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I love answering questions and think I can help people expand their horizons and think outside of the box to find solutions to their problems. Don't expect me to be gently or say what you want to hear. I promise to tell it like it is and not pull any punches if you need a 'wake-up call."

It may be helpful to know that I am writing a book on human sexuality and how our attitudes are shaped by our experiences. Someone once asked me to define the words kinky or perverted... my answer is they are only kinky or perverted if you haven't tried them.... yet. LOL

My boyfriend is dirty and won't take a shower for me, how can I get him to?

Q.   My Boyfriend does not like to keep himself hygienically clean. He is almost a 40 year old man. His average is a shower every three days. He thinks that he is clean. It gets hard to be intimate due to his lack of cleanliness; it affects my sex life ...

A.   13 November 2012: Let me make sure I understand your question. You have been living with this problem for more than 3 years and think something you say or do is going to change things? I’m just wondering how long you have known him and if this was a problem right ... (read in full...)

Our female room mate who has a crush on my boyfriend walked by our room naked last night!

Q.   So this situation is kind of awkward. My bf and I recently got a new roommate. She is fine most of the time, but she kind of had/has a crush on my bf (he thought she was cute in the past, but is totally over it), and used to flirt with him a lot. I ...

A.   13 November 2012:  Reading the responses to you question should leave little doubt to what 'accidentally' happened and what it means... or could lead to. However, I am a little surprised at why your even asked the question. From my perspective... as a guy... you ... (read in full...)

Dildo dilemma!!!

Q.   Hi this is a question mainly for women!!! my ex got me a vibrator, it’s very soft and adaptable is not very wide so it fits just fine, the problem is it hurts when i insert it so i cannot use it... when he was using it on me it didn’t feel that ...

A.   13 November 2012: I apologize in advance for taking the liberty to offer my 2 cents on the subject since I am… a guy! But, I do have some gal friends that have shared their feelings on the subject with me as part of my research into sexuality for a book I am writing ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him what's on my mind?

Q.   hi everyone.i'm facing a relationship crises.i'm deeply in love with this guy for about one and a half year, he's my college, and since 5 monthes he uncovered that he loved me too and since then we've been dating.the intensity of love led us to do ...

A.   13 November 2012: I’m not sure I follow all the ‘facts’ you have presented here, but I do get the general drift behind you question. I think you are wondering if you really loves you… or did he just say all the right things and act like a romantic knight in shinning ... (read in full...)

How can I help my boyfriend adjust to us living together?

Q.   Hey guys, I need some advice on how I can help my bf to step up to the mark with practicalities of living together (which was his idea in the first place!) so that it can work for both of us, please. We've been together 2 years, very happy. He ...

A.   13 November 2012:  You are aware that ‘Men are from Mars… and Women are from Venus’.. right? Guys and gals don’t see living together the same way. Women think that it is a sign that things are great and the relationship is progressing… however, guys may think al... (read in full...)

I'd like to date this guy from work, but what if it goes wrong?

Q.   soo, there's this guy. we work for the same newspaper (him as an advertising salesman, and me as a reporter). I've been here since March, and he showed up in either late August or early September. I was really excited about that, because I'm the ...

A.   13 November 2012: Not sure you are going to like... or respect what I am going to say... but I think you need to hear the bad news. Many companies have policies that prohibit people from dating others working in the same place. Having made the mistake of dating ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a guy stares at you or smiles at you?

Q.   So I was talking to this guy and he would give me eye contact when we would talk to each other. Even after we stopped speaking, he would sometimes just smile at me or he would stare at me. I didn't know whether he was just being friendly or if he ...

A.   13 November 2012: Ah...that you might have spinach in your teeth? I'm not sure what you expect to hear other than he is interested in you... and is looking for some encouragement for him to make the next move. I think it is important for you to realize that guys ... (read in full...)

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