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Will this approach help me lose weight?

Q.   hey :D I realy want to lose weight but quite fast and i was wondering if i ate like 500 caleries a day and excersized a lot how much weight could i lose ? please no nasty comments i just want help ! thanks x...

A.   19 July 2009: Thats a really unhealthy number of caleries. just exercise more and switch your higher calerie foods for healthier ones.... (read in full...)

Would this be classified as rape or no?

Q.   I basically wanna know if this classes as rape and if the guy still has an interest in me or not. Well about four months ago i went to meet a guy off the internet. He wasnt the first person id met off the internet and i always have an incling ...

A.   24 June 2009: It seems like attempted rape, if he penatrated you than it was. You were upset and told him no but he didnt listen thats rape. U shudnt care if this guy has interest in you or not! he lied about his age, his appearence, got you drunk then tried to ... (read in full...)

Sexual Frustration!

Q.   I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me cum on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuf...

A.   21 June 2009: I only fibbed to save his feelings because he was getting really down and depressed not to be mean. He thought i had cum when i hadent i just didnt correct his because he looked so happy when he thought i had i didnt have the heart to tell him.... (read in full...)

He said choose me or your best friend! I can't bare losing either of them

Q.   hi. ive just turned 16 last week and ive been giong out with my boyfriend for over 6 months now i love him so much. he means so much to me but now hes been arguing with my best friend and he says he wants nothing more to do with her and he said ...

A.   17 June 2009: You need to explain to your bf that even if he doesnt like your friend he's putting you in a horrible position, he's got to see it from your perspective; its not fair to make you choose. Tell him that you care deeply about both of them and dont want ... (read in full...)

I feel like I have to put on a fake smile. I just don't fit in!

Q.   I feel like i'm drowning. I wake up in the morning and don't want to get out of bed, i don't want to face everything. The minute i leave the privacy of my room i put a smile on my face and act happy all day, and it's a lie. I don't know what to do. ...

A.   17 June 2009: It seems like your going through a difficult time at the moment, dont worry we all go through those, even if you feel lonely and like nobody understands what life is like for you your not alone.I know that somtimes being the person that your friends ... (read in full...)

Depressed from the bombshell my wife dropped. She wasn't a virgin.

Q.   I recently got married and on our wedding night my wife dropped a bombshell by saying shez not a vrigin. she said she had sex while she was 9 years old and the guy was 20 years old. She didn't have any boyfriend or any sort of relationship since ...

A.   15 June 2009: The sex that she had was RAPE! It could not be concented to and seems to have hurt her deeply as your the only kind of relationship she has had. She's the one that should feel depressed not you. You should be pleased that she trusted you to somthing ... (read in full...)

I'm 13, Should I wait to have a child with my 17 year old boyfriend?

Q.   my boyfriend and i want to have a baby. we are both in our teens (im 13 he is 17) and unsure if we should wait??? please help...

A.   15 June 2009: Of course you should wait. Your far too young. Wait till you have finished your educations, have a job, money and a proper place to live. It limits your oppertunities in life. It does you no harm to wait xxx... (read in full...)

He's pressuring me after promising that he wouldn't

Q.   i have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months. He said that he wouldnt pressure me into thing sexually and to his credit he has been very good at keeping his word... well untill recently. He says he wont pressure me but in the same breath ...

A.   15 June 2009: Thanks for the advice i've found it really useful and it gonna talk to him about it next time i see him xx... (read in full...)

He's pressuring me after promising that he wouldn't

Q.   i have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months. He said that he wouldnt pressure me into thing sexually and to his credit he has been very good at keeping his word... well untill recently. He says he wont pressure me but in the same breath ...

A.   15 June 2009: Thanks for the advice i've found it really useful and it gonna talk to him about it next time i see him xx... (read in full...)

I feel like a child compared to my friends because I'm not having sex, drinking and taking drugs!

Q.   Im 14 years old and all my friends are already having sex and giving guys BJs and drinking, drugs ect... i really don't fit in but for some reason im friends with them there nice people but i feel as if im werid cos i dont have a boyfriend and im q...

A.   15 June 2009: Just because their doing it doesnt mean you have to do it too. They might be nice people but if they let you get involved in that then they are not true friends. Sex and things related to that are not things that you should rush into, they should be ... (read in full...)

23 and a virgin. Boyfriend doesn't want to be the one I lose it too!

Q.   I'm 23 and still a virgin. It's not that I wanted to wait till marriage; I just wanted to wait for the right person and the right loving situation. I've been going out with this guy for over a month now, who was my friend for 3 years first, and ...

A.   15 June 2009: Your right to want it to be a good experience and to want a bit of romance. I think he does care but the idea of being sombody's first can seem a bit scary. Its because everybody remembers their first time and its obviosly a big deal to you. ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to get itchy "down there'' after shaving?

Q.   Ok this isn't really a problem but I just wanted some advice from the gals out there. Is it normal to get really itchy after shaving 'down there' or is it just me? In which case should I use a hair removal cream instead? I could really do with some ...

A.   15 June 2009: Yeah it does really whatever you do bit but using shaving cream, a new razor and savlon on the area afterwards can help.... (read in full...)

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