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My best friend and I haven't talked for 2 months. She refuses my apologies. What can I do?

Q.   Well my bestfriend and i haven't talked for 2 months, we got into a huge argument and we decided to just stop talking. Its killing me inside, we used to do everything together, sports, mall, family events, etc. Now that she's gone i feel empty and ...

A.   3 January 2011: Hey. I am sorry to hear what your going through. Your not the only one facing it though! I know your hurting because you were so close. However, being that you apolagized numerous amounts of times, that is all that you can do. As long as you know ... (read in full...)

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

A.   3 January 2011: Hello! I am sorry to hear about how you are feeling but hopefully I can be some kind of help to you. First, I feel that you have to love yourself first and all else will fall into place. Apart of loving yourself is respecting yourself. Apart ... (read in full...)

In what way can I improve myself to become more attractive to her?

Q.   About 6 months ago I got out of an awful relationship (although it was my first ever one) with a muslim girl; I'm a Hindu myself. Of course, the idea to get involved with her in the first place was not brilliant, however, I've always been ...

A.   15 November 2010: :( I've been there. First, you should try to distance yourself from this girl. Atleast until you build your confidence back up. To build your confidence, there is not one set way. I am not a psychologist or therapist so I do not have any specific ... (read in full...)

Need to focus, but not on her!

Q.   Hello Everyone, I am just overcoming a bad breakup and I now like a girl who caught my interest with her personality. At first she seemed very sincere and caring which drew me in. I am not sure if she likes me back. I think she does because ...

A.   14 November 2010: Hey folks thanks a bunch for your replies! I apolagize because I made it seem as if I am not over my ex. When I said that I am just overcoming a bad breakup I meant that I am at a point where I feel that I am just now able to say I am over her. We ... (read in full...)

Feeling insecure because my partner gets so many compliments

Q.   Ok, here’s the problem - hope some people feel they can offer a little insight: First, to avoid confusion, I’m gay. I’m in a relationship, which appears to be showing signs of being serious. My boyfriend and I have an age gap - I am 33 and he...

A.   14 November 2010: Hey! aww.. I have been there. I am glad that you are honest in realizing your feelings rather than dismissing or denying them. You have realized that he is good looking (in a way that you think you cannot match up) but he is with YOU. Hello...maybe ... (read in full...)

I feel like a freak of nature!

Q.   First I have to inform you all on the story, before my question makes some sense. Okay...Teens/young adults my age usually, already have sex or have sudden urges to do the said act. But...I find myself not feeling those urges, and frankly I don't ...

A.   14 November 2010: You are not a freak. It is totally normal to be a virgin at your age. Enjoy being a virgin and do not rush into anything. Once its gone you cannot have it back again. Wait for the right person and you will be glad that you did! ;)... (read in full...)

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