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... Send *urt a private message | | | *urt's profile: I'm married to the love of my life. We got married in our mid-late twenties.
In my life I have seen many things and have been offered almost everything. I carefully made my choices through my life and still weigh each choice and action. I have and had a great life maybe not the wild life some search for, but now as a father, I have no skeletons in my closet or regrets haunting me. |
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Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?
Q. hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know...
A. 28 February 2007: By the laws of the universe energy never stops. Like a light from a star can be seen here on earth a million years away, after it has burnt out. If you believe your soul to be energy that fuels your life then by those laws it goes on.
So if t... (read in full...)
Why is it so easy for him yet hard for me??
Q. My ex boyfriend let me down, he would break up with me constantly, and would just leave me wondering where he was and what he was doing. I chose to wait till I was married before getting intimate but he says that I didn't give him the things he ...
A. 5 February 2007: You owe him nothing physical or otherwise, he was just a BF and he owes you nothing.
It is better to walk away from a relationship then wasting time on a relationship that has no future.
If he comes back it is because your a warm place ho... (read in full...)
I got mad and told him to get lost and now I deeply regret it. Should I write him a note?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 6 months, we moved in together two months ago and both work at the same company and have pretty much been with each other every day. The thing is we have been having silly little nigly arguments over the ...
A. 5 February 2007: I read somewhere that if fear is part of love it is not real love but infatuation. It sounds like you have one rollercoaster ride love affair going on but it is not real love.
You're so afraid to lose this guy you're willing to swallow your prid... (read in full...)
Should I keep giving him his freedom or will doing this make him fool around on me?
Q. my bf still had online friends and girl friends who kept on contacting on his cellphone, i know everything was just a hi and hello thing just like mine to my friends. I wanted to be considerate of not to ask him bout it for i trusted him that he ...
A. 5 February 2007: If you're questioning this relationship and if he will cheat or not, dump the guy. When dating you should use your time wisely finguring out what you would like in a lifetime partner not stressing if he will cheat or not.
You need to walk away... (read in full...)
My bf loves me, but he feels I don't appreciate him enough! What can I do?
Q. I feel that i do not show my appreciation for my boyfriend enough, my boyfriend has mentioned that he doesn't feel that i respect/appreciate him although i know he loves me so much. I love him so much, we have been togethor for 1 year and a half and ...
A. 5 February 2007: Dating is a time to test out personalities and characteristics in people to find the absolute best fit for you. It sounds like you're getting close but this pair up isn't quite right. Don't change for a BF.
If you really love him then you let ... (read in full...)
He says I wasn't the woman for him right from the start! Should I just move on?
Q. I have been with a guy for the last 2 years, We had our ups and downs. He has ended things with me a few times but I took him back everytime, but only because he came running back. This time though he has ended it with me, but still told me that he ...
A. 5 February 2007: You had become a comfortable habit. He kept you to warm his bed and do his bidding, while he waits for his ideal woman to make an appearance then he would drop you like a week old sandwich.
This will happen over and over until you stop it or h... (read in full...)
He dumped me saying he wanted to date no one..but he went on a date last night with another girl! Should I tell her what he's like?
Q. i split with my bf of 2 months.... 2 weeks ago, because he said he wasnt ready for a relationship with any1 at the moment! i have now found out he went on a date with sum1 last night! do you think he was lying to me about our split, or do yo think ...
A. 5 February 2007: This guy sounds young. It also sounds like he didn't like you enough to keep you as a GF, but liked you enough that he didn't want to hurt your feelings.
Being young and not knowing the correct way to let you down easy he lied to you.
Dating ... (read in full...)
I ended it...because he flirts with others a lot and I find this hard to trust him. Did I do the right thing?
Q. I've been with a guy a bit older than me (15 years) for the past four months. He's the doorman at a social club where I work on the bar. I've really fallen in love with him, but he's a terrible flirt and I've found this hard to cope with. He also ...
A. 5 February 2007: You were right to dump him. Don't start questioning your good sense. Get on with your life and be glad to have only wasted 4 months on that guy.
He never loved you, even drunk. Alcohol makes inhibitions low and many will say things that are not ... (read in full...)
My bf has been secretly visiting 'swing' clubs and cheating on me! What should I do?
Q. Hi i recently found out my boyfriend of 4 years has been frequenting swinging clubs for the past few months and having casual sex. Im heartbroken, but I feel like an idiot as i thought he loved me. When i confronted him he said it was a once off...
A. 5 February 2007: He is just a BF, you're not engaged, and you're not married you owe him nothing and he you. Dating is a time to try out different people and find out what you like and don't in a lifetime partner.
Realizing this man has sexual tastes that you ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him if he doesnt get me anything for Valentines??
Q. My bf havent gave me a gift on holiday but i did give him a belt as my present for him, are guys like that? My bf just dont want to give me anything.i knew he had money to buy one,but does it shows the he dont love me or dont want me to be happy? ...
A. 5 February 2007: Some girls have pointed out holidays and even gave suggested gift lists. This did make it easier on me to know what my GF's expectations are. It isn't always easy to pick up on 'girl' clues. With my true love, I always want to shower her in gifts ... (read in full...)
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