him (wearing cute outfits, putting on more makeup, always shaving my legs, wearing sexier underwear) ... (read in full...)
The more I think about my life so far the more I think I might be gay.
Q. When I was in high school I always considered myself straight, and figured that I would eventually find a guy I liked. I have since graduated and still haven't found a guy I like (I have never had a b/f). I have always thought girls were pretty or ...
A. 18 November 2008: I thought I was really confused when I began seeing myself helping my neighbor raise her daughter (the husband was never around). I realized in my thoughts I wasn't just helping her raise her daughter I was also being like a husband to her. I really ... (read in full...)
I'm waiting for something bad to happen in my (seemingly) perfect life and it's agonising, please help!
Q. Right here it go's, sorry if its long! Im 16, a model for elite modelling, and ive always been lucky in life, my life has always been very comfortable money wise and ive never had to worry about anything. Im considered very good looking and have...
A. 14 September 2008: Congratulations with your modeling. My ex's sister was a model in vogue, for calvin klien and what not she did really well until she decided she no longer wanted to be a part of it. Now, in your case this might be something you want to do for a few ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want sex, but does watch porn!
Q. Well me and my husband have almost been married a year and I'm having problems with our sex life... There was a problem with porn before we got married and I made him promise that he wouldn't watch it after we got married, and of course he promised. ...
A. 1 September 2008: I had a boyfriend who did this to me for most of our two year relationship. People like him find it hard to share a sexual experience and relate to others. I'm sure you two have or had a loving relationship or great sex at one point but over time as ... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 1 September 2008: Well I still have this issue and I am 23 about to be 24 years old. I am the head of the Children's Department at my library and people hesistate to come up to me for questions. They ask my staff rather than me because they think I'm 17 and its a ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend won't talk to me. DON'T tell me to move on!
Q. i split up with my ex 8 months ago now and went through a faze for the first few months after breakup where i didnt talk to him. recently iv decided i really want him as part of my life again just as friends cos i miss his company. its not that i ...
A. 1 September 2008: As well intentioned your want to be around him again is your feelings are selfish. My ex right now is telling me that he wants us to be friends but in order to be friends I couldn't in his words, go dating behind his back. Now, as much as I'm sure ... (read in full...)
My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?
Q. It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch ...
A. 1 September 2008: Get a digital camera or borrow one. Hide it so you can capture this monster. You'll have undeniable proof. I had a friend whose father was raping her. When she told her mother she wouldn't beleive her. Finally, her mother saw condoms in the trash ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents don't want us to date!
Q. Me and my boyfriend recently got back together for the 4th time but problem his family doesn't want us to date. they say i treat him like crap and im not mature. i really want to be with me him cause i know for a fact i love him but he texted me ...
A. 1 September 2008: Well I'm 23 and I had a boyfriend for 2 years. His family hated me too. This problem can happy at any age. Well in the end its very important to have the family's support and if not their's your boyfriend's undying support. The problem is it doesn't ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and hurt about a girl my bf flirted with...he says it was a flirt gone wrong...what do I think??
Q. my fiance the flirt last year my fiance had a thing going on with this girl at work... for a while things where horrible and he treated me like crap... anyway it was 3 months down the line b4 i found out or let say had an eye opener... didn't...
A. 22 August 2008: Well It sounds as if you are putting some of the blame on yourself. When you said it was your fault for looking at his profile. Let's be honest, you looked because you wanted to KNOW not just have faith that you could trust him again. You deserve to ... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and my girlfriend won't kiss me on her own. Am I doing something wrong?
Q. Hey im 11 and i have a girlfriend but she wont kiss me on her own. Her friends have to convince her.My best friend's girlfreind will kiss him.I dont know if im doing something wrong....
A. 22 August 2008: No! There is nothing wrong with you. She is going at a normal pace for having a boyfriend at her age. And you just need to cool your jets. She is nervous so maybe kiss her on the cheek for a little while instead. But I strongly suggest nothing more ... (read in full...)
I just got the job of my dreams but I'm still madly in love with my ex.!
Q. I just got the job of my dreams but I'm still madly in love with my ex. He has been txting me and recently sent me one saying he was thinking about me. I also recently found out he spoke to a friend of mine and told her that if the woman he loves ...
A. 17 August 2008: I guess I didn't write my question clearly.
We were together for 2 years and broke up after the moved away. (I pushed for the break-up because he was taking his stress out on me).
I just got my dream job but I have NO intentions of gi... (read in full...)
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