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Did I somehow drive him away? What's he about? Cuddle one day. Then ignore me?

Q.   Recently a new guy started working where I work. After hanging out a few times we exchanged numbers, and soon after we were hanging out all the time. He'd even text me a few times a day just to talk. For about 2 weeks he'd always want me to come...

A.   6 October 2011: I don't think you should worry about it that much, He obviously likes you, maybe he's scared of telling you or he might think you won't like him that way so he's dealing with it himself by staying away. Just talk to him about it, tell him how you ... (read in full...)

Between my family and boyfriend I feel like my entire world is crashing down!

Q.   I live in a family with a brother and a sister along with my parents. Being the 3rd child, I have always felt that my needs have been neglected and not taken care of as done with my siblings. My parents are constantly criticizing me and though they ...

A.   9 June 2011: If you love him and you think he deserves you and you know he won't do it again, then get back with him. I'm sure your parents love you equally, it happens in all familes, on person will feel left out, its apart of life, Hope things work out okay, ... (read in full...)

My lying and flirtatious girlfriend wants me back. What shall I do?

Q.   hi everyone. i was with a very beautiful girl. shes i guess one of the most beautiful girl in the city. but shes no good other than looks. im not the most good looking guy around, but i have a fantastic personality. id loved her selflessly, i co...

A.   7 June 2011: I think you should Give her a chance but have a talk before you get back with her about all the problems and just tell her how she made you feel, tell her you want to commit to her and that you want her all to you, but do what your heart says, do ... (read in full...)

I have been patient but think it might be time to run.

Q.   Ok...so here’s my story. My girlfriend and I were dating for 2 years when we started to have some problems with our relationship. By the end there was so much pushing and pulling we decided to breakup so we could concentrate on our careers. It ...

A.   24 January 2011: Talk to her about how you feel and tell her that your getting upset that she is talking about another man because you love her and you cant think about her with anyone else but you....you have to trust her and she has to trust you help her get a job ... (read in full...)

I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.

Q.   Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it ...

A.   24 January 2011: Nobody can tell you to forgive him or not....if you truly believe that you both love each other then go for it but you have to be careful that he doesnt hurt you again and if he wants to see his child then ask if you could go with him just to be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has problems keeping an erection.

Q.   Okay i am going to jump into this because i am very concerned with this issue. I have been with my boyfriend J for about six months, we have an amazing relationship but an issue because we cant have sex because he has problems staying hard my...

A.   24 January 2011: Dont worry, its not you men go through times like this sometimes its normal but maybe if its happening all the time then you should see a doctor because he could have erectile disfunction but honestly im sure its not you so try not to get self ... (read in full...)

I'm cutting him out of my life because I don't want to be used!

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me and then I dumped him because he was calling me controlling when It was him who was too possessive over me and then he tells me he still loves me so i took him back and i started fighting with his sister and he didnt ...

A.   24 January 2011: I wasnt doing those things it was him who was over crowding me....it got to the point that he would get jelous of me looking at other boys! i wanted to go to a concert and he was like see you love them and u would rather see them than me and i was ... (read in full...)

Break up or work it out?

Q.   i really like this guy... since i was 5.. we used to go to the same church, but we fought alot. people always said wen we were older, we'd get married. 11 yrs later we got together, an i was really elated.. within those 11 yrs i had been with oth...

A.   17 January 2011: First You Should Try And Talk To Him About It Because If he Loves You And You Love Him You Should Trust Each Other...And I have Been In This Position my Boyfriend cheated on me and i was so upset and angry I did end up dumping him because he denyed ... (read in full...)

I like him MORE than a friend... how do I tell him?

Q.   Well I think I like this guy who is my friend and he knows I like him and I want to talk to him about it but I dont know what to say or how he will react? And I dont know if he likes me like that or not so I dont know what to do. Please help"...

A.   16 January 2011: ThankYou.XX... (read in full...)

My boyfriend can be very flirty and has a sick sense of humor.

Q.   I have a situation where I feel stuck and would like a second opinion. Please do let me know what you think, or if you have any good advice on how I could approach this. My boyfriend can be very flirty and has a sick sense of humor. What I am...

A.   15 January 2011: Right, If you both love each other then you have to trust him because if your being insecure it could break you both up because if its who he is he cant help that. and i understand how you feel but aslong as he is faithful to you thats all that ... (read in full...)

Pregnant by my foreign b/f

Q.   SO im with my bf a year now n realized im pregnant oh but shit hes from brazil and we live in ireland and hes only on a student visa we had no plan 4 this and yes were happy just thing is were scared out of our wits were going to be separated we ...

A.   15 January 2011: Well, you would have to talk to him about it because if he wants to be involved in your child's life then he would want the best like you do. Good Luck!X... (read in full...)

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