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My husband cheated told me 10 months later and I can't get past the bitterness and hurt

Q.   Husband of 26 years got approached by a prostitute when he was in Makati City, Manila. She asked him if he was alone and would like some afternoon company. He said sure and then go back to the New World Makati Hotel and have sex using a condom. He ...

A.   7 August 2013: He sounds very sorry for having been so rash. I do agree with rcn. You sound like you want him to feel bad. But i can very much relate, as i have the same sort of annoyance. When he acts like he is ok, you worry he has forgotten the pain he caused ... (read in full...)

After losing my virginity to an escort I am left wondering if sex is overrated

Q.   Hi all, I just wanted to confess that I had just lost my virginity to an escort. She came to my place and had arranged a 1 hour session. To my surprise, I didn't couldn't stay fully erect all the time. I thought I would finish very quickly beca...

A.   6 August 2013: When you are with somebody you love and care about, just being around them can make you happy. A hug can feel intimate and passionate. And just imagine the feeling of getting that orgasm in the arms of that person. For me, there are three le... (read in full...)

My virgin boyfriend can't stay hard to have sex and makes me feel totally unattractive

Q.   I'm 17, nearly 18 and I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. I was not a virgin when I first started dating him - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend - but my current boyfriend is still a virgin. At the beginning of our ...

A.   6 August 2013:  From a psychologist's standpoint, this qualifies as emotional abuse. You pressure him to live up to your ex's model. You scold him about something he wishes desperately he could change. And you accuse him of "making YOU feel unattractive"? ...y... (read in full...)

How do I casually set up a situation for oral sex?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have fooled around before and i like it and i know he wants to do more but i've never done any of that before. hes felt me up and fingered me but thats the most ive ever done. ive never given a blowjob or a handjob and i feel ...

A.   6 August 2013: Give him a hard on. Tease him up. Soon he will be raring to go, and you can slowly move your hand up his thigh almost to his junk. Look him in the eyes and ask him if hes ready for a little bit more action... Something like that. Gaurantee he will ... (read in full...)

My wife cannot have sex because of a medical problems and I need relief!

Q.   Hello, My problem is embarrassing, but it is affecting my life very significantly now, and medicine seems not to be of help. My wife is everything to me. We met in college and fell in love, and everything went okay. We didn't have sex before ...

A.   6 August 2013: I will not pretend to understand your culture, but as a female, i do know your wife would probably offer you just about anything to get you satisfied- and will probably be hurt if you take her up on the offers. She shouldnt be so offended when you... (read in full...)

What is a very horny, very faithful girl with a not-so horny boyfriend to do?

Q.   I've been with a boyfriend for three years and at this point, I just don't know what to do anymore. First off, my boyfriend is a very good guy. He's respectful towards me and my family and friends, doesn't "kiss and tell", supports my goals and ...

A.   6 August 2013: These are the symptoms of depression. I would suggest sitting him down and talking seriously about seeing a councellor. Let him know you are willing to be there during the session or to be absent and give him privacy. If he is not willing to see a ... (read in full...)

Should I continue this long distance relationship or try to cut it off to avoid heartbreak?

Q.   About five years ago I met a guy, along with a handful of other people from all over the world, while playing an online game. I've kept in good contact with many of these people throughout the years. This guy in particular has been a great fri...

A.   6 August 2013: I can tell youre dying to go for it. Heres my success story so far. Though ill say it might come off as funny at first. I admit it..., i met my boyfriend on (drumroll) ...world of warcraft -.- ...laugh it up. But it worked. We lived on oppos... (read in full...)

I have strong feelings for my friend but am sexually restricted by my culture. What do her actions mean? What should I do?

Q.   I am an Arab man (but also a Christian). The rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. Of course man and woman can do whatever...

A.   6 August 2013: It sounds to me like she is dropping some huge hints for you. She likes you, and it sounds like your culture is quite patriarchal- males are in charge. She switched clothes and gave you the oppurtunity to look at her because she sees you like ... (read in full...)

I want this to be the best date she's ever had! Help!

Q.   So I'm currently on the cusp of something big with a girl I've had a crush on for years. We met when we were 8 and grew up together and all that cliche crap. Fast forward to me actually doing something about it because frankly, I was sick of her ...

A.   6 August 2013: I hope im not too late to answer! Im a gal who friendzoned a guy for years before waking the he11 up and seeing him for what he really was- the best friend and listener i had ever had in my life. We have been the first everything for eachother, ... (read in full...)

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