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What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

Q.   Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

A.   31 May 2011: Well she went home for memeorial day weekend. I told her to think about everything ive said. I basically said that she needs to quit lieing to herself and tell me face to face what shes thinking. I cant go on living like this no more. I was over ... (read in full...)

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

Q.   Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

A.   31 May 2011: Only reason at this poin in time that I believe her over him is because we already started talking about all this stuff slowly. She has admitted to a lot of things. Ahe sincerly apologized for what she did. She had more guts than he did. For that I ... (read in full...)

Why do I get butterflies when I think about her?

Q.   hello everyone i want to know about these feelings that i have been having. i like this girl alot and everytime i see her or speak to her i get butterflies in my stomach and i also get this when i thing about being with her which is all the ...

A.   10 May 2011: LOL. Dude first you need to breathe. Grow a pair and ask her out. The worst thing she can say is no. Then move on to the next. If you lose your apetite over her than I think you have more issues than just liking this girl. Good luck... (read in full...)

All of my girlfriend's friends think she's single!

Q.   Been with girlfriend just over 4 years. At begining she didnt want to tell anyone just to see if things would work out between us. As time has gone on, she comes up with more and more excuses for not telling anyone. All her friends think she is ...

A.   10 May 2011: Yea man sounds like a bunch of crap to me too. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is move on. But you have to. But in my opinion we all have to make sacrifices for something we want or desire. If she isnt willing to do that im sorry man its time to ... (read in full...)

My husband was cheating on me with prostitutes!

Q.   My husband cheated on me with prostitutes, I had just gave birth to my first child. I had no clue he was sleeping around, I found this out about a year ago. We are still together but it's not the same, everytime I see him I think of how he hurt me. ...

A.   10 May 2011: Listen to me, how is this tension healthy for your son. I dont think shuttting the father out of his life is the answer eitheir. I think you should leave him and mutually give him time to spend with yall son. Good luck... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm living in sin having sex with no marriage and b/f thinks we're not having enough sex!

Q.   Hey ppl, i have a question, my boyfriend and i have been in a committed loving relationship for two years, but we had been best friends for one year before, we also live together and are both in college, he is 25 and i am 20, my problem is dat i ...

A.   10 May 2011: As a male I understand we can be insensative to your needs. He can not read your mind. You need to tell him. That is where the true test comes. If he doesnt respect it than I hate to tell you hes just using you for the sex. Im telling you if he ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't believe in marriage. Will he ever marry me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together near two years, both early thirties, known each other since we were fifteen. I have been married and divorced twice and have two children and cannot have any more, he does not want children of his own. We have ...

A.   10 May 2011: First off you know how he felt about the marriage situation when you got with him. This is what ill never understand about women. You tell them how you feel in the begining then it comes back to bite you in the rear. Do not I repeat do not preasure ... (read in full...)

Who would want me and where would I go if I leave this relationship?

Q.   Hi all, i'm new here. I'm 28 wit my boyfriend same age for 4 and half years. We hav been livin 2gether for 3 and half years. I'm just not sure if i want to continue in this relationship. I've been sick and had brain surgery recently and he ha...

A.   10 May 2011: Im sorry about your situation about being sick first and foremost. Second, you need to be more confident about yourself. It doesnt matter if you are fat. You obviously were able to get this man somehow. And with the husband I think its something you ... (read in full...)

My friend never listen to what I have to say!

Q.   Your Open Question: Why would my friend behave like this? am sick of her attitude.? I went away for 4days with my mum it was my cousins wedding.. Anyway, it was one of my friends birthday but I couldn't wish her a happy birthday because the...

A.   10 May 2011: I understanD where you are coming from. I dont know how good of friends yall are. Was there not another phone you could have called her from? I dont know the whole situation. Regardless if she is a real friend shell talk to you again. Give her time. ... (read in full...)

Friend said he wouldn't tell anyone about my crush. Is that a good thing?

Q.   I sorta have a crush on this one guy, and I asked my friend to ask my crush what he thought of me since they're pretty good friends and all and he says he'll do it. The next day, I change my mind and I don't want him to ask anymore and he goes ...

A.   10 May 2011: He told him, hate to tell you at your age its bros before girls. I know it may sound weak but its almost better off that next time you do it or ask another girlfriend of yours to... (read in full...)

Should I have an abortion? I don't know who the father is!

Q.   Should I go through with an abortion? My partner and I have been together for a year and recently have been arguing none stop about our financial situation, it resulted in me having a one night stand and I have just found out that I am pregnant. I ...

A.   10 May 2011: This is your choice no one can answer this question for you. Why should that child suffer for a mistake you made? There are other situations that are far worse than yours. I say you seek help before making any decision like this. I feel bad for your ... (read in full...)

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