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My g/f says she doesn't want to have sex anymore

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and I am very much in love with her. The other day we were lying in my bed and she started talking about how she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she loses weight. I keep telling her that she is ...

A.   27 March 2009: Buy her some sexy outfits and help her make her feel sexy. Give her back rubs to get her in the mood. Just make her feel sexy! Keep telling her that she is hot and maybe she can get in the mood.... (read in full...)

I care about him alot but don't think I want to be with him

Q.   I'm stuck in a real predicament. I have been dating this boy for nearly 8 months but I'm starting to fall out of love after quite a few incidents where he has been overly protective and possessive of me. I don't know what to do, he has a great side ...

A.   27 March 2009: The first mistake you are making is choosing his happiness over yours by worrying about him becoming a partier. If your not happy get out now before you are in too deep. You are so young and have a whole life ahead of you. Do not waste your time ... (read in full...)

I'm so ready for sex..but..

Q.   I've never done anything with a guy but make-out. I'm soooo ready to do stuff!!! But i'm scared i'll screw it up, or do something wrong. ughh help pleasee! And I want to finger myself but i dont know how to do that either ha. It's embarrasing....

A.   27 March 2009: Sex is everywhere so its not surprising that you want to experience it already at such a young age. I lost my virginity at age 14 and I regret it till this day. If you are going to have sex make sure you do it with someone you care about and know. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to put a label on our relationship..and I'm tired of this attitude

Q.   i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be ...

A.   27 March 2009: One week two week tops you should have a title of bf gf. A year he should be saying the L word. So tell him if its ok to see other guys since hes not really your boyfriend. If he says go ahead then do it and forget about him. For all you know he ... (read in full...)

She knows I love her, why does she keep going on about her ex to me all the time?

Q.   About 2 weeks ago this girl told me she loved me and it felt genuine. We have been talking for a while and been talkig on the phone every night and hanging out and we still talk on the phone every night, but she went out with her ex, and she's ...

A.   27 March 2009: Let her go man. You are waisting your time and efforts with someone who is playing games or is confused. Don't be dumb or your just going to get hurt even more.... (read in full...)

He can't love me fully because of her

Q.   me and my bf have been dating on and off for 3 yrs now, and im 20 and he is 30. he is recently divorced with a 7 yr old daughter.these past yrs have been the best and worst of my life. he never buys me anything or take upon the men duties such as ...

A.   27 March 2009: You are twenty you should be having fun instead of being miserable with some loser. Your happiness must come first. Start flirting with other guys and dump him. And if he really cares then he will try hard to get you back. You can find better ... (read in full...)

Does my apparently flirty teacher like me?

Q.   my teacher is sort of freaking me out. i posted a question like this today but no one really answered it so i am going 2 try again:) any ways my teacher in my school is really confusing me. i don't like him other then a teacher and that is it. but ...

A.   27 March 2009: I think that is kind of creepy. I would stay away if it makes you uncomfortable. If he stares at your picture that is really wierd for a teacher to do. I would be careful and if things get worse I would report him. ... (read in full...)

I need your help aunts!!! How can I find out for sure if my boyfriend has cheated?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend cheated before and I am really trying to forget it but it is so hard, I just cannot seem to get it out of my head. There are no definite facts but I think he's up to something, I think he's hiding a a second sim card that he could...

A.   13 March 2009: Honestly I would step back and ask yourself, Is this what I want for the rest of my life? Do you want to always feel like you cannot trust him. Anyways I think once a cheater always a cheater. You need to gain confidence in yourself and stop ... (read in full...)

How to make out and use my tongue

Q.   hi aunts im a 14 year old guy and i've never had a girlfriend before and i feel so pathetic right now.....never kissed or anything like that.. but now i do have a relationship with this wonderful girl..she's awesome and every thing is great we...

A.   13 March 2009: What I did was practice on you hand. I know it sounds wierd but just try it. All you haveto do with you tongue is move it around playfully and do what she is doing.... (read in full...)

How can I ask my parents for birth control?

Q.   I'm 15 years old and I want birth control. I'm not a virgin but I'm not having sex regulary, I just want it just in case something ever comes up. Also, to help regulate my period. The problem is I don't know how to ask my parents for them because my ...

A.   13 March 2009: Well if you are a girl and have heavy periods where you bleed through your pants and cannot control it. That is where your parents especially a mother can understand your want for the pill.... (read in full...)

Are we drifting apart even though we meet up often?

Q.   I've got a pretty good friend from my final years of high school whom I have gotten on well with since we met. We live near each other and hang out quite often. However, lately, she hasn't messaged me back as often as she used to and often refuses ...

A.   13 March 2009: Think about if some how, you did something to make her angry? Do you thank her for driving you or give her gas money? ... (read in full...)

I need your help aunts!!! How can I find out for sure if my boyfriend has cheated?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend cheated before and I am really trying to forget it but it is so hard, I just cannot seem to get it out of my head. There are no definite facts but I think he's up to something, I think he's hiding a a second sim card that he could...

A.   13 March 2009: How long have you been in this relationship?... (read in full...)

My friend KNEW I liked him and now she's with him! I feel betrayed.

Q.   I'm going throuh some stuff, ok here it goes, my best friend let's call her hannah, well a while ago I told hannah that I was crushing on this guy, well she understood and we became good friends with him. A couple of days I heard that he liked ...

A.   13 March 2009: This is an important part of your life when you can pick out who your true friends are and who are the fakes. This girl is obviously a fake. I would not trust her and I would call her out on this situation to see what she says. I think she is ... (read in full...)

How can I ask my parents for birth control?

Q.   I'm 15 years old and I want birth control. I'm not a virgin but I'm not having sex regulary, I just want it just in case something ever comes up. Also, to help regulate my period. The problem is I don't know how to ask my parents for them because my ...

A.   12 March 2009: I think you should tell your mom that you heard Birth control pills can lessen your periods and can help with acne. Just tell her you want to when you will get your period and you think it will be helpful for you. She will ask if you are sexually ... (read in full...)

Any way to find out his sexual preferences?

Q.   I feel really awkward asking for advice about this; I'm 22 for goodness sake! I should know how to handle this!! Okay, so here's the thing: There's this guy that I like. Really, really like! But even though I get to see him most days, I neve...

A.   12 March 2009: I would just try talking to him that is the only way to know. Then if he does really like you he will ask you out or for your number or something. If not I would not waste my time with this guy. ... (read in full...)

Is she getting bored with me?

Q.   I feel like shit... I'm 15 and my girlfrend is 16. When we started going out it was perfect but now I'm really mad... I'm a nice sweet guy, totally not a jerk and a really good and caring boyfriend... I love her and I thought she did tooo... but ...

A.   12 March 2009: You need to ask her this. Communicatio is key in any relationship. If you do not ask her whatever is wrong is going to just get worse. Also do little things for her to make her feel special. Like buy her flowers or give her a massage. ... (read in full...)

I'm heartbroken...

Q.   I went out with a boy for almost 3 months and fell in love with him. He broke my heart and about 3 days later had another girl on his arm. I am still in love but they have now been going out for 5 months or a little longer. I want him back! What ...

A.   12 March 2009: Girl you need to MOVE ON. Your are sooo young. Have fun and go meet other guys. Obviously he does not care for you. That may sound harsh but this gives you the opportunity to find someone 10 times better than him. Don't stay stuck on one guy ... (read in full...)

Should I tell Adam what I did?

Q.   Hi guys, I need some help... and I dont know what to do. I did something really bad and I'm ashamed. Well me and my buddy Adam are like two peas in a pod... we're the best of friends we're really close and nothing could tear us apart, we get along ...

A.   12 March 2009: You need to definitley tell your friend. Especially because his "GF" is not good for him if she is already cheating on him with you she probably gets around with anyone. If you do not tell him and he finds out, which people usually do he will be ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on trying to find a b/f because I have been unlucky in love so far?

Q.   hi after all my rejection in the last 10 years i think i should give up on getting a boyfriend its too much of pain.there is too much competion out there .the guys i like somebody else so i don,t think is much point, any boys perfer tall,gorgeou...

A.   12 March 2009: Well of course I do not know you but have you heard the expression, "You are who you date? You need to find love for yourself first and find what makes a good guy and then you can figure out what kind of guy you are looking for. But you have to ... (read in full...)

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