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Paranoid about pregnancy! how soon can I take the test?

Q.   i had unprotective sex friday and had forgoten to take my pill 3 days previous( yeah its stupid) and i no the risks of pregnency, even tho i did take it the day i had sex But anyway i think im being paroniod about this, but since saturday my ni...

A.   13 April 2010: I don't think any pregnancy test will give you a conclusive result this soon afterwards. The soonest you could possibly find out, if I'm not mistaken, is a few days before your period is supposed to come. The most definite indicator, however, would ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian, or have I just not met the right man yet?

Q.   dear aunts. sorry if this is too long. I met this girl who is doing the same uni course as me and i was immediately drawn to her. im not sure what it is about her but i felt strangely interested in absolutely everything about her. i didnt want to ...

A.   11 April 2010: It's a real shame that people are so closed-minded about this sort of thing. I have a feeling you'd be perfectly happy if it wasn't for the fear of being judged. You can always try surrounding yourself by men, but if you're not attracted to them ... (read in full...)

Is he a good guy? Is he being genuine?

Q.   I'd like some thoughts on this situation. I've been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and things are going well. We can spend hours together, talk on and on, and just have a great time. He's been really slow to make a move on me, kiss me etc but as ...

A.   27 September 2009: It seems like this guy is going to great lengths to keep you comfortable and to respect any boundaries you have, which is a wonderful sign. There's not a lot of information here, but he doesn't sound like a player from what you've given, especially ... (read in full...)

Why am I attracted to my guitar teacher and older men?

Q.   I have a crush on my teacher. He is my guitar teacher and he is awesome and we have so much in common. He does private lessons with me and my best friend and I had a dream yesterday that my best friend was ill and he tought me on my own. He put his ...

A.   27 September 2009: It's perfectly normal and very common for girls to be attracted to older men. I'm a college student, and I find many of my professors attractive (we're talking people with graying or white hair here). And, you probably already know this, but the ... (read in full...)

Is my BF ashamed of me? He won't hold my hand in public or tell his friends we're dating.

Q.   My bf won't hold my hand in public! We have been together for two months and last night we went out to the store and I went to grab his hand and he 'acted' like he needed to grab something and let go of my hand. We held hands for less than 30 ...

A.   27 September 2009: You really don't deserve to be treated like this guy's treating you. If you've already tried talking to him about all this, and he won't even listen to the concerns you have, then it's pretty obvious he doesn't care about the relationship. If I were ... (read in full...)

Am I only interesting when I'm unavailable?

Q.   So this guy has been waiting for an opportunity to ask me out and even waited through my last relationship for me all the while reassuring me everything would all work out BUT of course he also mentioned everything he would do differently if I were ...

A.   26 September 2009: He asked you out, then didn't show up for the date? If you haven't asked him about it yet, do that. I'm hoping that there was a legitimate reason for him to miss your date. If there wasn't, however, or if he's not in contact with you, I'd move on.... (read in full...)

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