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Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

Q.   I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer ...

A.   8 January 2015: Been over 6 years since we met and now we are moving in together. Crazy how everybody thought that I was stupid. We have a wonderful relationship. Thanks to everybody for your hateful messages.... (read in full...)

Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

Q.   I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer ...

A.   18 May 2011: So it has been more than 2 years since I wrote this question, wow. Guess what folks we are still seeing each other. I love how so many were so negative about our relationship. We are not living together or talking about marriage or anything like ... (read in full...)

Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

Q.   I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer ...

A.   13 February 2009: I found out yesterday while talking with some of my coworkers who use to work with his ex that she indeed cheated on him for a long time. I did not even ask the questions they were just talking about previous employees. I found it very ... (read in full...)

Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you?

Q.   Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you? What are some fun ideas? Do you like to have a romantic evening leading up to sex for Valentine's Day? Do you enjoy sex on Valentine's Day? How can your guy make Valentine's Day sex for ...

A.   9 February 2009: I will have to agree with aunty rach. I would just love something simple. Invite her to your house light a few candles, set her down to a nice meal, home cooked if you know how, or take out if you don't. You may want to get her something nice ... (read in full...)

How do I know if we are just "dating" or in a relationship?

Q.   How do you know if your someone's "girlfriend" or not? I've been going on dates with this guy since the beginning of January.A few days ago,I went to his house and he made dinner for me(which i thought was VERY sweet) and we watched movies.H...

A.   9 February 2009: The only advice I can give you next time you and him are out see how he introduces you to his friends, if he says this is my friend, then you know that you are not his girlfriend. If he just uses your name to introduce you to his friends he may be ... (read in full...)

Should I confess to my boyfriend what I've done in the past, or simply be the perfect, loyal girlfriend from now on?

Q.   hey, i have been with my boyfriend for four years....ive always done little things that he wouldnt have liked in the past but i didnt think of them as a big deal....this past month i cheated on him....it wasnt really big, i hugged a guy intimately ...

A.   9 February 2009: Well here are my thoughts, what exactly are those little things? If you are just talking to a male friend, or if you are just giving a friend a hug you are doing nothing wrong. If you are being intimate with them, like kissing them or having any ... (read in full...)

It feels like he only wants a live-in partner, not a lover.

Q.   I am middle aged, 2 years seperated, in a 13 month relationship with a single guy. Nice guy, does not show or express what is going on 'inside'. No talk on future plans but behaves as though we are an item. When questioned, he states, "I spend all ...

A.   9 February 2009: Men are crazy I am in a weird relationship too he acts like he is my boyfriend, but won't say that we are together he tells me not to fall in love and that he is not the right man for me. I just think all men are selfish and they are only out to ... (read in full...)

Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

Q.   I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer ...

A.   9 February 2009: BTW I do know that those women cheated on him because one of the women has a child by another man so it is obvious, the other one I was told by his kids that their mom cheated. The reason we went to lunch and not dinner and I did not stay with him ... (read in full...)

My wife does not like sex...

Q.   I have been married for 11 years I love my wife sooooooo much but sex priorities are far apart, I had doubts about our compatibility the week before our wedding but know that a lady can't be 100% perfect, sex is the only area that she is not 100%. ...

A.   9 February 2009: I was in a commited relationship for eight years and for the first five I always wanted to have sex with him. Then things started to change. I fell out of love with him and I just did not want to have sex with him anymore. I suggest marriage ... (read in full...)

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