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Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?

Q.   Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...

A.   15 June 2010: Forget her you do what you feel Im guyanese and dated a black boy and although my family dislikes it they should deal with it because it is who i like and chose not them.... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my cousin!

Q.   ok I met my cousin for the first time last weekend, and the moment i saw him i have been obsesed with him. i think its wrong by law but i cannot help it. he was so nice when i met him and has been everseen (on facebook) but he lives miles away and ...

A.   14 June 2010: Well, tell him how you feel just say hey I have to tell you something but I dont know how you would take it? see his reaction he'll probably really want to know so you tell him exactly how you feel and tell him you know its wrong but you cant help ... (read in full...)

My GF loves giving oral sex, but she's horrible at it - how can I tell her?

Q.   Hi all, im jo and im 22 years old. i have a very beautiful Gf AND She is 19. We have been dating for 3 months or more. My problem is that my gf is crazy about (Oral sex) i mean we have never spent more than 3 days without doing it for at least 1 t...

A.   1 April 2010: just say simply baby your hurting me thats all. if she loves you she'll stop watch porn with her and let her see how the girls do it.... (read in full...)

I found out my daughter's bisexual when I looked at her email!

Q.   I am concerned about my daughter. She is 18 at Xmas and has been very friendly with a girl a year younger. They are good friends and I have let my daughter stay overnight at her place on many many occasions. Her friend has also stayed here as ...

A.   30 March 2010: just tell her i know about what is going on ..and its okay im just angry u hid this from me.. its ok if she has a gf you must accept your child maybe theres a reason shes bi.. boys arent always the best.... (read in full...)

He knew I liked her, why did he take her?

Q.   Well, today I found out that a so called "loyal friend" went behind my back and asked a girl out I liked. He knew fine well I liked her and it wasn't her who asked him out. He also lied that his ex finished him. What can I do about it? Would telling ...

A.   17 March 2010: yess...and hes not a good friend at all ... (read in full...)

I'm too "sensitive" when she's talking to other guys.

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months total with a couple of break ups here and there. When we first met, she had a boyfriend, but he wasn't the best person. he was a player, and barely made any effort to see her and it was a ...

A.   9 March 2010: You really dont need her trust me you dont she sounds slutty in my opinion but thatsz my opinion you can find better or cutt her out of your life for a month and she'll b running back...anyway i hope all is well PEACE&LOVE -- CHRISTIANNA... (read in full...)

We hit it off, but she is my friends little sister. Help!

Q.   I have liked this girl for about 3 years now, we hung out and we really seemed to hit it off, the problem is recently i found out that she is one of my friends little sister (i should have realized by the last name). He says he is cool with me if i ...

A.   7 March 2010: well if he said that hesz cool with it then you should go ahead because if he wasnt im sure he would of said it from the start.... (read in full...)

Should I tell her that I love her? Does what she said mean she doesn't love me?

Q.   So my girl and i have been goin out for about two weeks. I love her to death but still havnt told her i like her. But just today we were playing truth or dare on her little sisters ipod and one of the questions were have you ever been in love and ...

A.   7 March 2010: imma girl and i have guys tellin me like 2 days after meeting me that they love me i find it strange and when your in a relationship itsz good to take things slow because when you go to fast things get too boring after awhile. I would say wait for ... (read in full...)

I love him and want to believe this is all a "joke" but it has gone too far

Q.   So i have a really complex situation, and don't know what to do.. The problem is my boyfriend has been talking to another girl on skype and facebook. He tells me when he talks to her and what is said. But thats not exactly the truth. See, h...

A.   7 March 2010: OMG thats so horrible you know what sweety go and delete that girl from facebook or add her on yours or create a new facebook and add her ..start talkin to her become her friend and get details from her about whatsz happening in her life..in m ... (read in full...)

I fell in love with my cousin! How do I handle this?

Q.   People I need your advice here? My 1st cousin and I are really in love and he is 5 yrs older than me.we never really told each other that we did because it felt strange.It all started like this...My family moved to his town when I was like 10...we ...

A.   7 March 2010: okay well my opinion on this is i know how you feel but your cousin is someone you should consider family no sexual contact should be there. Another thing if you love your cousin no problem but if you start loving him more and more to the point ... (read in full...)

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