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Should I tolerate my husband's infedelity so he won't leave us?

Q.   Well.. I have been married to my husband for 8 years and together for 13. We began dating early and got married at 19. We have two young children. He has a relationship with another woman, it's just sex and fun. I don't want him to go and he doesn't ...

A.   16 January 2009: NO! When he married you he vowed to just be with you and he sure did not vow to have his cake and eat it to!!!! I believe that sometimes people stay married for all the wrong reasons like the biggest one for the kids and I am sure if you have a ... (read in full...)

How can I earn her mom's trust?

Q.   I hear so much about people who do not think relationships with with large age gaps work out. Keeping in mind that we all know someone somewhere who has found someone many years younger or older than them. My Girlfriends grandparents were 8 years ...

A.   16 January 2009: Well this reminds me of when I was only 16 and my Ex was 25, my mother never agreed because in this day and age it is judged by our peers that older men that seek younger girls only want to play a controlling mind game, which is not always true! You ... (read in full...)

I don't want to disappoint him...

Q.   I am a little worried about this guy I have arranged to go out with, we have been talking to each other for a long time and he finally asked me out which I am made up about, the problem is he thinks I am this confident funny person who is up for ...

A.   16 January 2009: I believe the worst disappointment is of a person being fake, now before you get mad about the fake word I mean it in the way he has taken it upon his self to judge you and his judgement was clearly wrong. You need to just let him know or let him ... (read in full...)

Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex and kids? He doesn't even see them any more!

Q.   My long-term boyfriend was married with 3 kids before he met me. When he met me, he left his wife and kids for me, because he was unhappy with her, and knew straight away that I was his soulmate. This was 19 months ago... The thing is, I feel...

A.   15 January 2009: It has been a while since I have been on I hope the best for you two but like I said if he did it to his wife with kids he will do it to you and if you two have kids together any man that is willing to be with someone that will say that they hate ... (read in full...)

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